aucklandtickler said:
Tricks and gimmics are for sissies, seriously.
I agree. Anyone who has to resort to excuses, tricks, or subterfuge doesn't deserve to be touching her feet to begin with because its not honest. They actually don't deserve to be touching her at all, maybe not even talking to her either if that opportunity was based off a lie as well.
If you really want to be touching someone's feet, you should let a friendship and bond help the two of you grow to a point where she'll feel comfortable and may even want you to do these things without you having to say anything other than be in the right place, at the right time, and in an ideal situation when you've hinted in your body language only that you would like to be touching her feet. Women are smart with body language and they'll catch on to a man's stares and body language eventually....unless of course the man is insecure and is trying to cover this up, which only hurts him and his wishes go unfulfilled.
If she's your girlfriend, then this practically goes without saying. However, if you're really just wanting to touch and feel up on random people like a perv then making excuses and lies doesn't help you. Most people can see right through that crap. They can see you're either too timid, which makes you look sneaky, or they see you're too agressive which makes it look like you're trying too hard and are pitiful.
If you don't let these things occur naturally you're really cheating yourself. This isn't true just for something as simple as touching feet, but anything really, friendships, relationships, love, and life.
These real, genuine experiences CANNOT be bought or conjured, and even if they could, they'd be empty and ultimately unsatisfying. Fleeting, and never truely in reach.
If you don't have the confidence to be yourself, trickery is bitter-sweet and you're only adding to your problems.
My heart goes out to people in these situations.