TIP #49 Women's Ways, Music, and TV for tickling.
Women's Ways, Music, and TV for tickling.
Actually this is a good question, what types of music invoke the desire to be tickled, what type of tv shows get the same reaction?
I actually have an answer for this. Considering that you are wishing to tickle a female lee, then here are my discoveries.
First of all, any man who has ever tickled a woman for any length of time knows that women are about as consisant as a picasso painting. Sure there are certain common traits but they can change in a split second. A woman can go from hateing to be tickled to loving it in a second and visa versa. A woman can also enjoy sexual stimulation and then all of the sudden, not want to be touched.
These odd inconsistencies can be a pain, especially to a tickle lover. The truth is, even with the best chemistry, you will eventually come into conflict with a female lee. It is impossible that you and your lee will see eye to eye or finger to skin all the time.
Here are my findings though on the effects of TV and Music. First of all, woman generally have one track minds, and when that track changes directions without warning, you end up derailing. If the TV show is actually interesting to her, she will pout and wine each time you touch her because you are interrupting her ability too watch the dern show. This can make a tickle lover wanna go curl up in a ball and cry. Having the TV on, however, may not be a bad thing because it offers a constant noise that could keep other thoughts from her brain that would make her not able to enjoy the tickling. Music offers the same benefits and concerns, but it has been my experience that audio stimuli is not as destracting to females as the visual kind. Music needs to be upbeat. Relaxing music is good for sensual tickling but if she has had a long day and would be prone to getting sleepy. then beware or relaxing music.
It is not an easy task to keep even a female tickle enthusiest pleased all the time. There are many variables and you just have to learn your partner, hope for the best, and no how to handle the worst. If you give some testing small tickles and she shows that she really doesn't want to continue, then stop. I know this is very very hard, believe me, I do, but to continue when she doesn't wish so, makes it harder for her to want to be tickled. By the way, laughing or smiling does not always mean she wants more. It often times will still tickle even if she does not want it to. Us men seem to be more mentally stable when it comes to physical pleasure. It feels good, we like it, we do not have to be feeling perfectly awake, happy, or other things. If you touch is and it feels good, then dern it, touch us some more.
Woman are not always that simple. The best skill you can perfect is the skill of predicting when she wants it, and knowing how to stop kindly when she doesn't. Believe me, you wanna go scream till your throat bleeds when women pull a 360 on you, but doing so will not make them respect you which in turns gets you less touching time.