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Anna6-9

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Wednesday my husband broke my heart. Im talking worst night in my life news. Not going to go into what it was (no he didnt cheat) (not really anyways) but he felt really bad. He begged forgivness and I decided to give him that (Im not perfect either). After talking to my TMF gf he decided I needed to relese my frustrations on him to put it behind me. It wasnt my idea and I really didnt feel I needed to but he insisted I beat his ass and really make him pay.

What I want to know is do any of you want to know what I did? Yeah I didnt feel the need but when I got into it I did some really hard core shit!

If your not into BDSM then please dont reply and dont read on. This thread isnt ment for you. Its for those that will enjoy: Tickle Torture, Humilliation, Bondage, Spankings (I used 4 implements) and GREAT make up sex.
 
well, bdsm or not, i wont comment on. (Even tho this isnt a bdsm forum)

but i will point out that "make up sex" or "putting things behind you with sexual actions for making up" never works. its only a temporary solution to get your minds off of it, and its help never lasts for long.

basically, it will be on your mind any time you are not having sex until its worked out. (this is why couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems)
 
What I want to know is do any of you want to know what I did? Yeah I didnt feel the need but when I got into it I did some really hard core shit!

In a word, yes. 😀

Being very fond of both tickle torture and BDSM, especially F/m play, I do want to know what you did. :devil:
 
well, bdsm or not, i wont comment on. (Even tho this isnt a bdsm forum)

but i will point out that "make up sex" or "putting things behind you with sexual actions for making up" never works. its only a temporary solution to get your minds off of it, and its help never lasts for long.

basically, it will be on your mind any time you are not having sex until its worked out. (this is why couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems)

I couldnt dissagree with you more. I specifically said for those that like to COMBINE tickling and bdsm ONLY. Both the tickling and bdsm comunities frown on interfetish mixing (god it seems racist) and I thought if there was a demand I would supply. If your not into it read the title and say to your self "there are hundreds of threads out there that I can participate in. I dont need to respond to them all".

As I said I didnt feel the need for vidication he insisted on it. I had forgiven him and was just happy that we had worked it out. We have always had a healthy sex life and we have it more often when we arent having problems so I dont know what your getting at with "couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems"

I actually enjoyed the tickle torture the most anyway. I dont get to be ler that much and I really pushed his limits. I didnt do anything I havent done to him in the past. I would never do anything that I knew wasnt ok with my sub. The only thing that was different about this was the amount of punishing not what I did. I wasnt angry and I lovingly rubbed and soothed his tortured skin when I was done.
 
Hey

Hey Baby, I think you gave him exactly what he needed, and if ever the time comes that you need to serve it like that to him again, let me know and I'll fly right over and help you!! I'm glad I could help, even if it was only a little bit. I hope everything keeps working out for you.


I would like to point out something, FeatherFeet, no one invited you into the conversation for relationship or sexual advice. So please, if you are uninvited in the initial conversation, I ask that you please respect the people who wrote it and stay out of it. No one wants uninvited and annoying input and that is exactly what you just did.
 
Of course I'd like to know.

What I want to know is do any of you want to know what I did?

Yes, certainly!

Diz
 
i didnt dsay dick against bdsm, i simply pointed out that this is a tickle forum. not a bdsm forum, thats all.


secondly, i made an observation based on her post, and posted that observation. she wants to listen she does, she doesnt,no ones forcing her. no harm, no foul, no law broken.

take out the stick.
 
basically, it will be on your mind any time you are not having sex until its worked out. (this is why couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems)

and you have numbers and proof to back that up? 'cuz, in the times my girl and i have had a bad fight, once we talk it over, things get nuts. people who don't have a good, intimate relationship, which includes communication and love-making, have the most problems.

Anna, we all deal with fights with significant others differently. some people go for a walk or drive, others do something constructive. normally, it's a point when the two need some alone time. however, making up and getting over it together, i think, helps so much more.
 
Thanks Mary! Loves you! My next post will be my story so if your not into it dont bother reading it. Keep in mind this didnt take place right away it was a few days after. I took that walk in the freezing pouring rain. Sliding on crushed snow and listening to my favorite wetland bird sing to me (redwinged black bird) really made me feel better! We also got a baby sitter for a few days talked it out and went on a date BEFORE the beatting commenced.
 
tkdemons punishment-

As we walked into the bedroom I told him to strip completely and find a pair of my prettiest thong panties. I changed into a dark green satin chemise and pink satin panties while he chose my lavender satin thongs and stood by the bed.

I got out his leather cock bondage and strapped it on. I put it on backwards so that the top strap made him have what somewhat resembled camel toe. I remarked on this and he grew red with embarassment.

I began getting all the tools I would want out and asked him to get on the bed on all fours. I told him that I was going to start with the flogger and work my way up to the crop and then finally the paddle. As I told him this I placed my tools on the bench at the foot of the bed.

I started with my seude flogger. I proceded to warm his behind with the flogger as he moaned and yelled out. When he was breathing hard I stopped and got out the electric toothbrush.

I began to tickle his heels. He was sqealing and struggling to keep his position as I slowly moved the buzzing toothbrush up to his arch. He was kicking a bit and I held his ankle while his other foot kicked wildly. As I moved toward his toes he became desparate and was kicking more and more.

I didnt want to tie him...not yet. I wanted him to mind besides with his cock and balls in bondage if he struggled and fell on his tummy it wouldn't be pleasent! I moved to the other foot as his laughter got louder and louder.

He was yelling "NOOO PLEASE NOOOO!!!" So I stopped, gave him a second to think I was giving him a break and smacked his red ass with the ridding crop. This made him start and fall on the bed a bit. Each time the crop (my fave to use and have used) made contact he bit back a scream. I kept at it till he couldnt hold back his cries of agony.

He said "Oh God what did I get myself into?!"

I giggled and said "Whats wronge baby? Does it hurt to much? Cant take it?" and slapped his ass with my hand.

He said "you didnt say anything about using your HAND!"

"What made you think" *smack* "that I had to" *smack* "tell you I was going to" *smack* "use my hand?" *smack smack smack*

tkdemons has sensored what I did next sorry!

I pulled out the toothbrush and turned it on. He said "PLEASE NOT THAT!!!!!" I giggled and said "What dont want me to do this?" As I moved the buzzing toothbrush to the backs of his thighs. He screamed and tied to evade but to no avail. And I moved back to his feet breifly.

Next came the paddle and he knew it. I've never used it on him and when I know Im getting it I beg and plead and promise to be good (dont do that with ANY of our other tools). So he KNEW this was gonna be bad!

I worked the paddle till I started to see a little blue in one cheek and stopped. I told him his spanking was over and he could stand up. I ustrapped his bondage and put the pretty satin thongs he had chose on him. Then I soothed his hot skin with a soft damp cloth and witch hazel.

Then he was instructed to lay on the middle of the bed. We have straps on the bed so it was easy to secure his arms. I left his legs so that I could change his position a bit to my liking later. I straddled him and kissed him. He looked nervous and I giggled.

I began to tickle his armpits and then to his nipples. His sides and tummy are bad and I dug in. He was thrashing and laughing wildly. I moved so that my thighs were over his and held them wide to get his roin and he went wild! He was trying to reach my feet to tickle back. I adjusted so he couldnt and told him he was going to get it now!

This was the most tickling and spanking I have ever been able to do (lasted over an hour) and it was fun. We had AMAZING sex that night. Although I enjoyed it Im really a lee and sub at heart and cant wait till he takes out his revenge. After all thats kinda why I was so rough on him in the first place.

I love you NONEY!:twohugs:
 
and you have numbers and proof to back that up? 'cuz, in the times my girl and i have had a bad fight, once we talk it over, things get nuts. people who don't have a good, intimate relationship, which includes communication and love-making, have the most problems.

Anna, we all deal with fights with significant others differently. some people go for a walk or drive, others do something constructive. normally, it's a point when the two need some alone time. however, making up and getting over it together, i think, helps so much more.

people always get offended because they think im talking about them.

dude, im not talking about general fights here im talking about the big issues, like cheating, or dishonesty and such. the mistakes that CAN'T actually be resolved, or will take a long time until they are resolved. the ones where simple get your mind off it with sex wont do the trick.

and of course peopl ehave mad hot sex once the problem is over, its a release and back to normal. what i was saying is that sex as a way to MAKE UP for the problems is never good. its a way of postponing the talking, and actually getting past things. talking is what gets people through their problems, the good sex comes after.

if the mad sexual stuff is whats done AFTER the making up, more power to ya. but if its "ill do this sexual thing for you to make it up to you" without actually getting past the problem itself, thats a bad thing.

the thing is "make up sex" is really a misleading term, because people tend to think they make up BY having sex. if you dont make up before that sex, its just going to make it worse.
 
This is probably THEE most....(grammar goes out the window now)

sanest, smartest, wisest, mostest intelligent, fetishes-most-wellest applied, most deeply life-integrated, most relationship-centered post I've read in quite a long time....Thank you Anna6-9 for your candor and openness, willingness to share, willingness to teach and inform....dang! What kinda carbon and water are you made of?!?!

thanks for this post and no matter what people say, alot of our community's experience of tickling lands squarely in the world of bdsm and the bdsm world has been dancing with tickling and tickle play for years and years...so let's just drop that separation crap....though I know what you mean...I've seen people live in the we-don't-do-that and they-don't-do-this crap....yeah right. I know there are some folks who can take an hour straight spanking who would CRUMBLE if you wiggled your fingers near their feet...and they wanna say us ticklers are (anything we are not). Bull-dinkies! These kinds of play are all over each other and that my partner and I are giving a tickle demo at the New England Leather Association's Fetish Flea Market this weekend is testimony to that...thank you, NELA!....this is not the first tickle workshop and it probably won't be the last. Can't we all get along (whilst spanking our little bum-bums and tickling each other into neuro-sensual oblivion) ???

YES.

and again...for the record....Anna6-9 ROCKS!!!!
 
well, bdsm or not, i wont comment on. (Even tho this isnt a bdsm forum)

but i will point out that "make up sex" or "putting things behind you with sexual actions for making up" never works. its only a temporary solution to get your minds off of it, and its help never lasts for long.

basically, it will be on your mind any time you are not having sex until its worked out. (this is why couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems)
wait a darn minute. sexual enjoyment is not as a result of problems. its a result of sexual enjoyment. i don't think that all couples having lots of sex are having problems. not good sex anyway. i think that you are right that not working throwugh a problem and just going to bed is not a solution, but sex is designed to renew the neurochemical ties to make longterm monogomy psychologicly possible.
in this scenario i believe that the person had already forgiven the person and decided to work through it without the sex. good relationship mechanics can however allow emotional release to enhance sexual activity hence mature make up sex.
and as for BDSM and tickling, tickle torture is a form of BDSM, but i know what you were reffering to. its almost a line in the sand between tickling and pain-in the minds of most. but its all about the reaction of the lee/victim. if they are a person that enjoys the addition of spanking to their experience then it only makes things more fun. in this case if adding a litle spanking to your scenario adds to the enjoyment of both people, have fun. you're only young enough to have sex without viagra for so long.
 
I couldnt dissagree with you more. I specifically said for those that like to COMBINE tickling and bdsm ONLY. Both the tickling and bdsm comunities frown on interfetish mixing (god it seems racist) and I thought if there was a demand I would supply. If your not into it read the title and say to your self "there are hundreds of threads out there that I can participate in. I dont need to respond to them all".

As I said I didnt feel the need for vidication he insisted on it. I had forgiven him and was just happy that we had worked it out. We have always had a healthy sex life and we have it more often when we arent having problems so I dont know what your getting at with "couples who have the most sex are the ones who are actually having problems"

I actually enjoyed the tickle torture the most anyway. I dont get to be ler that much and I really pushed his limits. I didnt do anything I havent done to him in the past. I would never do anything that I knew wasnt ok with my sub. The only thing that was different about this was the amount of punishing not what I did. I wasnt angry and I lovingly rubbed and soothed his tortured skin when I was done.
oh my god. now that's hot.
 
*rolls eyes*

people get soooo worked up over things, make such a big deal over it and they never even realize that they completly MISINTERPRETED what the person was going to try to say.
 
interesting

Some how this sound like just an excuse to have fun with him so he could return the favor...
 
Feather, you did make a rather general observation, and didn't really include what is was you actually meant. include more details about what you actually mean next time to prevent people from getting "offended".
 
So, in case you havent' realized this...no one likes you Feather Feet, get out of this post please and go and cause trouble elsewhere. Anna is trying to tell people who want to listen to her story about it. And...Take the stick out? What? Can't stick to being mature in a forum? Have to resort to that kind of vulgarity? Good gracious, I feel childish just replying to this.

Baby, I love you story! And I loved yelling at Scott! Hehehehehe. ((It's secretly turned into a new hobby of mine))
 
So, in case you havent' realized this...no one likes you Feather Feet, get out of this post please and go and cause trouble elsewhere. Anna is trying to tell people who want to listen to her story about it. And...Take the stick out? What? Can't stick to being mature in a forum? Have to resort to that kind of vulgarity? Good gracious, I feel childish just replying to this.

Baby, I love you story! And I loved yelling at Scott! Hehehehehe. ((It's secretly turned into a new hobby of mine))

LOL you talk about maturity when you resort to things like "no one likes you"

kindergarden?

next time I'll just have to use smaller words to explain exactly what I mean. since people are so easily offended, and so easily confused.

stop trying to play mod demoness. ur no good at it, and ur wasting your time.
 
LOL you talk about maturity when you resort to things like "no one likes you"

kindergarden?

next time I'll just have to use smaller words to explain exactly what I mean. since people are so easily offended, and so easily confused.

stop trying to play mod demoness. ur no good at it, and ur wasting your time.

this really isn't necessary. people can get confused when you are vague about your intentions.

Anna, don't let such ignorance keep you from posting. it's a good thing the trolls are vanishing as quickly as they appear.
 
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