Does looks matter? bringin this up again

[ticklishscribe]

And Ticklishlayla who is beautiful inside her self is also adorable.

Having seen a picture of her I can say "Canadian girls ROCK!"

Not to me they don't. Besides, I have a hard time seeing the unattraciveness in people. Everyone is beautiful.

 

[ticklishscribe]

I'd like to say that Ticklishlayla is beautiful inside...

...and that having seen a pic of her, I want to say that "Canadian girls ROCK!"

Not to me they don't. Besides, I have a hard time seeing the unattraciveness in people. Everyone is beautiful.

 

[kis123]

Judging some of the responses made about looks matter, I'm glad I didn't hook up with some of you. It's a tickling session, not a marriage proposal! If she's not as "hot" as you'd want her to be, put a bag over her head and get to work! You may find out you like it that way!!!

Seriously folks, if you make looks a priority whether or not you tickle someone, then have at it! You have a right to your opinion even though I strongly disagree with it. It sounds really superficial.

 

[sadira]

Judging some of the responses made about looks matter, I'm glad I didn't hook up with some of you. It's a tickling session, not a marriage proposal! If she's not as "hot" as you'd want her to be, put a bag over her head and get to work! You may find out you like it that way!!!

Seriously folks, if you make looks a priority whether or not you tickle someone, then have at it! You have a right to your opinion even though I strongly disagree with it. It sounds really superficial.

Go, kis123! Good point.

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised at some of the answers I see posted here, but who am I to judge? Who, also, as Tf4f was trying to get across, who am I to judge what is beautiful or not. I happen to find him quite sexy, but I know that he's not everyone's ideal (which is good for me since I don't think I could handle all the competition 😀 ). This may sound like a cliche, but real beauty does come from the inside and if all you're looking for is a "pretty face" chances are you will always be disappointed and never satisfied with what you find. You may be staring into the eyes of your soul-mate and never know it but also, miss an adventure for a lifetime.

Sadira

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Go, kis123! Good point.

I suppose I shouldn't be surprised at some of the answers I see posted here, but who am I to judge? Who, also, as Tf4f was trying to get across, who am I to judge what is beautiful or not. I happen to find him quite sexy, but I know that he's not everyone's ideal (which is good for me since I don't think I could handle all the competition 😀 ). This may sound like a cliche, but real beauty does come from the inside and if all you're looking for is a "pretty face" chances are you will always be disappointed and never satisfied with what you find. You may be staring into the eyes of your soul-mate and never know it but also, miss an adventure for a lifetime.

Sadira

Honey it is nice to see you again. How are you doing? Honey there would be no competition. You are the only blind one out here. 😛 . No seriously, looks should not matter. If that is the case I would never tickle anyone bacause no one would let me. That being said, looks should not matter. I am there to have fun. Now I will not tickle ugly feet because of the things I do with feet and how I tickle feet( Sadira and Kitten know what I mean). I hope that is not shallow. Feet must be taken care of. But the face or body do not matter. I hope I made myself a little clearer than I did the first time.

 

[ticklemad]

To me, they don't in the least. Tickling is about giggling and playing and having fun. Not about how much sexy flesh can you grope or if you're gonna get laid afterward.

If you come to a gathering with the intention of seeking out only highly attractive people to play with, for one you're gonna be disappointed because we're all (mostly...there are a few exceptions) just your guys and girls next door, and secondly, you're likely going to offend the other attendees so badly you won't get any tickling action anyway. It's about the FUN, and you can't have that much fun while being superficial and egotistical.

For me, a desirable tickle partner has a great bubbly personality and loves to be silly. THAT'S a quality trait!

Mimi 😀

Amen I'll 2nd that Mimi.

A guy (you know who you are) recently said to me knowing I am a BBW - "I appreciate a good body but realise not all women have to be like that. Damn woman you're on fire and sexy as hell. Your sexiness comes from your willingness to talk about the 't' subject, to let yourself go and lose control, your playful nature, your nice smile (you do have one), and, without getting too deep, your strength of survival. Sexiness is often from within, you've got it, trust me".

I wish there were more like him out there .

 

[chode]

Dude....."ticklingfeet4u"......So you could handle someone about 5 foot 4, 350 lbs, completely sloppy, terrible body, face of a pig, but if she had nice feet you could go to town on those feet? Wether looks matter as a whole or just only a body part it can be considered shallow. And only focusing on a body part i think would be even worse. There is a whole person attatched to the feet your fondling. Or is everyone a pair offeet to you? Now thats shallow. But i could care less, im just making a point.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Dude....."ticklingfeet4u"......So you could handle someone about 5 foot 4, 350 lbs, completely sloppy, terrible body, face of a pig, but if she had nice feet you could go to town on those feet? Wether looks matter as a whole or just only a body part it can be considered shallow. And only focusing on a body part i think would be even worse. There is a whole person attatched to the feet your fondling. Or is everyone a pair offeet to you? Now thats shallow. But i could care less, im just making a point.

Let me tell you something I have learn over the years and I am probably older than you. If people take care of their feet ( lets face facts most people have their feet in shoes especially during the winter time) then you can bet they are taking care of the rest of their body. That is a fact. I have been around plenty of women. If they take pride in taking care of their feet then they are taking care of the rest of their body because they have pride in themselves. Now tell me I am wrong. Also let me ask you something, are you calling me shallow because I like feet? You want pretty face and a great body who is slender. How do I know? Your response 5'4" 350 pounds and a face of a pig and a terrible body. I know my girlfriend loves me because I am NOT shallow. Maybe you should pick your battles better. I love people. I do not choose based people based on size ,shape or color. I pride myself on class. So if I come across someone who has a great personality and is 5'4" and 350 pounds and has a pig of a face and a terrible body. I will be tickling because that is who I am. I apologize to the mods right now but this really pissed me off. I am NOT shallow. I don't appreciate being told I am. What is shallow is a person who believes that every lady they tickle has to be a supermodel. Now that is shallow.

 

[ticklemad]

Well said ticklingfeet4u. The community needs more guys like you

 

[steph]

Looks do not matter, but I do have to enjoy their company.
That's the most important thing to me~mutal respect and caring about each other as friends.

XOXO

 

[chode]

Who said anything about super models? Wow dude, take the stick out of your butt. Im just making a point, if you have to have nice feet, or you HAve to have a nice body, its the same thing, body feet, whatever. It being picky about something you like. You cant call someone shallow for wanting someone to "in their eyes" look good. And then not think that saying someone has to have nice feet isnt shallow.

So if you think im shallow for wanting a nice body and face, i can say the same for someone needing nice feet.

 

[dtrell]

this is what happens on here when anyone mentions looks. anyone who desires an even infinitescimal amount of attraction to another person is a piece of crap, and people that supposedly dont care about looks in any way shape or form are pious and holier than thou. people, there IS middle ground here.....i have tickled women i have an attraction to, and ive tickled women i dont...ive done em BOTH, but i enjoyed the attractive ones slightly more...period. If i am PAYING, i MUST have a GREAT attraction or i will NOT enjoy it and i will NOT waste the money. My standards do drop CONSIDERABLY when i am not paying...however i will not necessarily tickle anything just because they happen to be medically of the female gender.

 

[Oddjob0226]

oddjob, the only "male model" type i know of on here is yjgfn...do you know others?

Not that I'm checking out any of the other boys in the wading gene pool but JimBlast &Boomtown come to mind immediately. From both my forays into gatherings and a peek-a-loo into the member photos area, there are some lookers out there who are not stuck sitting on the bench.

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

Who said anything about super models? Wow dude, take the stick out of your butt. Im just making a point, if you have to have nice feet, or you HAve to have a nice body, its the same thing, body feet, whatever. It being picky about something you like. You cant call someone shallow for wanting someone to "in their eyes" look good. And then not think that saying someone has to have nice feet isnt shallow.

So if you think im shallow for wanting a nice body and face, i can say the same for someone needing nice feet.

In case you need to know, my name is not dude. I also don't have a stick up my butt. But let me ask you something, if you are so entitled to your opinion then why am I not entitled to mine. You crushed me first. You pointed me out. If you didn't agree then you could have stated your case without pointing me. Everyone is talking about looks. You had your opinion and I have mine. But let me tell you. You pointed out 5'4" 350 pounds. I did not. You made a comment about being a poor looking body. I believe with all my heart that I am not shallow. You called me shallow. You attack and I will attack back. Expect it and know it.



By the way ticklemad I appreciate the compliment. I usually don't respond to stuff like this because it has a chance to start an arguement. 🙂

 

[sadira]

this is what happens on here when anyone mentions looks. anyone who desires an even infinitescimal amount of attraction to another person is a piece of crap, and people that supposedly dont care about looks in any way shape or form are pious and holier than thou. people, there IS middle ground here.....i have tickled women i have an attraction to, and ive tickled women i dont...ive done em BOTH, but i enjoyed the attractive ones slightly more...period. If i am PAYING, i MUST have a GREAT attraction or i will NOT enjoy it and i will NOT waste the money. My standards do drop CONSIDERABLY when i am not paying...however i will not necessarily tickle anything just because they happen to be medically of the female gender.

First off, I'd like to say that we're adults and we choose to post here. This seems to be turning into a mud-sling. If you don't wan't to hear what others think, don't bother posting. And, do not call me names cuz I do feel looks are less important.

Secondly, you seem to have some inconsistancies in your story, Dtrell. I know you've said you wouldn't tickle a woman you don't find attractive. Yet, above you say you are lowering your standards to do so. Which is it? And, does that mean that you are lowering your standards, for me, when you say you want to tickle me????? No woman wants to know or feel like she is second-best for ANY reason whatsoever.

Thirdly, Tf4f is NOT shallow by any means. You may say I'm biased but all anyone has to do is look into his kind face and big heart and know it's not true.

my 2 cents worth.......

 

[chode]

If my opinion crushed you then in my opinion...thats so sad.

"So if you think im shallow for wanting a nice body and face, i can say the same for someone needing nice feet."


That right there is the bottom line dude(look above). I call everyone dude, just my thing. Dtrell = dude, whatever.

I just cannot fathom how you can call someone like myself shallow because i prefer women attractive to my tastes. You didnt say me specifically, but generally. So in turn, i was included. So i like a good body, thats how it goes. But if you could care less about that and just want nice feet because of what you want to do to them and dont care if the girl is a super model, that in itself is a shallow comment. I was not putting you down. I was just making a point. Its like the pot calling the kettle black. "your a jerk because you like to tickle girls who have good bodies." "But im not because i just think they have to have nice feet." IT IS THE SAME THING. Just feet, or just the body, or the whole package. Whatever you taste is. You can go on and on about this, but thats your OPINION, and mine differs. I honestly would love to just meet ya, sit down with you and have a grown up conversation about it. I would love to hear you justify why what i think is wrong and what you think is ok.

 

[dtrell]

sadira, please quote me in any of these posts where i said i absolutely would not tickle a woman i didnt find 100% attractive. i have never said that. all i said is that i need SOME attraction.....that can be 5% or whatever...i dont have a rating system, i either feel it or i dont. i have seen your pictures and i have some attraction, therefore i think id enjoy tickling you. thats it.

 

[dtrell]

absolutely they matter. for me, there has to be at least a minimum level of attraction, or i dont enjoy it.

there, just so theres no confusion, i quoted myself from earlier in this thread. i believe the term MINIMUM level of attraction is the operative term. and thats just to ENJOY the session. maybe to clarify, i should have said "enjoy it as much".
people, words mean things, thats why they are chosen carefully in order to convey thought. and i am not speaking directly to you sadira, this goes to anyone in the thread that thinks im some shallow pig....i am not. but i like what i like and i dont like what i dont like, just like anyone else.

and thats why i like steph so much and have been talking to her and tickling her steadily for a year and a half...she looks good ENOUGH for me, and she has a great personality (yes personality does matter to me too...). even as she admits, shes NOT kate moss...but who cares...she looks good enough to me.

 

[steph]

(blushes) I thank you sir. I don't find you shallow but then again we've discussed this in detail in the past.

FWIW friends, I think some (not all) want to take a little breather from this hot topic...😉

XOXO

 

[featherfingers]

I've always wondered if the 'better looking' a person is while young, how much harder will life be for them as they age. Even Pamela Anderson will look like Granny from "The Beverly Hillbillies" someday... but with bigger, saggier boobs. I've tickled ladies who are gorgeous and I've tickled ladies who are... not as gorgeous. To tell you the truth, both gave me fun and excitement.

Beauty is an illusion. I think it's time we give Hollywood the 'heave-ho' and appreciate the beauty that exists in our own back yards. We're too focused on that phony baloney beauty that's all over TV, movies and magazines.

 

[dtrell]

thanks hon. at least one person understands.

 

[venray]

Not that i ever wanted to. But i can say that after reading what mimi said, I will never ever attend a gathering....

I honestly would love to just meet ya, sit down with you and have a grown up conversation about it....

Wow dude, take the stick out of your butt....

Perhaps condescending with a touch of Dtrell's "holier than thou" is a better way to describe your attitude than shallow...It can be illustrated in about 90 % of your posts in this forum....

You most certainly have the right to your opinions Yggy, just as we have the right to take them for what they aren't worth.....

 

[ticklingfeet4fu]

If my opinion crushed you then in my opinion...thats so sad.

"So if you think im shallow for wanting a nice body and face, i can say the same for someone needing nice feet."


That right there is the bottom line dude(look above). I call everyone dude, just my thing. Dtrell = dude, whatever.

I just cannot fathom how you can call someone like myself shallow because i prefer women attractive to my tastes. You didnt say me specifically, but generally. So in turn, i was included. So i like a good body, thats how it goes. But if you could care less about that and just want nice feet because of what you want to do to them and dont care if the girl is a super model, that in itself is a shallow comment. I was not putting you down. I was just making a point. Its like the pot calling the kettle black. "your a jerk because you like to tickle girls who have good bodies." "But im not because i just think they have to have nice feet." IT IS THE SAME THING. Just feet, or just the body, or the whole package. Whatever you taste is. You can go on and on about this, but thats your OPINION, and mine differs. I honestly would love to just meet ya, sit down with you and have a grown up conversation about it. I would love to hear you justify why what i think is wrong and what you think is ok.

Okay. Definine Attractive. What is your definition? Like I said you were the one who said 5'4" 350 pounds. I did not. For the record, you did not crush me personally. You have to respect someone to be bothered. I don't know you. I used to the term crushed as in you attacked me first. As very poor choice of words and I apologize for that. I never said you were shallow. You told me I was shallow. Lets keep that straight.

 

[chode]

Its deffinately straight over here. And ven-whatever--- No one takes the posts i make as they should. Most of the time you all think im attacking someone or something. Do I really give two shits if you dont get the poitn, no, not really.

i TEND TO SEE ALL THIS BACK AND FORTH ONLINE HILARIOUS. You never ever can tell what the intent of meaning of what someone types unless you HEAR them say it. Thats what makes alot of this stuff entertaining to me. And as mtp jeff once put it. If you dont care for what i say, or cant understand my point of view and or do not like it. Then please please please just put me on your blocked list. Then you wont have to "put up" with what i say. I am done wasting time on the topic. Its obvious so far only perhaps two people actually are getting my point. But thats two more for the good guys!

 

[chode]

Oh, my definition of attractive.

This is on topic i wouls assume.

Intelligent
Sarcastic
Funny
Healthy mind
Healthy habits
Healthy body
Ticklish/tickler

In my type of work i meet all shapes and sizes, and help all of them. I have dated all types. But i can garuntee you that anyone who is 5-4 350, isnt a healthy person. Being healthy and strong of mind is what i instill in those who work with me. And to me someone who doesnt care about their body, and isnt strong enough to put down the food, or to better their body composition. Then that is not attractive to me. Someone can be a chub and still be cute or whatever, but to me thats where it ends. Im extremely picky, and its not because of hollywood stereotypes. Its because of my beliefs and personal health practices.
5-4 350 was an example, but an example to prove a point. I said it.