Leaving Aflac Insurance..

[Mitchell]

To show Mairead knows so fucking much.

I left/would have been fired for failure to sell insurance. BUT I was always mannerly and respectful to my co workers and supervisors, and well liked. I was never reprimanded for my attitude or failure to show up to meetings. I was always on time/early, and respectful to all my co workers and supervisors. Keith, my former supervisor, told me when I resigned, that if I needed anything/a letter of recommendation, etc, he will be happy to give me one. We parted on good, civil terms.

With all of my "DADDY'S success, that you like to trumpet about.. Mairead ,who knows so fucking much... . Do you know how many times the man has been fired, or let go, by clients, because of his miserable personality.. or even. in some cases.. unethical behavior? Except for a very few cases.. most clients he has.. or people he works with, end up hating him or getting rid of him,.. for his attitude and vicious personality.. in spite of all the money he makes. I'd rather be fired/let go or resign for failure to sell insurance, than for the reasons he's lost jobs/clients.

Also: I was just looking back to the threads when I passed the exam, and was hired by Aflac.., and whether Miss Mairead Maven know it all said any word of support or congratulations at my efforts in insurance. Nothing. Not one word. Yet, the minute something negative or unfortunate is posted in the forum, she launches into attack after attack that is apparently not covered by the supposed "Golden Rule" of this forum.

I've had people justifiably criticize me if I've done something wrong, but they've also congratulated me if something goes right. She just calls anything unfortunate "Whiny bullshit", which shows her true intent, even if it isn't termed a "Violation" under the supposed "Golden Rule"

 

[Mitchell]

I'm going to tell everyone something, but of course no matter what I say, Maven Mairead will post another of her attacks, and it will be allowed.

IF I had posted..

"I resigned from Aflac because I was going to be fired, and they were completely unfair with me, and my work situation was all their fault for my firing, and I did nothing to contribute to my being fired"

THEN

Maybe her repeated attacks would have been justified.

That is NOT what I said.

I break down the situation into several responsibilities.

1. My inability to cold call due to my stuttering, and maybe, my frustration with the stringent conditions placed on me, and the frustrating business insurance can be, causing me not to push hard enough, even though I did approach many people who turned me down, and I did suggest many types of clients to Aflac, that they said were not allowed under their company rules.

2. Aflac, even though they were very cordial and fair, and I hold no ill will against them, having stringent conditions of who the agents can and cant talk to, and can and cant sign, which limits the scope of clients.

3. The most at fault, in my view.. the law firm. They dragged us along for FIVE MONTHS wasting time with multiple meetings, conference calls, countless emails, etc, lying and saying they would sign, and then renaging at the last minute. I think if they truly were not interested, they should have let us know early on. I don't believe they behaved truthfully at all.

4. My father. A parent who understands his son's feelings, whether he pays for his apartment or not, does not justify a lawyer who lied to his son. and his son's company, and a father does not attack his son, on the very day the father knows the son will be forced to resign his position, after how hard the son worked to pass the exam, suggest clients, and how long the son and the company the son worked for, waited for the law firm who renaged,. My father's justification of his lawyer friend, seemed more critical to him, than his son;s feelings about being lied to by the lawyer, or the consequence of the son losing his position, that such would have.

THAT is the realistic breakdown as I see it,. and not the delusional viewpoint of "Whiny Bullshit" that Mairead posts and claims.

 

[Strider]

It seems that you've already given your two-weeks, so this may be too little, too late; but if there's any chance you can keep going until you're let go, do it. Even if you know it's inevitable, the best time to look for a new job is when you have one already, and if you quit, you won't be eligible for unemployment.

 

[Mitchell]

Strider, thanks for the advice. I sent in my resignation yesterday, effective immediately, and it was accepted, so its done.

Also, insurance is a commission business, and I wasn't making anything, because a large client that was supposed to sign, fell through, so I don't think I'd be eligible for unemployment.

I'm just going to take a few days off, look for a temp job, and then figure out what to do after. I'm very upset about this development,. I loved working at Aflac, and was very sorry to leave. Right now I just need a few days break.

 

[coldneck]

Mairead, I'm not going to tell you what I really think, because you're simply not worth my getting banned over, okay.

The same "Daddy" who threatened to send a hit man to my college campus.. to have me executed, and who caused me to have to take out a restraining order against him for such actions.

The Same Daddy whose adversarial client was going to send a hit man to my campus to kill me, until my father's business partner convinces the adversary that doing so wouldn't affect my father in the least.

The same Daddy that is best friends with his brother, my uncle, who physically pushed me out of a moving car when I was 10 years old.

Before you pass your sassy judgement, know all the facts, okay, because your attitude makes you not only sound uncivil,, but also uninformed.

Que AC/DC "Dirty Deeds - Done Dirt Cheap"

How about some proof of your 'HIT MAN" scenario?
You could put you Father behind bars for years!
But then ... who would pay your way ?

Until you find a way to do it on your own ... just suck it up, and be happy, despite the so-called "abuse" that your father is supporting you.

Although he HATES paying your rent+ every month (like he hated paying for your mother & you) ... He must HATE the idea of you living with him even more.
Think about it!

His other friends are talking about weekends with their Grandchildren and families. What does he have to brag about?

His anger w/ you is justified.
He wants you to turn the corner and get your shit together ... but all you want to do is make excuses and blame him.

And before you launch into the Masters Degree Rant... you have a 4-Year College degree and accomplished NOTHING.

Market America = AMWAY.
And most Insurance Agents have a High School Degree, if that.
Passing the insurance exam at 70% is a JOKE, dude. Most past their 1st or 2nd time. Google it. It's only a Big Deal to YOU.
It's not an Elite Job, as you're finding out.
It's straight commission ... and if you haven't made even ONE SALE all year ... then it's not the career for you.

The sooner you stop blaming your DAD for your lack of success, and start looking at yourself, the better off we will all be.

But Come'on, man. . . . . We all know that won't happen.

 

[Mitchell]

More troll behavior from my number one attack dog troll. I was wondering how long it would take you to surface, coldneck.

You know so fucking much..


Insurance agents with a "High School Degree" you say, using your usual uninformed attack dog tactics.

Keith, my supervisor, and Jason, the guy who brought be into the company.. are both, PRACTICING LAWYERS as well as insurance agents.. you pathetic troll.

As for your usual attack of "Daddy paying my way". Such is why I went into insurance in the first place, with the hope that it would work within a matter of months, so that he wouldn't have to pay another penny.

What you don't get, is.. that he likes using money as control. If I became successful enough.. to tell him to go fuck himself, he would hate that.

I never said I blame my father totally for what happened with Aflac. I listed who I blame, with the law firm that jerked us around for five months, and then never signed, at the top of the list of blame, but, apparently, you are so fixated on attacking me, that you cant read simple English.

 

[Mitchell]

coldneck and Mairead are so fucking pathetic, and twisted, with their constant, and permitted, attacks on me, that they don't get one thing.

Do you both know what the REAL GOAL would be? What I would REALLY do, if I had the warewithal?

If I could become successful in insurance, or get someone to back me in the business I have the trademark on, and be able to pay for this apartment myself.. the following is what would happen

I would sit down with my father.. pay him off EVERY PENNY he laid out for this place, whatever the number is, and then say the following to him.

We despise each other. You obviously despise me, by always being abusive, and kicking me when I'm down, and I cant stand you. I think you are the most miserable human being that's ever crossed my path.

I want you to make me a list of the pros and cons of why you think we should stay together. Give me reasons why we shouldn't be estranged.

My guess.. there are no reasons for us to stay together. He loves to be abusive to me, and kick me when I'm down, and I positively cant stand him.

I think, I'm so angry, because I thought that his reasons for being abusive to me, were because he hated my mom, and also because I didn't work my first year in NY. However, it goes, far, far deeper than that.

My mom is dead, I was working in insurance the past fourteen months, and.. I've been extremely civil to the family he created without me, giving him the "Complete life" he's bitched about for over 20 years.

Yet, he's still abusive to me, even when I cooperate with him. Such is just his way.

 

[Mitchell]

I'm going to tell all the mavens on this forum who are ripping me something.

Do you think that this is the first time family helped family? For example.

My maternal grandparents lived in an expensive apartment in FL, that they basically couldn't afford. Know who paid for that apartment? My mom and me.

My uncle had gotten himself into trouble with addictive gambling, years ago.. My dad loaned and gave my uncle, tens of thousands of dollars, in the early 70s, when I was a baby. Think of how much money that was then. .

My dad had some financial issues in the 1980s. My paternal grandmother and my uncle gave/loaned us money.

My ex best friend's parents, gave their daughter and her husband, $250,000 to start the business that has made them multimillionaires. The parents got paid back, eventually, but as the parents told me, it was like gambling the money, they didn't know their daughter and son in law's business was going to be successful.

BFD a rich father pays for his son's apartment. The way I look at it, this is the grad school education he never gave me, and when I would have been in grad school, he would still have been paying alimony to my mom.

To all you mavens: On the day I decided to resign from Aflac, I was crying because I told my dad that I felt that I had let him down. He said that his biggest concern was my happiness.

Trust me, my dad is not a weak man. If he wanted to kick me out of here, he would.

I told him we need to talk. Chances are, I'm going to get some kind of job for a while. I'm going to have to.. but I have no doubt I'll probably try insurance or some kind of business again.

 

[DerekM]

Am I the only one who laughed out loud about Mitch's father hiring hit men to come to his college and kill him? Come on Mitch! That is insane! lol

 

[Mitchell]

Its not insane, Derek. I said at one time he had threatened to hire a hit man. It was a long time ago. People don't realize the shit I've been through. Everyone is so quick to rip me, that they don't examine the real story.

 

[Tickleyou]

No one would probably rip you if you didn't post your whole pathetic life story on a tickling forum. Did you ever think of that?

 

[Mitchell]

"Whole pathetic life story" , like posting about leaving a job I had told everyone I'd gotten is pathtetic.

You're a great person, tickleyou. You're a troll who waits for someone to post something unfortunate, and then you attack.

 

[Dussicar]

"Whole pathetic life story" , like posting about leaving a job I had told everyone I'd gotten is pathtetic.

Teenagers piss like this when they get shitcanned from their job at a grocery store for not watering the lettuce enough.

I want to rape your dad in his bummyhole.

And I'll make you watch. You'll be traumatized.

Stop posting in split sentences like me.

You look pretentious.

 

[unclebill]

Does Jim Gardner of WPVI -TV, Philadelphia know of this alleged Jewish Mob contract on your life??

 

[Strider]

When I made my initial comment, I hadn't actually read much beyond the first page. Having done that now, I'm going to make an attempt to reach out here.

Mitchell, you don't know me very well and I'm barely active on this forum anymore; but I really can relate to a lot of what you're feeling in regards to your situation. In fact, I think I can say with some confidence that I understand better than most anyone on the forum. I felt a lot of what you're describing in terms of my relationship with my family until I was well into my 20s. I get the anger, the sense of powerlessness, and the sense of being so frustrated with your situation that you want to look around and blame everyone but yourself. I went through a lot of it; I felt many of the same feelings relating to my family enjoying having authority over me because they supported me. Eventually though, I grew up, looked in the mirror, realized that the problem was me, and belatedly managed to get my shit together.

I do not mean what I'm about to say as an attack on your character, but you have made some comments in this thread that come off as astonishingly tone-deaf and showing a pretty extraordinary degree of entitlement on your part. If your dad is seriously the sociopathic, amoral lunatic that you make him out to be, then you are not trapped in the situation and forced to depend on him; you certainly have an alternative.

Your alternative is to get a lousy job that involves wearing a name-tag, move into a not-great apartment with some roommates, and be independent. You can do that, but you don't want to, because however big a prick your dad may be, you obviously prefer the perks that come with a parent that has means to whatever he heaps on you. That's perfectly fine of course, I think most people would feel the same way, but you really need to take a look at yourself and your situation, and be honest about it.

There are plenty of people out there who would give up a kidney to have the level of support that you do. I fully get that you don't like having to be supported by your dad, but because he has means, that puts you in a better situation than a good 95% of the country (if not the planet). The insurance thing didn't pay off; it happens. It probably wasn't a good move for you to begin with, but you tried. The thing is, because of the dad you have, you're in a situation where you actually can try something just to see if it might work. A job loss isn't catastrophic for you the way it is for most people. Recognize that and be appreciative of it.

I don't know if you care about my advice, but I would personally recommend to you is looking into some sort of technical certification; Kis mentioned seeing what your local community college has available and that's a good idea. You don't have to learn to be an ace web developer, but you could probably get enough training to enable you to be a help-desk technician. It's by no means glamorous or high paying, but jobs like that are never going away, and if you can get in somewhere with a position like that, then you can develop some skills that can actually take you farther. Talk to your dad about help with paying for a program like that; I can assure you it's a hell of a lot less expensive than grad school.

Think strategically about what's a good step for you career-wise, talk to your dad about some financial help with that, stop lying to yourself, and stop the magical thinking that says you're owed an independent and comfortable living by virtue of the fact that you exist. You've got built-in advantages that very few people have; use them.

 

[Mitchell]

Strider, your tone in your post wasn't as some of the others were, so I;m not offended. I will say this, though., You don't understand about why I feel the job loss is so bad. It has nothing to do with money. It's more.. emotional that I worked so hard to pass the insurance exam, and to get clients, and was on the verge of getting a big client that didn't happen. There is the frustration of "I worked so hard to pass the insurance exam, and get big clients, it didn't happen, and I'm feeling badly" That is normal human emotion of losing a job/position that you worked hard at, that has nothing to do with money. My ex best friend's father, who earned six figures, lost an executive job once, and got a year's severance pay, and was in a depression because of the blow to how he felt about himself, even though he had plenty of money. Sadness about a career setback doesn't always have to do with money, or facing immediate poverty, due to loss of a position. It can be emotion about the loss of the position itself. a more. "I'm sad that this job I loved didn't work out for me". That's normal emotion about losing a position that one loved.

I want to make one thing clear.. In no way do I feel "entitled". My dad knows that I appreciate that he pays for this place. I tell him that all the time. I think that personal relationships, and money, are two separate things though. Additionally, I don't think its anyone's fucking business to judge, whether he pays for this place or not. Some of the comments by certain people in this thread.. of "Oh your daddy pays for this place, spoiled brat", are none of anyone's fucking business but my dad's and mine. I don't tell any of these geniuses who are commenting, how to live their lives. I have my opinions on their character traits, or lack thereof, also.

I already know what I'm going to do. He and I have discussed it. I'll get.. a whatever temp job for a while.

My problem is.. what I do longer term for a career, that will earn me enough money for pay for a decent apartment in NYC. No ongoing low wage job is going to pay for this place. He's not going to be around forever to pay for it, nor would I expect him to.

I have a business idea that I have a trademark on. My hope, is to get someone to help me with that, even slowly, beyond a job, to be able to earn money from a couple of different sources. Maybe I will even get back into insurance one day not long off.

For now, I'll check into the temp jobs for a bit until I clear my head, and figure out a longer term plan.

 

[Mitchell]

One other thing I want to point out, that also has nothing to do with money.

I may have mentioned at some point a while back how Jay, the guy that initially brought me into the company, had been transferred to another office.,. with a few other people, and one of the major supervisors.

When I emailed Jay, to tell him I was leaving, because if not I was going to be let go, he wished me well, and then talked about how he missed when we all worked together in the NY office, and how different the office some of them work in now is. We used to meet, have training sessions, cold call, have lunch and dinner together in and out of the office, go to bars after work. You build a bond with people.

The good thing is: I parted on very good terms with all of the Aflac people. I know we will stay in touch. I feel good that even though I didn't live up to their standards sales wise, they respect my character and work ethic.

 

[Bohemianne]

As those who know me are aware.. my dad is 74 years old.

Bless his heart. Forgive him! Your hatred will take toll on you and make you age faster than him.

 

[DontAskJusTckle]

I thought I'd lighten things up with a funny idea that came to me from all this talk about hit men. What if Mitchell's Dad sent Mr. and Mrs. Smith to do the job? After all, isn't Mr. Smith really Ben Aflac?

So they arrive at Mitchell's Manhattan apartment to plant the bomb. They introduce themselves as representatives of Market America (AMWAY). Mitchell leaves them momentarily to fetch beverages from the kitchen.

"Baby, I need you to distract him while I case the joint."

"Huh?"

"...*sigh*...while I determine the best and most effective location on premises to plant the incendiary device."

"Oh, why didn't say so? Hmm...distract him, eh? Should I break out the lovey dovey Ginger Grant routine?"

"Nah, just take off your shoes and climb that ladder over there."

"Seriously?"

"Trust me."

Mitchell reenters the room and sets down a tray on the coffee table with a pitcher of lemonade and three glasses. Suddenly he sees Mrs. Smith smiling it him, standing barefoot on the step ladder. He stairs at her in wonder. "My lucky ladder! I knew it would work, eventually!" Mrs. Smith throws him a wink.

Meanwhile, Mr. <s>Aflac</s> Smith has found a suitable spot in Mitchell's closet behind a stack of Tied & Tickled magazines. But then he gets a text from Mitchell's Dad calling off the hit. The couple make an excuse and leave with the bomb as Mitchell checks "seeing Angelina Jolie barefoot on a ladder" off of his bucket list, after which he begins preparing the video footage to post on the TMF.

 

[Mitchell]

Boh, I have forgiven my father, many times. It's my father who rants on about my mother, and maternal grandmother, both of whom have been dead for years. That's less normal than a 44 year old son living in an apartment paid for by his well to do father.

DAJT, I like that lol.

 

[Mitchell]

Something just dawned on me. A message for all the attack dogs in this thread like Mairead and coldneck, to show how twisted they both are with their consistent attacks on me.

If I had posted.. "I was fired from Aflac, and.. it really doesn't matter.. because.. I don't give a fuck about Aflac, and the opportunity they gave me meant nothing to me. I don't care about having a solid career where I can support myself.. I can just live off my rich father for the rest of his life".

THEN

I would have deserved the vicious attacks that Mairead and coldneck gave me.

What is it that I said?

"I was forced to leave Aflac.. and.. that really bothers me.. because.. it was such a good experience. I worked with such awesome people. I feel badly that it didn't work out. I'm very appreciative of the opportunity Aflac gave me, and very concerned about my next career move.. so I can make enough money to support my expensive apartment, and be independent from my father who I have a difficult relationship with".

That is A NORMAL REACTION, from someone who just had a work situation end. However, Mairead and coldneck are so fucking twisted with everything they post about me, knowing whatever they say will be permitted under this supposed "Golden Rule", that they know they can get away with it, no matter how vicious and twisted it is.

While I still enjoy certain aspects about the forum, and still appreciate those who support me if things are difficult, there is another thought I have.

Its like an alcoholic who gets drunk one night, wakes up with a hangover that hurts, gets over the hangover, and then goes back, and gets drunk the next night.. Like a bad addiction. I must .. subconsciously.. have some addiction to the abuse I;ve taken here. Another person would have either left the forum.., after the vicious abuse dealt out by Mairead and coldneck, that has been allowed under this supposed "Golden Rule". I'm still here, and haven't taken a hiatus, or left for good, which shows something.

I wonder when or if I will reach my breaking point, that enough will be enough, twelve year history here or not. Maybe. I've had so many changes over the past four years, with my mom being sick and dying, moving to NY, reconnections with relatives I hadn't seen in years, and then the Aflac position that is now over, I wanted some familiarity with Jim Gardner and this forum. I personally think the attacks allowed in this thread are disgraceful, and not just because I'm the recipient of them. The only thing I really can do.. is post nothing on the forum.. so the attackers will have no information with which to attack me.

 

[kis123]

I'll tell you what I've always told you over the years...if I didn't care, I wouldn't bother responding. There are several of us who do care about you but you've made it very hard because you operate from a hard and bitter heart....and a really hard head!! You're not going to like MOST of what I'm about to say, but I hope you listen with your heart and mind and that my words permeate past all those mental blocks and self defeating fortresses you've put up for yourself. You at this point, have the option to change your mindset or stay stuck in your self-defeating behavior patterns. So here it goes.....

Mitch...you have turned a simple posting of a life-change event into a flaming hot mess! Unfortunately you are the only one in this thread who doesn't see it that way. I even went as far as reviewing coldneck's response in this thread and as stinging an indictment towards you as it is, he happens to be right.

You went through a traumatic event losing your mother; mine has been gone 19 years and it STILL feels like it happened yesterday, so I understand and can relate to your pain. I'll never move on and no one here expects you to. But I have learned to move forward without my mother's guidance and love for me in this life.

I had multiple issues with my husband to the point people thought I was divorced, but I didn't hate him and was ALWAYS there for him when needed most, including when it was time to let him go to move on to his "next life" destination. I could've made tons of excuses where he was concerned, and I took some major hits from his family for removing him from the ventilator to set him free, but I did what I thought was best for him from a position of love and compassion for the father of my children. A day doesn't go by that me and my children don't grieve his loss.

When my sister passed in July I was devastated (and still am in many ways). I won't even get into the particulars of her situation because they're just too emotionally raw to put in print. I have been stuck on many issues surrounding her passing, but at my deepest inner core, I know that I MUST MOVE FORWARD, NO MATTER WHAT!! So if that means setting my life back to "start" and doing some things all over again to obtain peace and progression, then that's what the hell I do!!

Strider mentioned that there are MANY who would sacrifice an appendage (or several) to have access to the help you receive from a man that you claim to hate, but he pays your rent and expenses every month!! I personally don't get it Mitch!

Simply put, it's time to do as my mother and grandmother used to say (and excuse the graphics);

"SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT!!!!"​

You are trying to get sympathy from a group of people who see EXACTLY the way I do.....it ain't gonna' happen for you! Deal with the facts that although you hate him, you NEED him....at least for now. You should be grateful he's even there to help you considering your history and the FACT that at your age, his is NOT OBLIGATED TO GIVE YOU A DIME TO HELP YOU!!

I have some serious questions for you Mitch and your answer will remain in print as long as the TMF continues to exist and on the internet forever so please give yourself time to reflect before answering. Your typical wounded knee jerk responses would not be in your best interests at this point.

In the time you've taken to create this post, the time you've spent defending a defenseless position to people that you've never met before....

How much time have you spent looking for another job?
How much time have you invested in the ideas and suggestions people in this forum (myself included) have given you?
Have you gone to colleges and checked the job boards yet?
Have you researched job training programs yet?
What have you done to IMPROVE your present situation other than multiple feeble unsuccessful attempts to justify a miserable situation that you put yourself in and seem uninterested in getting YOURSELF out of??

Spend your time more wisely and govern yourself accordingly and I bet your life will change in about a week. Keep doing as you always do and you'll get the same miserable results you've always gotten....and NO ONE here is going to feel one bit of sympathy towards you.

I sincerely hope you take what I've said to heart because whether you do or don't it doesn't add one dollar to my pocket or enhance the quality of my life one iota. While you work on that response to me, I'll be doing multiple things to make my world a better place. And if I continue to work on improving my life and circumstances guess what? Eventually they WILL get better!! Universal divine law ALWAYS works Mitch....always!! You've been applying it for years in the WRONG energy mindset, and look what it's brought you? Now if you reverse that attitude and mindset you've been carrying for the last several decades, you'll get a result that you can be proud of and maybe...just maybe, you can get off your 74 year old father's welfare roll.

If this post angers you, I hope it's angered you for all the RIGHT reasons.

I look forward to your response........

 

[evilwomanhehe]

Kudos, Kis. Mitch: this is tearing up your insides and you're going to wind up in the hospital. You need closure and have a SERIOUS heart-to-heart talk with your father. I hope you had a job lined up before you quit. The economy SUCKS.

I'll tell you what I've always told you over the years...if I didn't care, I wouldn't bother responding. There are several of us who do care about you but you've made it very hard because you operate from a hard and bitter heart....and a really hard head!! You're not going to like MOST of what I'm about to say, but I hope you listen with your heart and mind and that my words permeate past all those mental blocks and self defeating fortresses you've put up for yourself. You at this point, have the option to change your mindset or stay stuck in your self-defeating behavior patterns. So here it goes.....

Mitch...you have turned a simple posting of a life-change event into a flaming hot mess! Unfortunately you are the only one in this thread who doesn't see it that way. I even went as far as reviewing coldneck's response in this thread and as stinging an indictment towards you as it is, he happens to be right.

You went through a traumatic event losing your mother; mine has been gone 19 years and it STILL feels like it happened yesterday, so I understand and can relate to your pain. I'll never move on and no one here expects you to. But I have learned to move forward without my mother's guidance and love for me in this life.

I had multiple issues with my husband to the point people thought I was divorced, but I didn't hate him and was ALWAYS there for him when needed most, including when it was time to let him go to move on to his "next life" destination. I could've made tons of excuses where he was concerned, and I took some major hits from his family for removing him from the ventilator to set him free, but I did what I thought was best for him from a position of love and compassion for the father of my children. A day doesn't go by that me and my children don't grieve his loss.

When my sister passed in July I was devastated (and still am in many ways). I won't even get into the particulars of her situation because they're just too emotionally raw to put in print. I have been stuck on many issues surrounding her passing, but at my deepest inner core, I know that I MUST MOVE FORWARD, NO MATTER WHAT!! So if that means setting my life back to "start" and doing some things all over again to obtain peace and progression, then that's what the hell I do!!

Strider mentioned that there are MANY who would sacrifice an appendage (or several) to have access to the help you receive from a man that you claim to hate, but he pays your rent and expenses every month!! I personally don't get it Mitch!

Simply put, it's time to do as my mother and grandmother used to say (and excuse the graphics);

"SHIT OR GET OFF THE POT!!!!"​

You are trying to get sympathy from a group of people who see EXACTLY the way I do.....it ain't gonna' happen for you! Deal with the facts that although you hate him, you NEED him....at least for now. You should be grateful he's even there to help you considering your history and the FACT that at your age, his is NOT OBLIGATED TO GIVE YOU A DIME TO HELP YOU!!

I have some serious questions for you Mitch and your answer will remain in print as long as the TMF continues to exist and on the internet forever so please give yourself time to reflect before answering. Your typical wounded knee jerk responses would not be in your best interests at this point.

In the time you've taken to create this post, the time you've spent defending a defenseless position to people that you've never met before....

How much time have you spent looking for another job?
How much time have you invested in the ideas and suggestions people in this forum (myself included) have given you?
Have you gone to colleges and checked the job boards yet?
Have you researched job training programs yet?
What have you done to IMPROVE your present situation other than multiple feeble unsuccessful attempts to justify a miserable situation that you put yourself in and seem uninterested in getting YOURSELF out of??

Spend your time more wisely and govern yourself accordingly and I bet your life will change in about a week. Keep doing as you always do and you'll get the same miserable results you've always gotten....and NO ONE here is going to feel one bit of sympathy towards you.

I sincerely hope you take what I've said to heart because whether you do or don't it doesn't add one dollar to my pocket or enhance the quality of my life one iota. While you work on that response to me, I'll be doing multiple things to make my world a better place. And if I continue to work on improving my life and circumstances guess what? Eventually they WILL get better!! Universal divine law ALWAYS works Mitch....always!! You've been applying it for years in the WRONG energy mindset, and look what it's brought you? Now if you reverse that attitude and mindset you've been carrying for the last several decades, you'll get a result that you can be proud of and maybe...just maybe, you can get off your 74 year old father's welfare roll.

If this post angers you, I hope it's angered you for all the RIGHT reasons.

I look forward to your response........

 

[unclebill]

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[chicago]

It's funny. I looked at this thread last, about two days ago. And no matter how people have worded it or how nice they or mean they put it, theyve all said the same thing.

Suck it up, cupcake.

Two days later, Mitch is still crying about losing a job he made nothing at and wasnt good at.

And ill ask you again, Mitch, to stop using my real fucking name.

I find it very calculated that youve continually mentioned me after my not responding for a few days and after i pmed you asking you to stop using my real name.