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Hmmmmmmmm, anyone else have something to say here?
Anyone else want to come on out into the open and bare your sole?😀
TTD
Anyone else want to come on out into the open and bare your sole?😀
TTD
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JPie you are blessed
Having a loving relationship is one in a million. Like you my tickle experiences,lately at least, are only fantasy. It is too bad that you feel you must live a secret. I was lucky to have a wife that helped my appetite for loving, romanctic tickling, sometimes with a devilish side, but that is history now anyway. I hope you are comforted to know you and many of us have lots in common. Yes our circumstances vary greatly, but we are not alone. Best of luck JPie.
Having a loving relationship is one in a million. Like you my tickle experiences,lately at least, are only fantasy. It is too bad that you feel you must live a secret. I was lucky to have a wife that helped my appetite for loving, romanctic tickling, sometimes with a devilish side, but that is history now anyway. I hope you are comforted to know you and many of us have lots in common. Yes our circumstances vary greatly, but we are not alone. Best of luck JPie.
I'd have to agree...
Well, I must say it's very interesting to read about some of people's life experiences with tickling involving there significant other. I'm not as old as most of you, being only 18, and haven't experienced as much in the tickling scene as all you guys have, but it's good to read some of these stories and I'm glad that this thread was started and continued. 🙂
I personally have loved being tickled ever since I was younger, but didn't really consider it to be anything more than innocent fun. It was only during boarding highschool (since I went to an all-boys junior highschool in NY City) that I figured out that I really loved being tickled by girls and tried to use every opportunity I could to be tortured by my friends. 🙂 Now, I must agree with what some other people have said in that tickling between friends is a fun and playful thing to do. 🙂 Nothing more really. However, with the very few girls that I came to be more than friends with for a short time (never have had much luck with girls until my current girlfriend), tickling was something I liked far more from them, than from mere friends. I've also never experienced bondage before and it's something I really would like to experience with tickling eventually, but I'm willing to be patient. 🙂
I told my girlfriend (a sweet and wonderful person) only a few days ago how much I loved to be tickled and I had an interest in being tied up and tickled. It was difficult to tell her, as I didn't know how open-minded she was about fetishes like this and there was the fact that she's Catholic and I didn't know if her religion would be a problem either. I'm agnostic, y'see. Anyways, it went well with her and she thought it was very cute and implied that a good deal more tickling might be dished out to me in the future. Being home in the city for vacation now, I eagerly await going back to college... 😉
Well, I must say it's very interesting to read about some of people's life experiences with tickling involving there significant other. I'm not as old as most of you, being only 18, and haven't experienced as much in the tickling scene as all you guys have, but it's good to read some of these stories and I'm glad that this thread was started and continued. 🙂
I personally have loved being tickled ever since I was younger, but didn't really consider it to be anything more than innocent fun. It was only during boarding highschool (since I went to an all-boys junior highschool in NY City) that I figured out that I really loved being tickled by girls and tried to use every opportunity I could to be tortured by my friends. 🙂 Now, I must agree with what some other people have said in that tickling between friends is a fun and playful thing to do. 🙂 Nothing more really. However, with the very few girls that I came to be more than friends with for a short time (never have had much luck with girls until my current girlfriend), tickling was something I liked far more from them, than from mere friends. I've also never experienced bondage before and it's something I really would like to experience with tickling eventually, but I'm willing to be patient. 🙂
I told my girlfriend (a sweet and wonderful person) only a few days ago how much I loved to be tickled and I had an interest in being tied up and tickled. It was difficult to tell her, as I didn't know how open-minded she was about fetishes like this and there was the fact that she's Catholic and I didn't know if her religion would be a problem either. I'm agnostic, y'see. Anyways, it went well with her and she thought it was very cute and implied that a good deal more tickling might be dished out to me in the future. Being home in the city for vacation now, I eagerly await going back to college... 😉
My g/f is does not have ticklish toes, most of the time. When they are ticklish, she has this terrible "ability" to turn off her ticklishness, if i try too hard.
What works for me is to include small tickles while I give her a foot massage. I get the "foot-pull-back", and "foot-cover-up" reaction as i apply my tickling fingers among the caresses and rubs, and I can use the "sorry, it was an accident" excuse. If she likes the foot-rub, I can continue this for a long time.
Granted it is not the same as out-in-the-open tickling, and I feel embarassed to stare at her feet, but it's better than nothing.
What also works is using tickling as a favour returned. For example, if she wants me to get her something from the kitchen or go out to rent a movie, provided the context is appropriate, I'll say, "sure, if you let me tickle you for 3 minutes" Provided she is desparate enough, and lazy enough, I can get away with it.
Also, I can use tickling to collect "payment" for a bet she lost. You lose a bet, you get tickled!
Granted, these last two strategies work less for me, because of that terrible ability of hers, but it might work for you guys and gals.
For ticklees, you can try reverse psychology. Maybe make a bet where the loser gets tickled, and make sure you lose!
I have also tried tickling her in her sleep. Since she is a very light sleeper, it becomes such a challenge, but boy does it get the blood pumping and the adrenaline rushing! But damn those unticklish feet!
To all of you, I wish you my deepest and sincerest wishes in your pursuit for happiness.
To those who have had the bravery to come out in the open about tickling with your s/o, you have my profoundest admiration. Maybe one day I will too.
Blu
What works for me is to include small tickles while I give her a foot massage. I get the "foot-pull-back", and "foot-cover-up" reaction as i apply my tickling fingers among the caresses and rubs, and I can use the "sorry, it was an accident" excuse. If she likes the foot-rub, I can continue this for a long time.
Granted it is not the same as out-in-the-open tickling, and I feel embarassed to stare at her feet, but it's better than nothing.
What also works is using tickling as a favour returned. For example, if she wants me to get her something from the kitchen or go out to rent a movie, provided the context is appropriate, I'll say, "sure, if you let me tickle you for 3 minutes" Provided she is desparate enough, and lazy enough, I can get away with it.
Also, I can use tickling to collect "payment" for a bet she lost. You lose a bet, you get tickled!
Granted, these last two strategies work less for me, because of that terrible ability of hers, but it might work for you guys and gals.
For ticklees, you can try reverse psychology. Maybe make a bet where the loser gets tickled, and make sure you lose!
I have also tried tickling her in her sleep. Since she is a very light sleeper, it becomes such a challenge, but boy does it get the blood pumping and the adrenaline rushing! But damn those unticklish feet!
To all of you, I wish you my deepest and sincerest wishes in your pursuit for happiness.
To those who have had the bravery to come out in the open about tickling with your s/o, you have my profoundest admiration. Maybe one day I will too.
Blu
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Some Solutions are just too simple.
IF you love your significant other be it a gf bf wife husband and that love is returned. IF you both respect and trust each other, there is NO reason why you cannot share your desires for tickling and or being tickled.
There is NOTHING to loose and EVERYTHING to gain buy expressing your feelings.
Do it for the New Year. Do it for youself and your significant others.
You will feel MUCH better afterwards!😀
Sincerely,
TTD
IF you love your significant other be it a gf bf wife husband and that love is returned. IF you both respect and trust each other, there is NO reason why you cannot share your desires for tickling and or being tickled.
There is NOTHING to loose and EVERYTHING to gain buy expressing your feelings.
Do it for the New Year. Do it for youself and your significant others.
You will feel MUCH better afterwards!😀
Sincerely,
TTD
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I'd like to weigh in on this topic. I was always a tickler growing up, but several years ago in college, I started dating this georgious girl. In addition to being beautiful, she was also really cool, and one of the nicest people I've ever known(believe me, she could've been a lot more stuck-up, if she wanted to be - she was that hot!). Problem was, she wasn't the slightest bit ticklish anywhere. It made it even more frustrating, because she had beautiful shapely feet! I tried tickling her everywhere, stomach, ribs, feet, armpits - no response. It was very frustrating. Then one night on a date, we were cuddling, and I started ticking her ribs, hoping I could catch her off-guard, but as usual it didn't work. She said "you know I'm not ticklish, but how about you?" Then she went for my ribs, and I went nuts. From that time on, she tickled me constantly. A couple times(when we were alone, watching tv) she even put her feet in my lap, and would poke my ribs with her sexy toes, knowing I couldn't get her back, because she wasn't ticklish. I noticed she started getting turned on by tickling me, and by having the advantage over me. Seeing her turned on, got me excited, and eventually became a 'lee, as much as a 'ler. Don't get me wrong, I still love ticklish women, but for those guys out there who feel like they're "stuck" with women who aren't ticklish, at least they might be open to tickling you
Like shy girl, my husband is completely tickle dead too, although he does at least enjoy tickling me adn become more adventurous over the years. I am horrendously ticklish and the urge and want inside me to tickle someone mercilessly is ft to bursting point, but at the end of the day I guess I have to be contentwith being the lee as I wouldn;t risk my marriage for it. He knows exactly how I fel about it, he knows I've tickled my friend, but although I have had long open conversations with hr about tickling adn the effects it has on both of us, it has never (so far!!) gone beyond a ticklehug or a quick playful poke int ribs. I would dearly love to really get her as she is exceptionally ticklish and cute too, but again I'm not going to potentially jeopardise a friendship over it. The rouble is finding people who only want to enjoy tickling as platonic playful fun and not as a sexual thing. I've posted here a few times and had replies, but as great as you all are and as much as I respect your own individual beliefs all the replies are from guys and quite openly want more than just a tickling experience, or for the majority of you it is a sexua issue, whereas for me it isn;t. I somehow feel hubby would be fine if I played platonically with a woman, but there is no way he'd tolerate a guy. I just have to live as a lee I guess unless a female comes along who wants to play.
Hi ticklemad:
I understand how you feel. It is hard to find people who would just have tickling fun with you. Over the years, I have made my interest in feet and tickling more noticeable to the point where most of my friends see it is something that characterizes me. They do not see it as a sexually-related thing. Just as a playful part of my personality.
From that point of view, some of my friends "enjoy" the tickles in a playful manner, However, they would never go beyond that, nor would I ever even dream of asking for bondage or anything like that. I think that if you want to get to that level, you need a different circle of friends (and I mean that in a good way).
Different people have different interests. I and most of my friends (as far as I know) do not have any interest in SMBD or anything like that. When I engage in a tickling situation with them is during a foot massage or a tickle fight. Hence, it is somewhat innocent and fun.
During the last few years, I have been lucky to find some female friends who would go a little farther than a playful tickle. However, I am always afraid that if you go too far you would fall into the "cheating" category. Mind and hormones can take you really far really fast... 🙁 Hence, I try to keep those ineractions to a minimum.
My significant other also falls into the non-ticklish category. She is a little ticklish in ceratin areas, but she hates it. However, over time, she has understood that it is something I crave and is beginning to enjoy it a little. Also, she has started to tickle me and have fun with it. People change, but it takes a lot of time and patience.
However, one thing that will not change is the fact that she will not become more ticklish just because I wish her to be. Thus, I make the most of the little ticklishness she has and some playful tickling outside the relationship, as long as she does not mind.
Take care,
Knight Tickler
I understand how you feel. It is hard to find people who would just have tickling fun with you. Over the years, I have made my interest in feet and tickling more noticeable to the point where most of my friends see it is something that characterizes me. They do not see it as a sexually-related thing. Just as a playful part of my personality.
From that point of view, some of my friends "enjoy" the tickles in a playful manner, However, they would never go beyond that, nor would I ever even dream of asking for bondage or anything like that. I think that if you want to get to that level, you need a different circle of friends (and I mean that in a good way).
Different people have different interests. I and most of my friends (as far as I know) do not have any interest in SMBD or anything like that. When I engage in a tickling situation with them is during a foot massage or a tickle fight. Hence, it is somewhat innocent and fun.
During the last few years, I have been lucky to find some female friends who would go a little farther than a playful tickle. However, I am always afraid that if you go too far you would fall into the "cheating" category. Mind and hormones can take you really far really fast... 🙁 Hence, I try to keep those ineractions to a minimum.
My significant other also falls into the non-ticklish category. She is a little ticklish in ceratin areas, but she hates it. However, over time, she has understood that it is something I crave and is beginning to enjoy it a little. Also, she has started to tickle me and have fun with it. People change, but it takes a lot of time and patience.
However, one thing that will not change is the fact that she will not become more ticklish just because I wish her to be. Thus, I make the most of the little ticklishness she has and some playful tickling outside the relationship, as long as she does not mind.
Take care,
Knight Tickler
hi magic fingers (and to everyone else)
actually, my g/f has also started tickling me in revenge. It would be quite enjoyable, if I could only let myself go and actually enjoy it.
But the embarassment kicks in - before you all start scolding me, saying i shouldn't be embarassed, i should say that I have more issues than Time magazine.
Anyways, the embarassment kicks in, and I get out of the situation asap.
But as TTD says, it is the New Year... so I should make a new years resolution.
Hats off to you all, who can be proud of your indulgences.
enough of my sob story - PARTY ON FOLKS!
actually, my g/f has also started tickling me in revenge. It would be quite enjoyable, if I could only let myself go and actually enjoy it.
But the embarassment kicks in - before you all start scolding me, saying i shouldn't be embarassed, i should say that I have more issues than Time magazine.
Anyways, the embarassment kicks in, and I get out of the situation asap.
But as TTD says, it is the New Year... so I should make a new years resolution.
Hats off to you all, who can be proud of your indulgences.
enough of my sob story - PARTY ON FOLKS!
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Ticklemad: I can understand what you are going through.
I wish I could help you out personally. What if you asked your husband to be there when/if you were to tie and tickle a male ticklee mercilessly? This way he will see what is going on and not be thinking ou are "cheating". Would that work?
IF you are in the ny/nj area, let's talk about that if you want or you can find someone who is close to your area.
At least you are talking about it with him openly.
tkl325: This is NOT a scolding.
You have absolutely NOTHING to be embarassed about. Even if you are very much turned on sexually during the tickling. That could only be a plus and to your and her advantge. Think of it as an intense foreplay if you have to.
To the both of you and or anyone else reading/involved in this tread, IF there is anything I can do to help out, please do not hesitate to contact me directly or here in this thread.
I am here for ya!
Sincerely,
TTD
Ticklemad: I can understand what you are going through.
I wish I could help you out personally. What if you asked your husband to be there when/if you were to tie and tickle a male ticklee mercilessly? This way he will see what is going on and not be thinking ou are "cheating". Would that work?
IF you are in the ny/nj area, let's talk about that if you want or you can find someone who is close to your area.
At least you are talking about it with him openly.
tkl325: This is NOT a scolding.
You have absolutely NOTHING to be embarassed about. Even if you are very much turned on sexually during the tickling. That could only be a plus and to your and her advantge. Think of it as an intense foreplay if you have to.
To the both of you and or anyone else reading/involved in this tread, IF there is anything I can do to help out, please do not hesitate to contact me directly or here in this thread.
I am here for ya!
Sincerely,
TTD
That's the thing...
See, when I'm tickled by friends (who are girls of course), it's a fun thing and enjoyable. But when I am tickled by a girl I really like as more than a friend, it becomes, as well as fun, a sexual turn-on for me. This is the only part of being tickled that I'm having trouble explaining to my girlfriend and haven't, as of yet. I'm afraid that she might get a bit freaked out by knowing it turns me on and will stop tickling me altogether. Don't really know how to tell her, though, as we're a relatively new couple and also, both of us have never really had a relationship before, so I think I'm treading on thin ice, I'm not sure.
See, when I'm tickled by friends (who are girls of course), it's a fun thing and enjoyable. But when I am tickled by a girl I really like as more than a friend, it becomes, as well as fun, a sexual turn-on for me. This is the only part of being tickled that I'm having trouble explaining to my girlfriend and haven't, as of yet. I'm afraid that she might get a bit freaked out by knowing it turns me on and will stop tickling me altogether. Don't really know how to tell her, though, as we're a relatively new couple and also, both of us have never really had a relationship before, so I think I'm treading on thin ice, I'm not sure.
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It seems perfectly normal to me to become a little or a lot excited when a girl you like starts tickling you.... after all, it is physical touch, and why shouldn't it excite you when a girl you like touches you.... the same could be said for a massage, or even a hand on the knee briefly while sitting next to one another..... thats part of what makes infatuation so special.... little things make you tingly, or horny, whatever....... I would actually think you were odd if you didn't get turned on when a girl you like starts tickling you.... same goes for anyone else, tickle fetish or not.. thats what it is all about!! touchy feely stuff!
just take a deep breath and repeat..... "I am normal. I am normal. I am normal" but don't repeat it for too long, or else you will look like a freak! ha!
It seems perfectly normal to me to become a little or a lot excited when a girl you like starts tickling you.... after all, it is physical touch, and why shouldn't it excite you when a girl you like touches you.... the same could be said for a massage, or even a hand on the knee briefly while sitting next to one another..... thats part of what makes infatuation so special.... little things make you tingly, or horny, whatever....... I would actually think you were odd if you didn't get turned on when a girl you like starts tickling you.... same goes for anyone else, tickle fetish or not.. thats what it is all about!! touchy feely stuff!
just take a deep breath and repeat..... "I am normal. I am normal. I am normal" but don't repeat it for too long, or else you will look like a freak! ha!
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What Slappy said is very true indeed.
Also, you don't have to say a word really to your gf, I think that if it turns you on when you tickle her, actions and or reactions😀 😉
will speak for themselves. Then, go from there!
Tickle her back! Make it a fun experience and a prelude to....well, I think you and her can figure that out on your own, yes?
😉
Be open be honest be YOURSELF!
TTD
What Slappy said is very true indeed.
Also, you don't have to say a word really to your gf, I think that if it turns you on when you tickle her, actions and or reactions😀 😉
will speak for themselves. Then, go from there!
Tickle her back! Make it a fun experience and a prelude to....well, I think you and her can figure that out on your own, yes?
😉 Be open be honest be YOURSELF!
TTD
Thanks a lot, Slappy. What you said makes me feel damn better. 😀 But I still don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself...
I really only told her about the fact I love to be tickled because she wrote me these two truly awesome and outstanding letters about how much she loved me and all and couldn't get it out of her head that I was hers. In the first of those two letters, she mentioned how she wanted a healthy and honest relationship. Now, I'm always honest and truthful, sometimes blatantly or scathingly so, so I believed it was right to tell her about my love of being tickled, that she had a right to know. She thinks it's cute and all, which is a good thing 😀 , but I don't know how to explain to her that when she herself tickles me, which isn't very often, I get turned on. I mean, I feel it's something she should know, but then... Argh... Anyone understand my small dilemma here?
I really only told her about the fact I love to be tickled because she wrote me these two truly awesome and outstanding letters about how much she loved me and all and couldn't get it out of her head that I was hers. In the first of those two letters, she mentioned how she wanted a healthy and honest relationship. Now, I'm always honest and truthful, sometimes blatantly or scathingly so, so I believed it was right to tell her about my love of being tickled, that she had a right to know. She thinks it's cute and all, which is a good thing 😀 , but I don't know how to explain to her that when she herself tickles me, which isn't very often, I get turned on. I mean, I feel it's something she should know, but then... Argh... Anyone understand my small dilemma here?
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IF she truly meant what she said in those letters and you genuinly do have strong feelings for each other and love each other, then you should have a solid enough foundation to express your inner most desires openly and without fear of "rejection" or her feeling any less for you.
Tell her while either playing around or while snuggling and cuddling romantically.
This should be a no loose situation and outcome for you both.
TTD
IF she truly meant what she said in those letters and you genuinly do have strong feelings for each other and love each other, then you should have a solid enough foundation to express your inner most desires openly and without fear of "rejection" or her feeling any less for you.
Tell her while either playing around or while snuggling and cuddling romantically.
This should be a no loose situation and outcome for you both.
TTD
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Hey tkl325, I must say, I agree w/TTD. Why be embarrassed? I honestly believe that, in some cases(like my ex)non-ticklish women enjoy having the advantage over ticklish guys(I guess kind of a domination type thing, except not as painful, and a lot more fun!.) Is that such a bad thing? Believe me, there are a lot worse things, than being tickled by a pretty girl. It's way more fun than dating someone, who's not into tickling at all(now that's really a drag) She enjoys it, you obviously enjoy it, and it's only an issue, if you make it an issue. You also mentioned that her feet aren't ticklish, but how about her ribs, or tummy? I agree, ticklish female feet are the most fun, but it doesn't have to be a total loss. Sorry, if I sound like I'm lecturing, but it sounds like ya got a good thing going. Enjoy it!!😛
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You are quite welcome indeed.
Glad to help. Here for ya anytime you need.
Tickle on and be tickled!!!
TTD
You are quite welcome indeed.
Glad to help. Here for ya anytime you need.
Tickle on and be tickled!!!
TTD
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Glad to be of assistance tkl325. Although I must say, I'm a little jealous. It's been so long since I've received a good tickle🙁
Does your girlfriend have a sister?😉
Does your girlfriend have a sister?😉
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Flatfoot
I hear where you are coming from my friend.
Have you tried letting her tickle YOU and show her that side of tickling?
Also, have you tried starting out with a more sensual tickle and leading up to the more ruthless tickling?
You may be able to slowly and subtly get her INTO it.
TTD
I hear where you are coming from my friend.
Have you tried letting her tickle YOU and show her that side of tickling?
Also, have you tried starting out with a more sensual tickle and leading up to the more ruthless tickling?
You may be able to slowly and subtly get her INTO it.
TTD
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Flatfoot
Is a little bondage a part of your lives?
Perhaps if she allows or allowed you to tie her down to the bed, and you can start with massage and slowly tickle different parts of her body in a very sensual manner.
Tell her that you will allow her to do the same to YOU after you are finished with her.
TTD
Is a little bondage a part of your lives?
Perhaps if she allows or allowed you to tie her down to the bed, and you can start with massage and slowly tickle different parts of her body in a very sensual manner.
Tell her that you will allow her to do the same to YOU after you are finished with her.
TTD
Thanks TTD
Your kind words are much appreciated. I am over here int eh Uk where sadly there is a much more siff uppper lip view on matters such as this. Hubby is very much of the old school, even though he is young, very much a missionary position only man if you know what I mean, despite efforts to educate him. It has taken me 13 years to persuade him that ticke tools aren;t just fingers. He would never agree to being a spectator or having another man/woman touch me, even playfully, has been most upset on the occasions where a family member may even so much as give me a playful dig in the ribs - yep, insecurity issues here me thinks. The other thing is I only really want to be tickled by another woman - not because of sexuality issues, but necause of the abuse I experienced in earlier life (sexual and physical/emotional) at the hands of men, but here in the uk, say that to someone and you're a freak or considered gay. Anyway I'm off to rehab for 6 months shortly so maybe my strength in handling things may also change my line of life in the future too - I hope so.
Your kind words are much appreciated. I am over here int eh Uk where sadly there is a much more siff uppper lip view on matters such as this. Hubby is very much of the old school, even though he is young, very much a missionary position only man if you know what I mean, despite efforts to educate him. It has taken me 13 years to persuade him that ticke tools aren;t just fingers. He would never agree to being a spectator or having another man/woman touch me, even playfully, has been most upset on the occasions where a family member may even so much as give me a playful dig in the ribs - yep, insecurity issues here me thinks. The other thing is I only really want to be tickled by another woman - not because of sexuality issues, but necause of the abuse I experienced in earlier life (sexual and physical/emotional) at the hands of men, but here in the uk, say that to someone and you're a freak or considered gay. Anyway I'm off to rehab for 6 months shortly so maybe my strength in handling things may also change my line of life in the future too - I hope so.
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Well ticklemad, you are most welcome. Anything I can do from here, just let me know and I will do my best.
I guess you are in a "ticklish situation" there with your husband.
Slowly you will have to turn him to you style of thinking and keep it within yourselves since he is so against you having ticklish contact with anyone else man or woman.
However you can use that to your advantage. 😀 😉
Eventually he will see how much tickling turns you on and will, if he is a good man to you and loves you, will satisfy you tickle desires.
Most solutions are so simple they are overlooked.
One just has to see the forest through the trees, if you know what I mean.
TTD
I guess you are in a "ticklish situation" there with your husband.
Slowly you will have to turn him to you style of thinking and keep it within yourselves since he is so against you having ticklish contact with anyone else man or woman.
However you can use that to your advantage.
😀 😉 Eventually he will see how much tickling turns you on and will, if he is a good man to you and loves you, will satisfy you tickle desires.
Most solutions are so simple they are overlooked.
One just has to see the forest through the trees, if you know what I mean.
TTD
