Bad Experience with Asian Massage

[markymarc]

As a male ticklee, it is very difficult to find female ticklers in my area. And being somewhat ashamed and shy about this fetish of mine doesn't make it any easier. I have resorted to frequenting Asian Spas as of late. As everyone here knows, Asian women are incredible ticklers, and I have had some intense tickling sessions with them. It is fairly affordable and when a cute, younger male walks into these places, you should see their eyes light up. I'm guessing that is due to the usual patrons that they get.

I went to a new place near me and the girl that came in was absolutely beautiful. I told her that I was looking for a light touch massage or more specifically that I wanted to be tickled. The short of it is, she didn't know what I meant or how to tickle?!? I tried showing her, but she wasn't into it at all and the entire experience was terrible. This is the first time I have been disappointed using this medium to fulfill my insatiable need to be tickled.

Anyone else had a bad experience with this?

 

[Em Es]

You bet I have

Whether you want to tickle or get tickled, if the massage girl does not satisfy you, tell her to leave and to send another girl in, which I did once.

 

[MrTicklefeet]

I've done that, in searching out sensual massage joints, and said up frount about being tickled. One place responded, "Ahh, well then you want to see Diana." Diana loves to tickle, so apparently any ticklees get refered to her.
In talking with her however, it seems I'm only her second 'tickle guy'. Poor gal. hehehehe

 

[TickledToDeath]

marc

You should look into other establishments that will "cater" to your desires and requests. They cannot be the only Asian game in town.

Seek and ye shall find my friend. Even the 😱 internet may lend some assistance in your search.

Chi town is a big windy city...I am sure something will blow by your way if you look hard enough and it may not be that hard.

TTD

 

[Phineas]

As everyone here knows, Asian women are incredible ticklers

We do? I don't recall getting the official press release on the boundless skill of Asian women as ticklers.

I keep the company of many Asian women, including my wife. My travels have taken me to both China and Japan. Asian women tickle no better or worse than any other ethnic group. I'd imagine you just perceive they do because you, like many other people here, find something "magical" about these exotic women and it heightens the experience somehow.

In other words, don't stereotype.

As far as not knowing what tickling is, it's not hard to do a little research and learn what it means in different languages (Japanese: Kusuguru. Mandarin: yang, second tone I believe). find out where the girl's from and translate. or just give her a hands-on demonstration. 😀

 

[jordan]

I remember seeing something with messaging/tickling. Basically the girl tickled the guys foot for a second and that was it.

 

[Neutron]

Re: You bet I have

Whether you want to tickle or get tickled, if the massage girl does not satisfy you, tell her to leave and to send another girl in. I have done it several times.

One time only two girls were working and neither wanted to tickle. I told the manager to refund money, and she did.

The Mama San must have been generous that day. Try that in most places and they'll say Sorry, you made your choice, then boot you sans refund.

Tron

 

[Deleted member 2452]

hey markymarc!

did you receive my tmf private message?

steve

 

[TickledToDeath]

We do? I don't recall getting the official press release on the boundless skill of Asian women as ticklers.

LOL......I missed that Press Release and the Special Report on CNN too!

Perhaps his thoughts came from what is know about Ancient "Chineese Tickle Torture" and figured it was the women in china who performed the tickle tortures on captive spys etc. .
An assumption that is understandable. 😉

TTD

 

[Phineas]

An assumption that is understandable.

...maybe if you believe every stereotypical fantasy you read in forums such as this...

but if you actually happen to know any Asians whose company you don't have to pay for, your opinion of them tends to change rather quickly.

 

[TickledToDeath]

...maybe if you believe every stereotypical fantasy you read in forums such as this...

but if you actually happen to know any Asians whose company you don't have to pay for, your opinion of them tends to change rather quickly.

Actually, I know very few Asians and to my knowledge NONE of them are into tickling or are any good at it if asked TO tickle. On the same note...I don't know any Ancient Asians either. Maybe next time I am at a Chineese Resturant, I will ask the waitress.😉 🙄

TTD

 

[Phineas]

Actually, I know very few Asians and to my knowledge NONE of them are into tickling or are any good at it if asked TO tickle.

precisely. in fact, I've been lucky enough to correspond with the (very few) female Asian members of the forum we've had come through. every single one of them said they weren't into tickling until a boyfriend "forced" them into it.

On the same note...I don't know any Ancient Asians either.

my mother-in-law is old, but not Ancient. hehe I've tickled my wife's boss (50 year old Chinese woman, still very attractive, very young-looking feet), but despite being very ticklish, kept saying "I'm too old for this". 😀

Maybe next time I am at a Chineese Resturant, I will ask the waitress.

five bucks says if she has even the slightest bit of a Chinese accent she'll think you're a nutcase.

I don't see us stereotyping any other ethnic groups around here much anymore, so why do we all still look at Asian women as submissive little geisha dolls or mysterious Dragon Ladies, I wonder? Is it because we don't actually *have* any here so that we're forced to respect them as equals?

Man, if I keep this up I'm gonna fall off my soapbox...

*crash*

 

[RChello]

ok how bout native american <indian> women then,,,, you know, they all wear feather headresses all day ,,,surely they how to tickle,,,,,how 's that for stereotyping....shutting up now🙂

 

[Oddjob0226]

I've had some dissapointing experinces both as a 'ler and 'lee, but for the most part they have been good experiences. 1 lady I saw occasinally even wanted to come to our gathering last year when I mentioned it.

And as a TMF Red Feather in good standing, I promise to do my part to continue stereotyping the other ethnic groups here as it seems to be decline on this site. Except the Polish, of course, becuase they wouldn't get it.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Maybe Japaneese Pilots still aim for Pearl Harbor?!😛 😉 😀

All Italians are in the "Waste Management" business.😉

All Arabs drive Taxis.

All Chineese know how to build really big walls with passage ways and towers and and and.....😱 🙄 😎 😉 😀

 

[Sinclair]

I was lucky to find a place where an Asian woman would give me a massage & then the last 20 minutes, tied me to the table & tickled my naked body. It was fantastic!

 

[kurchatovium]

So how do you guys find these places?

 

[Oddjob0226]

Well, to find these places you do have to look around a bit,but every big city will have something like this. A good place to start is look in the local phonebook under "bath", "massage" "entertainers" or even "escorts". The name of the business usually gives it away. There are also often tabloid publications in adult bookstores that advertise such places - even offering coupons!



And a totally true story - in February of this year I was in TWO car accidents 2 days appart. The first time I was hit by a nice Jewish doctor in a BMW, and the next time I was hit by an Arab cab driver named Farood. I was hit by two stereotypes! Got the insurance reports to back it up. Rest assured, I now have my eyes open for any stray rickshaws or buggies being driven by bearded men in suspenders when I'm on the road.

 

[Neutron]

kurch...

Find a local escort/massage board and ask around.

For an example try

www.adultmb.com

or

www.menbehavingbadly.ca

Tron

 

[MistressValerie]

Asian Tickle Gal

Hi, everyone 🙂

Re the perceived lack of Asian female members ... I happen to be 100% Asian; I was born in Cambodia and grew up in Thailand.

I happen to LOVE tickling guys (and later in life found that I love tickling girls as well, but that's another story).

The only other Asian female friend with whom I shared my love of tickling also admitted that she loved to tickle, and I did a lot of my early fem-fem experimentation with her 🙂

I have heard (but not confirmed) that it is culturally acceptable for females to tickle in Japan, and they supposedly do this in bath houses and spas. I wish that I could offer more information (heck, I wish that I had more first-hand info!).

Love and laughter,

 

[Phineas]

hello Valerie, long time no see. 🙂

yes, there's you, Asiandeluxe, Asian_Mei (who doesn't come around anymore) and... uh...

okay, that's three that I'm aware of, out of over 9,000 members. 😕

 

[Iggy pop]

Nothing against Asian women, but I prefer girls from South and Latin America.

 

[Phineas]

Nothing against Asian women, but I prefer girls from South and Latin America.

smart choice, my friend. after all, everyone knows they're the world's most ticklish women, and amazing ticklers, to boot.

 

[Neutron]

smart choice, my friend. after all, everyone knows they're the world's most ticklish women, and amazing ticklers, to boot.

That's ridiculous. No one race or creed is any more ticklish than any other. OR haven't you been reading and understanding this thread?

Tron

 

[Phineas]

considering I was the one who brought up the fallacy of that statement in the first place, I think you're the one who who has trouble understanding sarcasm. 😀