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How do you find 'lees online?

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Hey y'all,


For a while now I've been posting on this site and on Craigslist and for the life of me I can not seem to find anyone in my area who would agree to be a 'lee. Is there some 'right' way to look for 'lees online that I am neglecting? Or is there a way to word your posting so that the people who read aren't turned off at the prospect of meeting you? Any thoughts on the subject would be appreciated.
 
If people get the feeling that the sole purpose of you wanting to meet them is to tickle them, that will turn them off! Not a whole lot of people will just meet up with someone, get tied down and let the person tickle them!
 
from a male lee

i agree with Rhiannon. As a male lee, i would love to find a local female Ler, but it is a stretch to imagine that anyone would want to meet just for this purpose. The best case scenario is always that the tickling happens in a real relationship. Now, if tickling happens to be the commonality that prompts that relationship to start, well, that's fine.
 
And as a lee it is way easier than it is for a ler....it is just so much trust that plays into it!
 
You're not going to have much luck if you're looking for somebody who will just let you tie up and tickle them. You'll have much better luck if you form a relationship with somebody and easing them into it. You'd be surprised how many women actually enjoy it, especially if you start off slowly. They have to have some kind of relationship with you though.
 
Well the key to most things in life are to make friends. Friends can lead to play buddies. 🙂

You make friends by chatting with people about things you have in common besides tickling.
 
Besides what the people above have said, let me add this. The recent murder of a woman by a man she met via Craig's List has made people a little leery of getting into a potentially dangerous situation (that is, one involving bondage) with a stranger from that source.
 
Not to mention that you could get yourself in danger by finding someone on Craigslist...who can guarantee you that it is a ticklish girl who will show up and not her 300 pounds bodybuilder boyfriend ready to rob you?
 
Well, I really do not know what you could be doing wrong, besides like many here have said.... reaching out through craigslist for a play partner in the first place.
The reason I really do not know is unless I know how you are asking, I can not make a judgment. I mean are you sounding desperate? Are you giving little information? Are you sounding creepy and not meaning to come off that way?

I mean without an example of what you currently are posting it is difficult to tell. If you could post an example some of us may be able to be of more help.

Rob
 
What people have said here is largely right. People are obviously going to be very careful at meeting someone, the odds of it ever happening are pretty remote to slim - especially if it's just for tickling. Certainly people who just say "Hey, how are you. Are you ticklish and can I worship your feet" straight away are going to get no where with most people. Nor are the creepy ones who open up with saying "Hey I loved the story about you and you're sister, it made me hot, did it make her hot too" - those kinds of comments are just creppy frankly. Nobody is going to keep talking to people like that.

The people who you keep talking to are going to be the ones who you can talk about other things with and actually might like as a friend. Possibly the best advice would be to meet at a 'Gathering' with a lot of people there, that way you can meet in a safe environment with other people around "Bella Bash" for example. Still you're more likely to get into a situation of tickling by meeting somebody locally or in your wider contact group and making friends with them first, than you are with anybody off the TMF. Generally friendship leads to tickling, not the other way around.
 
Fire_Sprite said:
Please tell me thats a hypothetical example.
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Sadly it isn't. For every cool and fun person on here, you get some real weird ones. Including a few who probably should be locked up for others saftey, like the guy who "wants to kidnap pretty girls and take them to the woods".
 
fightinggirl666 said:
Sadly it isn't. For every cool and fun person on here, you get some real weird ones. Including a few who probably should be locked up for others saftey, like the guy who "wants to kidnap pretty girls and take them to the woods".
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Sounds like an interesting personality....thank God I haven't met that guy on here yet!
 
LOL....you guys are crazy...I've had this theory for a while now that tickling harms the brain cells :rowfull:
 
You can always go to on of the gatherings around your area. I been to NEST, it was lots of fun.
 
All "lee's" I met online have just happend by coincidence. It's someone you meet who have commun interests and there is chemistry between me and the lee. I also get to know then in person before we start talking about playing. Respect people for who they are and treat them like a human, not a potencial play parner. You should also share something with yourself. A add with no info other than "looking for someone to tickle (me)" is not interesting at all. Even I never say no to get to know new girls who are interested in being tickled, I never go further without the person sharing something. I want to know the person and at least know how they look. As I sayd...a blank face with no info ain't interesting.
 
Thanks for the info

Thank you all for providing me with your input. I think I'll just do what I did in high school, find a girl make friends with them and.... tickle them. One more thing though, can anyone give me any ideas on how to ease them into tickling once I've established that they are cool with it?
 
go to BDSM sites, make friendly chat with people with "tickling" down in theyre interests (far from uncommon) who dont live too far away, then attend a play party and arrange to meet them. itl all fall in to place 😛
 
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