How Do I Come Across?

[Knot Amewzed]

I recognize the sentiment, and possibly the individual. 😉 Unfortunately, if one needs to be the feminine center of the (TMF) universe in order to be happy, one might feel unwelcome in the presence of younger blood. But as other posters have already stated, that's one's own problem, one's own choice, and no one else is to blame.

I might have mentioned something along those lines earlier, but you are Spot-on Lindy!!!

 

[Knot Amewzed]

First impressions are not always correct and It's really is hard just what a person's mood is by just what they type!

We sort of experienced that...lol.

 

[BellaRisa]

I recognize the sentiment, and possibly the individual. 😉 Unfortunately, if one needs to be the feminine center of the (TMF) universe in order to be happy, one might feel unwelcome in the presence of younger blood. But as other posters have already stated, that's one's own problem, one's own choice, and no one else is to blame.

Anyway Skip, I think you come across as someone who values honesty more than diplomacy. Being such a person myself, I understand and admire such tendencies, while recognizing they come with a price. 😛

Let me cosign this post. If you can't handle other females getting attention, especially on a fetish forum, that's between you and your therapist but you can't blame the forum or it's members. Seriously, check yourself.

Furthermore Skip, the only times I've seen you more honest than diplomatic is when someone needs you to be that way to make yourself truly heard. That's usually because *they* have thrown diplomacy out the window. I'll never understand why people are astounded by the truth, and by being treated the way they're treating others, but frankly I'm glad to see *real* conversatons instead of pussyfooting around the veteran members simply because they're veterans.

 

[Knot Amewzed]

Let me cosign this post. If you can't handle other females getting attention, especially on a fetish forum, that's between you and your therapist but you can't blame the forum or it's members. Seriously, check yourself.

Furthermore Skip, the only times I've seen you more honest than diplomatic is when someone needs you to be that way to make yourself truly heard. That's usually because *they* have thrown diplomacy out the window. I'll never understand why people are astounded by the truth, and by being treated the way they're treating others, but frankly I'm glad to see *real* conversatons instead of pussyfooting around the veteran members simply because they're veterans.

In a nutshell right there ^^^^

Lovers you Skip!!!

 

[DLazarus]

You come across as opinionated, but very friendly. I would love to meet you in person so I can make an informed opinion. But, for the record, I like your personality and I think we could be great friends.

Don

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

You come across as opinionated, but very friendly. I would love to meet you in person so I can make an informed opinion. But, for the record, I like your personality and I think we could be great friends.

Don

Ditto! 🙂 Feel free to PM me or add me on AIM/Yahoo anytime 😉

 

[McNoodle]

You come across to me as someone who is brutally honest with a heart of gold and a mouth of trash.

Plz don't ever change!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

You come across to me as someone who is brutally honest with a heart of gold and a mouth of trash.

Plz don't ever change!

OMG srsly - is there a spot I can request more sig characters? LOL I'd love to add this 😀 ILY Noodle

 

[unclebill]

I recognize the sentiment, and possibly the individual. 😉 Unfortunately, if one needs to be the feminine center of the (TMF) universe in order to be happy, one might feel unwelcome in the presence of younger blood. But as other posters have already stated, that's one's own problem, one's own choice, and no one else is to blame. 😛

Thats a terrible thing to say, Lindy. I certainly hope you`re a better person then to take cheap shots like that when someone isn`t here to defend herself. Nobody ever said anything about being the "feminine center of the TMF universe." Those are your words.

 

[LindyHopper]

Thats a terrible thing to say, Lindy. I certainly hope you`re a better person then to take cheap shots like that when someone isn`t here to defend herself. Nobody ever said anything about being the "feminine center of the TMF universe." Those are your words.

I just have trouble buying the argument of "I feel like I no longer fit in." As many others have already said, there's a place for everyone here who makes an effort to connect. And honestly, coming from "one of the most popular women in the history of the TMF," it just sounds like code for, "I'm not getting as much attention as I used to." You seem to be blaming Skip and others of her generation for that, and that's simply not fair to them.

In any event, my words needn't be directed at anyone in particular to make the sentiment true. We might not even be thinking of the same person. Regardless, this discussion is public, so anyone who wants to defend herself is welcome to do so. Anyone to whom my statements do not apply has no reason to be offended.

 

[unclebill]

I just have trouble buying the argument of "I feel like I no longer fit in." As many others have already said, there's a place for everyone here who makes an effort to connect. And honestly, coming from "one of the most popular women in the history of the TMF," it just sounds like code for, "I'm not getting as much attention as I used to." You seem to be blaming Skip and others of her generation for that, and that's simply not fair to them.

In any event, my words needn't be directed at anyone in particular to make the sentiment true. We might not even be thinking of the same person. Regardless, this discussion is public, so anyone who wants to defend herself is welcome to do so. Anyone to whom my statements do not apply has no reason to be offended.

It seems like you`re trying very hard to make yourself look good at someone elses expense. And the "most popular female in history" is just me stating my opinion. You got a problem with that, too???

 

[Knot Amewzed]

It seems like you`re trying very hard to make yourself look good at someone elses expense. And the "most popular female in history" is just me stating my opinion. You got a problem with that, too???

OMG, Madonna was once a TMF member???

 

[LindyHopper]

It seems like you`re trying very hard to make yourself look good at someone elses expense. And the "most popular female in history" is just me stating my opinion. You got a problem with that, too???

Hmm. Wow.

I still don't feel I've said anything out of line, but I'm sorry you're so upset about this, and I'm sorry you're missing your friend.

Perhaps a puppy is in order?

 

[natural tickler]

Let's see....how does Skippy come across???


as a shit talking bully, who bullies other people around hiding behind a disguise of telling it like it is.....who hates to shovel snow, is a terrible ler, amongst other things....lol j/k cheeky bottoms

srsly, in real-life, she is the sweetest person you ever wanna meet...takes a little time to open up and get to know you, but when she does, she is a sweetheart, srsly.

the time I got to know her in Ohio, she became one of my best friends, and I value that greatly

lovverz to know ya babe

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Let's see....how does Skippy come across???


as a shit talking bully, who bullies other people around hiding behind a disguise of telling it like it is.....who hates to shovel snow, is a terrible ler, amongst other things....lol j/k cheeky bottoms

srsly, in real-life, she is the sweetest person you ever wanna meet...takes a little time to open up and get to know you, but when she does, she is a sweetheart, srsly.

the time I got to know her in Ohio, she became one of my best friends, and I value that greatly

lovverz to know ya babe

omg..srsly...SO sweet 🙂 I lovers you too!!! I can't wait to see you!! EFF YOU for not coming to the munch!! But I understand

 

[natural tickler]

hey, can you please be patient and wait for May?? I'll make it worth your while

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

hey, can you please be patient and wait for May?? I'll make it worth your while

So you say 😉