Same sex tickling if you're not gay? Opposite-sex tickling if you are?

[vegasfootboy]

wow!

since i find 2 women interracting in an intimate manner extremely sexy i guess im not altogether a completely " straight" man,, lol! guess i better get me a gay pride bumper sticker : ),, and i guess that all the millions of so called " straight " men who enjoy it also had better start picking out thier costumes for the next gay pride parade,,,


SOLIDARITY

 

[Dadec]

Re: Looks Like Mark..

And ElectricEye are hitting it off quite nicely. Well done Benedict.

Tron

😕

 

[kcantankerous]

guess you should get your sticker out vt

Look no need to get offended. I just dont see the attraction to tickling another of the same sex. And I for one have no desire whatsoever to tickle another man. Maybe that bothers you but common now, no need to get testy. It's like this if you experiment thats your deal or anyone else's. But when you have to tell everyone, for example "I like tickling other dudes but Im not gay" than that leaves room for questioning. I guess what Im saying is if you think its fun thats one thing, but if you get off on that than you need to take a look at your own sexuality.

 

[vegasfootboy]

hmmm???

diddnt say that bro,, and if you read my post it says im not gay,, the fact that i dont put way too much worry into who tickles me tells me that im alot more secure with my sexuality than most : ) so cool yer jets hotrod,,,

 

[kcantankerous]

is that right? well good for you I suppose. I'm fine with mine too.

 

[vegasfootboy]

if every,,,,,,

if every guy in this world who got turned on by watching 2 women together were excited by it about 90 percent of the population would be homosexual

 

[vegasfootboy]

????

lol! i think i said that correctly,, just got home and havnt slept yet

 

[kcantankerous]

what?

I dont care for two girls having sex or watching anyone having sex or sexual acts or anykind. But I figure if I were to be into watching two girls having sex, than I should support homosexuality to a certain degree. I think? I dont think that makes you gay if you like watching two of the opposite sex though. Just makes the person a hipocrity (sp).

 

[kcantankerous]

if that person doesnt support homosexuality.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Please...please...

What I was really hoping for was that this thread could just be a compilation of different people's tastes, something akin to "I like my hamburgers with ketchup," "I don't like ketchup, I like mustard instead," etc. I was hoping that nobody's tastes would imply an opinion of anybody else's tastes, because it's just educational to see how people differ. It interests me very much that some straight men would enjoy m/m tickle play and other straight men wouldn't. I was really hoping everybody who participated here could do it without even remotely implying a value judgment on anybody else's taste.

As I've said before, the one thing we all have in common is, we all have an idiosyncracy that much of the mainstream would think is deviant and sick, so if anybody is in a position to be homophobic or feel socially superior to anybody else on account of proclivities (assuming that no non-consensual activity or minors are involved), it isn't us.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Oh, I forgot...

Knogz, the spelling you were looking for is hypocrite.

 

[rob3825]

just my $.02

I have to say that I enjoy being tickled by women as well as men, but as far as tickling someone else, I'd much rather tickle a female. I've been tickled by many gay men and I enjoy providing for them
that same thrill that I get when I have a very ticklish pair of female feet in my clutches. I'm very ticklish and as long as someone enjoys my reactions, then I don't care who's doing it.My wife knows this and loves to see me be tickled by other men. Sometimes she sits back and watches; other times she'll join in my punishment.Am I lucky or what??

 

[stacyshippen]

I totally love watching F/F and fantasizing about it but am very much a hetero female...though watching girl on girl porn really doesn't do anything for me. I'll watch for fun with DH when the mood strikes him, but it's just not how I'm wired 🙂

One of these days I'll get the cojones to hit a gathering and see what it's like to play with an girl in real life (or heck, the guys too!), but as I've occasionally mentioned I have some challenges with DH. I feel for a lot of the guys on board here who have similar challenges with their wives 🙂

And yes, I know I'm a big chickenshit 🙂 Steph, you be my hero!

Peace,
Stacy

P.S. WIP, long time no see, glad to see you back here!

 

[TheW]

Tickling platonically

Contemporary mores allow for adults to tickle children in certain contexts, but between adults would be assumed to be sexual. I have picked up these mores, so any tickling with adults would be sexual in nature for me. I'm probably going to get the Erotic Tickling book.
So, my ultimate fantasy would be to restrain a beautiful young women (with her consent) and stimulate her until she passed out from exhaustion.

 

[steph]

LOL!

Welcome back Stacey, you little flatterer you!
You should know you'd make a LOT of guys here ecstatic if you ever attended one...😉
I was nervous at first too, BTW, but I started with Munches, which we had all year before the first play party, which was nice because I was very comfortable with the gang by then. Maybe you'll get as lucky as I did hon! 😉
XOXO

And yes, I know I'm a big chickenshit 🙂 Steph, you be my hero!

 

[tickleshotel]

I enjoy watching F/F ,haven;t seen M/M though would be intriqued seeing it as well as watching M/F which is a turn on wishing the lee were me LOL,participating in F/M & M/F being the Ler or the Lee and I am open participating in F/F when the other female is mutual and boundaries are respected especially if the Female is a Switch which I am a Switch myself..

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

What a great thread! I know that the last post was in February, but I just have to respond... (This is my first day on the board.)

Bravo to everyone who said whatever floats your boat. I am into m/m, but I think f/f, m/f and f/m are cool, too.

I honestly don't know if I would enjoy being tickled by a woman, but I would be willing to try it. Same for tickling one. My fantasies are about men, but ya never know... I always like expanding my horizons, and such an experience would give me the chance to think about what I WOULD like if I WERE straight... 🙂

I have a background in science fiction fandom, where I have met a lot of slash writers who are still friends today. Slash = romantic and/or sexual stories about characters... Mulder and Scully, Kirk and Spock, all three of Charlie's Angels in a tub of whipped cream... Whatever. Although I have written mostly m/m slash, I know that most m/m slash is actually written by heterosexual or bisexual women. They write gays better than we write ourselves! I have been moved to tears by some of the m/m romantic slash some of my female friends have written

I say all this because, years ago, two bisexual women once requested a lesbian story from me--and I gave it my all. Not only did they find it hot but, shock of all shocks, a gay male friend told me that even he had found it hot. I have to admit that I did have fun writing it. I had the chance to think about what I WOULD like if I WERE a lesbian.

I may even try my hand at a F/M tickling story (or maybe mutual M/F and F/M tickling?) here. Why not? I do get a tiny bit bi-curious every now and then.

Let's see what happens to my first piece of m/m tickle fiction, which I posted a little while ago. Once I get my tickle pens in gear...

Now...

Some people (both straight and gay) are not comfortable experiencing tickling with the sex they are not attractred to... And that is fine. Anyone who is not against my freedom is cool in my book. He or she need not like the same things. I have more straight male friends than gay friends, and they accept me as a gay person. (At the risk of sounding stereotypical... We're talking poker and beer in someone's basement--or even in my apartment.) I don't need to flaunt anything or make them uncomfortable by testing the waters in any way. They are my friends. Period.

Some people on this thread asked if it is offensive when they say they are not to be into m/m stories. NOT AT ALL! Again, whatever floats your boat.

But if I ever do meet a straight guy who wants his feet tickled by me, super cool! (Hasn't happened since I was in my late teens... And now I am in my late 30s) I don't tickle any of my straight male friends today, but there were many tickle fights when we were teens. I can still see them in my mind's eye...

 

[mytoesrticklish]

Same Sex Tickling

I have been tickled by other females in the past and every event was very intense for me. One event in particular took place a few years ago while attending High School, and she was a very good tickler.

 

[WorkInProgress]

Welcome, GoForTheLaugh, and I see you and I are neighbors. Maybe later in the summer we can have another of our dinner-and-drinks evenings for the New York City contingent.

And, greetings to you, MyToesRTicklish. High school, eh? Those ticklish toes of yours r 18, I trust? *with a smile*

 

[kis123]

I totally love watching F/F and fantasizing about it but am very much a hetero female...though watching girl on girl porn really doesn't do anything for me.

This comment pretty much wraps it up for me. I'm definitely heterosexual, but sometimes the girl on girl is pretty intense. Women can be evil ticklers, and the revenge is usually worse.

But nothing can ever replace the thrill of bringing a man to laughs, squeals, and pleading! I just love a ticklish man!!!!!!!!!

BTW, your sexual orientation means nothing to me-it's not like we're getting married or something! All's pretty much fair in tickling fun.

 

[Ticklshchic03]

I am fairly openly a gay female and I dont feel comfrotable with guys tickling me unless they are close friends and its strictly platonic (sp?). But there are very few guys (I can only think of two right now) that I wouldnt get extreamly uncomfortable with. Most tickling that I partake in is platonic and among friends just joking around. While the certain girl doing it will turn me on with it with flirting (thats why I blush more often when a very attractive stright female friend of mine does it and I stop her) but I am not really comfortable with male in general due to some bad experiances in my life (and yes one of them has to do with tickling). To each his own but for me, males arnt really in the picture.

 

[The_Laugher]

I'll add my 2 cents worth. To start with I am very glad to see all the openess and understanding in this thread. In the past the subject of M/M tickling seemed to intice a select few to flame away on thos who enjoy it. So it is good to see the open communication and respect that is evident here in this thread.

I for one am straight and have said numerious times that I do not use tickling for sexual pleasure nor do I get any sexual pleasure out of it. So with that in mind I have no problem with M/M tickling. I have viewed many videos of it and have had a ton a great tickling sessions with friends of mine over my 48 years of taking up space on this earth. So long as there is no sex and the guy is just htere to have fun being the lee or the ler, I say go for it.

 

[LeeAllure]

I like the laughter, squirming, screaming, thrashing, etc of
tickling - it gives me great pleasure to see someone, either
male or female, in the throes of this delicious torment 😉

I'm not paticularly concerned with who's doing the tickling,
f/f, f/m, m/f, m/m are all good to me, as long as the bottom
is truly ticklish, and the top is relentless, and innovative.

I'm definitely a 'ler, and not very ticklish; I enjoy tickling
both men and women, and I don't mind if either sex tries
to get revenge (although that just makes me laugh, and
not in a "heehee, that tickles" kind of way.

Lee

 

[Iggy pop]

Whatever two consenting adults want to do is fine with me. Tickling is sexual for me, and being a hetrosexual male, I have no desire to tickle other males. But if two other guys want to tickle each other, that is fine with me. You know, a few years ago a male friend tried to tickle me, and it did not tickle at all. If a woman tickled me then I would be ticklish. So I think there is some kind of sub consious control there.

 

[GoForTheLaugh]

Just wanted to thank the people on this thread for the non-flame posts. You have really opened my eyes.

On my mainstream board (which is political/philosophical and has nothing whatsoever to do with tickling), I have just tickle-flirted with a bisexual woman--and I realize I would be totally O.K. with non-sexual tickling (giving or receiving) with her. We will most likely never meet, but she is someone whose wise posts I adore.

I don't think I would be all right with most women, but there may be some others. Have to think about it. This is a first for me. 🙂 Just a few days ago I would have said no way...