Does looks matter? bringin this up again

[kis123]

Well yeah, because if you got the meat of what i posted you would see that you are the kind of person i admire. Christ.

How did I miss this? If you choose to elaborate, I'd definitely be interested in hearing it.

BTW, I may not agree with you, but as long as a person isn't being completely obnoxious, I can handle a person being honest with their feelings. I don't expect everyone to agree with me, and I'm not going to agree with them at all times.

Do looks matter? When you're dating or looking for that life-mate, of course! When you're having a tickle session for fun? I personally don't care, but there are some here on the board who do. Take your stand and stick to it. And have a little fun folks-it's only a tickling forum!

 

[Doubold_T]

To me, they don't in the least. Tickling is about giggling and playing and having fun. Not about how much sexy flesh can you grope or if you're gonna get laid afterward.

If you come to a gathering with the intention of seeking out only highly attractive people to play with, for one you're gonna be disappointed because we're all (mostly...there are a few exceptions) just your guys and girls next door, and secondly, you're likely going to offend the other attendees so badly you won't get any tickling action anyway. It's about the FUN, and you can't have that much fun while being superficial and egotistical.

For me, a desirable tickle partner has a great bubbly personality and loves to be silly. THAT'S a quality trait!

Mimi 😀

Amen, Mimi. A-men!

I have never been to a gathering but have always wnted to go, not because I thought I'd be walking into a Mister/Miss Universe contest, but because, after reading posts, and chat room discussion, and some communication, I know you're all, good, decent people, and that is very attractive! I've seen most of your pictures, and, other than curiosity, I couldn't give a pig's whistle what you look like! Are you female? Like being tickled? Willing to tickle me?

Git-R-Done!

 

[Mimi]

My question to all of you is do you know why you place so much emphasis on looks or why you place so much emphasis on personality?

I place all of my emphasis on personality because for me, tickling (with a platonic playmate) is all about the fun. A person could be drop dead gorgeous, but if they have the personality of a sloth, I'm not going to enjoy myself in the least, and what fun is that? That's why looks do not matter to me. I wanna be hyper and silly and giggly and bouncy and rambunctious and sarcastic. I enjoy teasing and being teased. I love being around folks who can get me giggling and snorting and rolling around helplessly in a hysterical fit without even laying a finger on me. Ask those who attended the GLAT gathering...they know what I'm talking about. I love earning and dealing out punishment for smart mouths and comments. It's all about the laughter, and how much can be milked out of a single days worth of activities. That has everything to do with a persons personality, and nothing to do with what they look like.

You know what....maybe looks do matter after all. But I find people to be at their most attractive when their face is contorted in divine, helpless, tearing laughter....especially when it's the result of ticklish agony. So everyone is sexy when they are laughing and being tickled, IMO. 😉

Mimi

 

[chode]

"And to me someone who doesnt care about their body, and isnt strong enough to put down the food, or to better their body composition. Then that is not attractive to me."

KIS

You have said yourself , you are the exact opposite of the kind of individual i describe above. That is where i was agreeing with you and your situation. But im obviously not here because i care if any of ya like me or not. Take my answer to you how you want to. But i have to say that i do admire your drive.

 

[Ayla ny]

anyone I’ve met for tickling, I decided I was going to meet before I even knew what they looked like.

I don’t want anyone I’m not attracted to tickling me… but for me, I can honestly say that attraction comes from liking who you are (me liking who you are and YOU liking who you are). that goes for friend and lover.

and just for the record, there have been a lot of very good looking people who I was not attracted to in the least and a lot of people, who won’t be gracing any magazine covers, who I find extremely attractive.

to each their own… but that’s what works for me.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Looks do matter! Personality does matter! People have different views on which looks and which personalities they find attractive. Why argue about it or put down what each of you all like? Physically fit people can be quite unhealthy physically and mentally just like people who aren't physically fit. My view on the topic is that personality and looks are the whole picture. However, there are reasons why certain people place more emphasis on looks or on personality. My question to all of you is do you know why you place so much emphasis on looks or why you place so much emphasis on personality?

Steve, my man, you make sense. So how did you end up in here????

Do looks matter to me? Sure. Are they all that matter? Nope. Are they the primary thing? Nope. A pleasing aesthetic to my eye simply makes life sweeter, it's not an ironclad requirement. I blame the liberal conservative media for such a big deal being made about this.

 

[Brewhaha]

you gonna be there brew? i guess ill see you there then....ill be manning the grills

Cool...I'll be manning the girls...

 

[ticklkitten]

Cool...I'll be manning the girls...

Or will it be the other way around???

 

[kcantankerous]

I personally like tickling ectomorphic (sp) girls the most. I've tickled many kinds of woman but I have to have some attraction to them. That means total package. Not just looks with no personality, wait ok maybe I can. But I wouldn't like it better than tickling a girl I dont think is attractive. Wait ok I might enjoy tickling someone I'm physically attracted to more lol. As everyone knows I like to talk about the more controversal subjects from time to time. Anyways it doesnt always have a sexual conatation to it and if I'm shallow then so be it. I know I'm not the finest of the bunch but I do take care of myself, so I enjoy someone who looks like that take care of their physique aswell. Some dudes like overweight chicks, I don't big deal. I just want to see what others have to say about the subject of looks and or the combination of looks and personality. In terms of tickling for fun or whatever.

 

[dtrell]

It is the pompous attitude I find funy D...I have tickled some pretty hot women myself, but then again..I find most women hot in one way or another..

I don't care who prefers what when it comes to sex and or tickle play..What I care about is the offensive way in which some treat others as if they are G's gift to the world at large...

You have been around some time in the community D....remind you of anyone in particular?...Reminds me of several....none of which are very likeable folks...

maybe someone whos initials start with a letter between J and L? LOL

 

[Brewhaha]

Or will it be the other way around???

One can only hope...

See the little blue guy, surrounded by all the girls? That'll be me at Motown.

 

[Iggy pop]

I would like to point out that your looks may get my attention, but your personality will keep it.