Escort services is a gamble

[LoveSoles81]

$300.00 an our? My god. Hey dont be embaressed by your tickle fetish!

 

[eisenbahn9]

I too like the idea of having a specific "Ticklees (or 'lers) for Hire" site. I'm at a point where I'd be interested in trying this but have no clue on the perils and pitfalls of dealing with escort services or independents, how to find reputable ones, etc.

Just reading the experiences offered by others here has been very helpful and eye-opening but it would be great if we had a dedicated site for exchanging stories and information, making recommendations or just offering sage advice.

What say, moderators? We're sort of doing this here anyway in bits and pieces. Can you bestow your blessings and make it official? There seems to be a growing interest for it.

 

[TheTickler1961]

"Services Section"

Gentlmen, why don't you go to the polls and VOTE!!!

FYI, I've taken the time to post a poll in the "Polls" section of this forum about adding a "services" section to the TMF. If you feel strongly about this, then vote accordingly, and make sure to tell all your tickle-conscious friends about it, huh?

TT1961

P.S. - I'm counting on YOU!!!

 

[isabeau]

im not sure i understand are you asking girls in the forum to be like escorts? correct me if i'm wrong i'm sort of confused. thanks anyone

isabeau 😕

 

[Brutus]

I'm pretty sure the thread is referring to any experiences regarding the actual use of an escort as opposed to ladies on TMF to be escorts.

 

[TheTickler1961]

Reply

What we are suggesting is either an independent website, or a subsite to this one, or a "section" of this one, if you will, that is dedicated for "tickling services" postings.

Most of us 'lers (especially the male ones) have absolutely no luck in posting a 'ler ISO fem 'lee ads. In this forum, or in anyone, for that matter. The majority of male 'lers (forgive me, please, for being a bit "sexist" in my comments) that are looking for fem 'lees to tickle have to either go to a fetish dungeon, escort service, or just plain hire an independent prostitute like I did just to satisfy their desire for tickling. With a section dedicated to "services," either outside call-girls, or inside fem 'lees wanting to make a little extra income could post their willingness to serve on this site. This would make it so much easier for us 'lers to connect with willing lees without, hopefully, paying a small fortune, and all the time it takes to search on the Internet or local escort services for ladies who will provide such. Of course, this is not just limited to male 'lers ISO fem lees. This could be male 'lees ISO fem 'lers, or whatever the configuration may be. Personals just don't do it. I've seen very few success stories for personal, and this could give a low success rate to the "PERSONALS" section a much-needed subsidy.

Hope this helps,

TT1961

 

[isabeau]

oo i get it know duh on me thanks

isabeau

 

[CaptainQuantum]

I heard about escorts.com and looked them up, but they want $12.95 a month. I had a good experience with eros.com. All the ads provide at least one pic and most provide rates. And it's totally free. You can search by blondes, brunettes, redheads, super busty, etc. They always have several women who advertise that they do cater to fetishes. But I think pretty much most of them will if it's something as harmless as tickling. Of course, the one escort I was with, I didn't ask for bondage, as we just kind of tickle-wrestled on the bed a little bit. Also, for you REALLY high rollers, there's bodymiracle.com, where you can hire a big name porn star as an escort, to the tune of AT LEAST 1K an hour.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I was living in an area geographically known as the "Bible Belt." It's not that there are no escort services. There are, especially in the Charleston area. It's that they simply do not cater to the tickling fetish. All they do is full service, which everyone knows is straight sex.

Hate to disagree with you but I live in the "bible belt." We have only one strip club a half hour away and no escort service. The next nearest strip club is two and half hours away.

 

[CaptainQuantum]

Damn!

Hate to disagree with you but I live in the "bible belt." We have only one strip club a half hour away and no escort service. The next nearest strip club is two and half hours away.

I read that and I though "nah, there HAVE to be escorts SOMEWHERE in Wyoming!" But sure enough, the Yahoo yellow pages have none, and neither do escorts.com. I wasn't sure what part of Wyoming you're in so I just did a search on Yahoo yellow pages for Cheyenne. Now if you're willing to drive about 50 miles to Colorado, that's a different story. The only other thing I can suggest is if you keep your ears open, you might hear of dancers at that strip club who do escorting on the side. But that's a good way to get the place shut down if they get caught. Then Wyoming will have zero strip clubs! BTW, I thought the term "bible belt" only referred to southeastern states.

 

[isabeau]

Hate to disagree with you but I live in the "bible belt." We have only one strip club a half hour away and no escort service. The next nearest strip club is two and half hours away.

this is the bible belt in west virginia not wyoming.

isabeau

 

[CaptainQuantum]

Well regardless of its geography, with its lack of adult entertainment it sounds like Wyoming is certainly bible belt-ish.

 

[brnbch]

From the Polls section:
>I am recommending that there should be a "Services" section, where 'lees >could post who would like to make themselves available for tickling sessions >for 'lers, not just a "personals" post.



First thing is, thanks TheTickler1961 for running with this. It's enthusiasm like this that sparks others to participate.
Quick comment:
I actually envisioned more of a review section where people from this community ('lees or "lers, Male or Female) would post their reviews or experiences from pay tickle sessions that they've had, be it from a escort, Pro Dom or Sub, or the girl next door. So that information can be shared in order to better guide and protect us when shopping around for our own sessions.
If you hired someone for a tickle session than lets hear it. Was it a good or bad time? How ticklish were they? Were they attractive? Was it worth the money? How easy was it to set up? What area are they in?...and how can we set up a session for ourselves?

Look, if I wanted to set up a professional tickle session tommorrow...I'd have no clue where to look. I could go the to Eros.com or City-vibe in my section of the country, but I then would have to contact all 60 to 70 girls advertising their wares to see if they provide tickle sessions...I then would have to meet up and try tickling the ones who didn't hang up on me and hope they weren't lying about or exaggerating their ticklishness....and if it WAS bad start all over again.

Or I could just look to the "Services Reviewed" section of TMF and see that "TickleMaster123" reviewed Tonya from www.Eros.com and this former Chicago Hooters girl has exceptionally ticklish size 7s, and barely made it to the 15 min mark before the begging started...She charged *** this much for the session and this is how to contact her...

It would be set up just like the wildly successful, nationally known "Bigdoggie" or "TER" escort review boards, but just with tickling...information is a powerful thing!

I can see ads being a component of this and I can see after this gets going the professional providers advertising their services like the escort boards end up having, but I fear that if it were only a section for those who do, to advertise their services, it will end up the same fate as the personal's sections. Besides... I'd rather hear from the guy who bought the horse than from the guy who sold it to him 😉

I also posted this in the Polls Section. SO EVERYBODY PLEASE VOTE!!! We need to hear from you!!!
If you would like to set up a pro tickle session for yourself...would this information be valuble to you here or no!

 

[subophelia]

Re: disappointment

Hello,

You saw me for a tickle session and you state that you were disappointed. I am very sorry that you did not enjoy your session. Each session that I participate in I choose out of fun. I enjoy what I do and it shows. I enjoy being tickled, and I was trained as a submissive to take tickling while tied up and being disciplined with it.

To leave me negative feedback just kind of upsets me. I really feel bad when people are disappointed in my services.

You could have told me how you felt and I would have refunded you, or given you extra time another day.

As for the accusation regarding tranquilizers, I am a Commerical Professional Driver for a trucking company and cannot ingest substances in my body.

Again, my sincere apologies for your disappointment.

Good luck,

sub ophelia

I hired a "pro" submissive a couple of years ago here in NY named Submissive Ophelia and I was not pleased with my session. She was a pretty good looking woman that is mostly into corporal punishment she but did agree to a bondage and tickling session with me. She was very personable and polite. I tied her to a table she had in her apartment and started tickling her. She didn't seem ticklish but did laugh as if it tickled. My perception was that she was on some sort of muscle relaxers or tranquilizers as she almot fell asleep a few times. The fantasy was pretty good but the results were not. I would not recommend her as a ticklee...maybe if you're into something else but definitely not as a 'Lee

 

[Tickler Bart]

I really like the idea of a Pay-For-Tickle-Service type of a forum, HOWEVER . . .
This is a form of prostitution & THAT is illegal in most states.
Regardless of actual sex, you are paying for, what WE consider to be, a sexual act. If you get sexual gratification from it & you pay someone for it, THAT is prostitution.
I believe the only place it is NOT illegal is in Reno Nevada (NOT Las Veges).
This is most likely the reason why the Moderators refuse to have one here.
That being said, I still would like to see something like this, either here or if someone created a web site devoted to Pay-For-Tickling.

 

[dtrell]

youre wrong bart. prostitution is SEXUAL ACTS for MONEY, not what a small niche minority considers to be sexUAL...if a woman charged for being tickled only and it did not involve what the LAW considers to be SEXUAL acts, then it would NOT be considered prostitution by the LAW, and would NOT be prosecuted. if you sit in front of a little booth with a window while a woman plays with herself, and you masturbate to it...you WILL be arrested...but not because of soliciting prostitution, but because of PUBLIC INDECENCY. a tickling session in a hotel room where you pay the woman and masturbate to tickling her, is in PRIVATE and would have NO LAW apply to it.

 

[brnbch]

Actually...Talking about even out and out prostitution isn't illegal either. If it were, Bigdoggie and The Erotic Review and a lot of local review boards would be raided and shutdown. Hell...It's hard to prove anything illegal about the actual escort sites themselves that riddle the net...and they come right out and tell the explicit details of what they offer! But remember you're paying for someones time and it has to be proven that the money was exchanged for *insert graphic act here*
Bottom line is that a tickle session isn't against the law unless there's actual sex involved . Meaning, a cop could be right there watching the session and unless there was clear sexual activity...no law is broken. How do you think the dungeons that populate the nation stay around for years and advertise openly..
..and all we're talking about here is reviewing women that provide these tickle sessions. Just passing on information from one person to another about a totally legal activity.
I have to say again that a review board, here or any other place would be invaluable to those looking for a safe and satisfying arrangement between a 'Lee and 'Ler
Maybe someone should start a Yahoo group around this and link it from here.
Those who have hired a session provider could post anonymously and write a review of their experience and rate the session according to looks, ticklishness, price and so on. Kind of a "sliding feather scale" if you will. And like the "big boards" you can warn people of rip-offs and bad providers or hook a brutha up with that tortuously ticklish hottie that we all dream of writhing under our fingers.

 

[TXDFW90]

I want to say, for us with tickling kinks, that it all comes down to language of the laws.

In my state (Texas), its illegal to solicit or agree to sexual conduct for money. However, in the statute, sexual conduct is defined as "sexual contact, sexual intercourse, deviate sexual intercourse, sexual bestiality, masturbation, or sadomasochistic abuse."

Now you could get pinned to the sadomasochism potentially I guess but lets move past that.

"Sexual contact" means "any touching of the anus, breast, or any part of the genitals of another person with intent to arouse or gratify the sexual desire of any person."

I feel like you cant technically get into trouble for agreeing to being tickled as long as those body parts aren't mentioned right? Also, itd be really hard to prove it was for sexual desire or gratification.

Hell, for some people on here, it really is just for fun and not sexual.

I feel like people soliciting for tickling alone couldn't get you in trouble in Texas or other states where the language is defined like that.


...And for fuck sake can we just legalize prostitution anyway?

Ha Ive ranted about this before in TMF but you have an inherent right to your body and no government has the legitimate moral authority to say cant have sex with who you want or to do it for money, so long as everything is consensual, just like all sexual or physical acts.

Porn is legal but take the camera away and suddenly getting paid is illegal.

Doesn't make any sense.

 

[Darth Sidious]

Gotta disagree here, I would never want to see prostitution legalized on a state or federal level. It sends a very inappropriate message and we have to consider children.

 

[weezl]

...And for fuck sake can we just legalize prostitution anyway?

Ha Ive ranted about this before in TMF but you have an inherent right to your body and no government has the legitimate moral authority to say cant have sex with who you want or to do it for money, so long as everything is consensual, just like all sexual or physical acts.

Porn is legal but take the camera away and suddenly getting paid is illegal.

Doesn't make any sense.

Totally agreed there. There is nothing immoral aboout it at all. I don't think it sends an inappropriate message unless you're just an arrogant bigot. And I'm kind of sick of people using children as an excuse to impose these ridiculous laws on consenting adults lives. Not everything has to be about adhering to what you deem is best for a child.

 

[Wolf]

Gotta disagree here, I would never want to see prostitution legalized on a state or federal level. It sends a very inappropriate message and we have to consider children.

What "message", and what are the considerations about children?

 

[The Internet]

Gotta disagree here, I would never want to see prostitution legalized on a state or federal level. It sends a very inappropriate message and we have to consider children.

Well how about we stop having children then......always the children.......and what message? Is it a different message they get than selling themselves as a tickle model?

(i'm hearing your comment through the muffled voice behind the mask of those tickle videos you make!!!)

 

[chicago]

I don't get how one part of the sex industry is OK but another isn't lolol especially from someone who works in the sex industry

 

[weezl]

I don't get how one part of the sex industry is OK but another isn't lolol especially from someone who works in the sex industry

Take away the cameras and Darth could easily be arrested for it too.

 

[porcelaindoll2]

I feel we try too hard to shun children from anything or everything that is bad. Life is not cake walk free of awful/evil people/things.

My real question is what in the you know what would a child be doing with a prostitue to begin with? If a child did manage to seek out the services of a prostitue then that is the parents fault for not looking after their child! Don't have a child if you can't take care of it.

I am on team prostitution should be legalized. I think it would have to be controlled. A prostitution can only happen in Brothels law makes the best sense to me. Also have laws where the prostitues have to be regularly tested and the houses must undergo monthly inspections. I personally feel the age limit of being able to become a prostitue should be 21. The government could tax the hell out of it.

And the only message I can think it shows is we like to have sex. I mean what!? You mean most humans want to have sex!? I mean it is not like we weren't kind of created for that. Some people don't want to deal with the commitment that comes with a relationship and some just want a quick fix. Yes cheating I am sure would happen, but if a person really wants to cheat they'll do it anyway. All legalizing prostitution would do is make it easier to cheat.