Pretty Feet, Non-pretty face. What 2 Do?

[tricham]

There is a female at my job who has a sexy laugh, flawless feet, & likes me. the problem is she is not in the least attractive, to me anyway. Her feet beg to be tickled. She'd probably even let me tape it. But how to get intimate like that & not have her get too attached is kinda tricky.

Any suggestions?

 

[Hiryu]

I have this...feeling that anyone can be made to look attractive atleast to a degree if given proper attention. Why don't you set her down, wash her hair and face (take your time) then -if you don't know how to- have someone skilled give her a good make-up job that brings out her natural, hidden beauty. Think of her feelings as a person and put that before your fetish. If she's pleased with her own beauty (especially it being encouraged by you), she may be able to enjoy your proposed experience all the more.

 

[kcantankerous]

your playing with fire, the carma police or gonna eat you up for this one.

 

[Butterfly wings]

If you don't want to date this girl THAT'S FINE. But at least have enough common gentleman kindness in you and friendlyness to take her out for lunch a few times or a quick bite to eat and get to know her some no matter how not so attractive she may seem to you. All girls (girls that are pretty or and girls that are not so pretty) need love and someone to be there for them.

Wow Jennifer has really turned me into a big softie......

 

[maniactickler]

easy solution. drop her like a bad habit and find a hottie. plenty of them out there.

 

[toneus79]

easy solution. drop her like a bad habit and find a hottie. plenty of them out there.

Don't be silly maniactickler.

No the answer Tricham is to ask her would she mind wearing a bag over her head (obviously with air holes for breathing - as safety comes first). Then you could pretend she is (I dunno say) Catherine Zeta Jones.

 

[isabeau]

Don't be silly maniactickler.

No the answer Tricham is to ask her would she mind wearing a bag over her head (obviously with air holes for breathing - as safety comes first). Then you could pretend she is (I dunno say) Catherine Zeta Jones.

omg the cruelty come on now i do hope you are joking lol

anway if you dont find her attractive just be friends with her and you could still tickle her feet. you dont have to be dating to do that right?

isabeau

 

[summerdaez]

Don't be silly maniactickler.

No the answer Tricham is to ask her would she mind wearing a bag over her head (obviously with air holes for breathing - as safety comes first). Then you could pretend she is (I dunno say) Catherine Zeta Jones.

And then men wonder...
Why is it that we women have to be "made-up", in the most perfect shape, and "beautiful" for you all to be satisfied? Do women not have intelligence, character and personality, as well as "pretty feet"?
No one is saying basic hygiene isn't important. Of course it is, and those who don't practice cleanliness are sloppy. But it works on both ends, fellas.
Do you think we're happy with guys who don't bother, have guts the size of Texas and attitudes more suited for a braying jackass?
How dare you all? Seriously. I've seen pigs with more class.

 

[isabeau]

And then men wonder...
Why is it that we women have to be "made-up", in the most perfect shape, and "beautiful" for you all to be satisfied? Do women not have intelligence, character and personality, as well as "pretty feet"?
No one is saying basic hygiene isn't important. Of course it is, and those who don't practice cleanliness are sloppy. But it works on both ends, fellas.
Do you think we're happy with guys who don't bother, have guts the size of Texas and attitudes more suited for a braying jackass?
How dare you all? Seriously. I've seen pigs with more class.

you tell em i'm with you. seriously some men should not talk

isabeau

 

[lk70]

There is a female at my job who has a sexy laugh, flawless feet, & likes me. the problem is she is not in the least attractive, to me anyway. Her feet beg to be tickled. She'd probably even let me tape it. But how to get intimate like that & not have her get too attached is kinda tricky.

Any suggestions?

You know, you're assuming she'd get attached. Step back a second and let it occur to you that she might not be pining away for you after all, no matter how unattractive she is. Not every woman is sitting around waiting for a man to complete her life.

Just be normal friendly, give her a poke now and then and see how it goes.

Gosh.

 

[tricham]

I'll be a little more specific

she has offered to take "me" out & has hinted she'd like to come over. So yes I assume she likes me. If I say yes she will assume I like her too. Which i do but not in that way. I'll just give it time, & let fate take it's place. Thank you 4 all the well meant suggestions. I'll let ya know what happens

 

[phfttklr]

I'm not going to speak for all men and it's be stated time and time again but MOST guys go for looks first. It's what we do and who we are. Now, that doesn't mean a guy has to be hurtful towards a woman if he feels there is nothing there. If you feel nothing, then move on and if you feel you can get along with her,then enjoy the friendship. Be open to her and let her know that either you just want to be friends or forget about her but don't use her just because she has great feet or might be ticklish. You never know, you might find her to be attractive later on. Looks will fade and in the end, you are going to want a friend. Trust me on this. I walked away from a beautiful woman because I knew we weren't compatible and couldn't see myself with her for the rest of my life. I'm not looking for compliments or pats on the back, it was something that I had to do for myself.

Ladies... just let the rude jokes go. They are just jokes, although crude but it's what we do. You know, like the catty comments you say about other women or friends BEHIND their backs. 😉

 

[LuckyAndre]

And then men wonder...
Why is it that we women have to be "made-up", in the most perfect shape, and "beautiful" for you all to be satisfied? Do women not have intelligence, character and personality, as well as "pretty feet"?

Because we want YOU to look as good as they day we met you. We are attracted to your looks first! Even without opening your mouth, we see what we see and we are like "DAMN, LOOK AT HER!" We worry about how brain dead you are AFTER we get done looking.

Now as for tricham:
Dude you gotta focus on your mission. Is tickling her your primary mission? If so, you can lay down the law as being FRIENDS, and just chill with her, but always being playful, tickling her, making it fun for her. THEN you will be getting your tickles in anytime you want. Are you on a regular tickling schedule, meaning, you have other girls that you can tickle on a regular basis? If not, then that means you are starving to give a good tickling, and you have the perfect victim...one who likes to be around you, HAS HOT FEET, and you know you just dont wanna pass that up...do ya?
As for her looks, you can overide that cause you just want to get those feet in your hands (or mouth) and once SHE gets to that understable point that you like to tickle her, have fun with her, and SHE enjoys what you do, then your safe and wont hurt her feelings.

I have a female friend who is attractive to a point in my eyes, but a nut case in other ways and Ive had my fun with her and her feet many times over the years. Nothing sexual ever happened. Imagine having a friend who knows all about your tickling and foot fetish and allows you to enjoy it anyway you desire? That is what she was. Sadly I broke off the friendship because she acted way outta line at my job one day over a discussion. But the memories are still there and I miss those toes.

So take the time and do it right, and she will be an asset to your fetish.

 

[isabeau]

you want them to look as good as the day you met them? does that also count after years of marriage? of course my husband says i look better now than the day we married. but gesh do you mean for us to be made up all the time? at home when i'm not going out, i dont doll myself all up. of course i dont look like a slob either. and of course looks do count for something, but remember beauty is only skin deep. if i were llike you in your thinking i would have divorced my husband long ago. he sure doesnt look as good as the day we met. hes overweight has rather a pot belly and his face is a bit round, but i love him as is.


isabeau

 

[toneus79]

And then men wonder...
Why is it that we women have to be "made-up", in the most perfect shape, and "beautiful" for you all to be satisfied? Do women not have intelligence, character and personality, as well as "pretty feet"?
No one is saying basic hygiene isn't important. Of course it is, and those who don't practice cleanliness are sloppy. But it works on both ends, fellas.
Do you think we're happy with guys who don't bother, have guts the size of Texas and attitudes more suited for a braying jackass?
How dare you all? Seriously. I've seen pigs with more class.

I'm not saying women have to do all that. What I am saying (and this could be the next big thing) is that ugly women could wear plastic bags over the head, with pictures of supermodels on them. Although to be fair I would also be prepared to wear a t shirt over my my beer gut with a photo of a six pack on it.

 

[isabeau]

I'm not saying women have to do all that. What I am saying (and this could be the next big thing) is that ugly women could wear plastic bags over the head, with pictures of supermodels on them. Although to be fair I would also be prepared to wear a t shirt over my my beer gut with a photo of a six pack on it.

um i've seen your picture i think. didnt look like you had any beer gut. as to the rest of your post grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol

isabeau

 

[leeboy]

I once worked with a girl years ago who was not very pretty at all. She had a great body, and beautiful feet but, and I hate to sound mean because she was a nice person, but she had a very homely face. I used to check out her feet whenever I got the chance ! Because I had no interest in dating her I wasn't afraid to talk to her about anything. One day she was in her cubicle with her shoes off and her legs crossed so one nyloned foot was within reach so I ran my finger up her sole. She let out a yelp and said she was very ticklish. I told her I couldn't resist because I loved tickling feet. Then her eyes widened and she said thet she loved having her feet tickled !!! Well, at lunch time that day we went out to my car, she put her feet in my lap and I tickled her for about 15 minutes ! Pretty soon we were getting together at night for tickle sessions, we would take turns tying each other spread eagle on a fold out couch and tickling each other for a half hour to an hour !!! This went on for a period of two years ! It was an awsome time in my tickling life but I guess what they say is true - there is someone for everyone because she found a guy (in a personals ad) and they got married and now have 2 homely Kids ;-D. BUT at least once or twice a year she comes over for old times sake and we have a serious tickle session !

 

[stloldg]

Because we want YOU to look as good as they day we met you. We are attracted to your looks first! Even without opening your mouth, we see what we see and we are like "DAMN, LOOK AT HER!" We worry about how brain dead you are AFTER we get done looking.

Now as for tricham:
Dude you gotta focus on your mission. Is tickling her your primary mission? If so, you can lay down the law as being FRIENDS, and just chill with her, but always being playful, tickling her, making it fun for her. THEN you will be getting your tickles in anytime you want. Are you on a regular tickling schedule, meaning, you have other girls that you can tickle on a regular basis? If not, then that means you are starving to give a good tickling, and you have the perfect victim...one who likes to be around you, HAS HOT FEET, and you know you just dont wanna pass that up...do ya?
As for her looks, you can overide that cause you just want to get those feet in your hands (or mouth) and once SHE gets to that understable point that you like to tickle her, have fun with her, and SHE enjoys what you do, then your safe and wont hurt her feelings.

I have a female friend who is attractive to a point in my eyes, but a nut case in other ways and Ive had my fun with her and her feet many times over the years. Nothing sexual ever happened. Imagine having a friend who knows all about your tickling and foot fetish and allows you to enjoy it anyway you desire? That is what she was. Sadly I broke off the friendship because she acted way outta line at my job one day over a discussion. But the memories are still there and I miss those toes.

So take the time and do it right, and she will be an asset to your fetish.

I agree the mission is to get the toes, hear her beg and laugh. I also agree that if your not interested in her for no more than tickling, let her know from Jump Street "OLD SKOOL" so there will not be any misunderstanding later.

Good luck you lucky dog.

 

[maniactickler]

Both men and women should try to keep in somewhat decent shape. but i think more so for women. after all, looks are very important to men unlike women who are more into other things. (thank god)

 

[tricham]

The main thing that concerned me was my business

being known at the job. But i'm pretty sure I have things under control. I'm going to make my move at the proper time, & have her over one day. i just need to talk to her alone one day.

 

[Red_Feather]

Personally I've learned that it's better to just be on friendly terms with all the people you know. If anything's going to happen it'll just happen naturally. I've found from personal experience that having 'ulterior motives' for being friendly with someone makes it very difficult to be a friend, so I don't really do it anymore.

As for the whole 'men only care about looks' thing, there are two points I would raise. Everyone, male or female, cares about looks to some level, it's a trait of being human. On the other hand, everyone is also different in the importance looks play. I personally find personality and sense of humour to be of more importance to looks. In otherwords I'd tend to look at the person as a whole, rather than a collection of attributes.

 

[LoveSoles81]

easy solution. drop her like a bad habit and find a hottie. plenty of them out there.

Couldn't have put it better.

 

[tricham]

Perhaps I should rephrase it

The woman is definitely not ugly. I just don't see her in a romantic way. Not my type. But after we get to know each other, who knows. I'll keep you guys posted. & thanks for the suggestions.

 

[Butterfly wings]

As for the whole 'men only care about looks' thing, there are two points I would raise. Everyone, male or female, cares about looks to some level, it's a trait of being human.

While i am just like any other guy and male when it comes to a girls looks. I do care about looks. But to me also on the other hand looks are not the main thing on my top list. Because to me anyways how the girl carries herself inside and her personality means alot more then her looks will in the long run of things. Because looks will always seem to pass away and fade but the girls inside beauty and whole personality and how she carries herself in life and how she loves herself in life will always last.

Might that seem a little too deep? it might perhapes. But i don't believe in going along with the grain just because i'm a guy. So i try to not always follow the rules of guys so much. I'm different.

 

[Red_Feather]

While i am just like any other guy and male when it comes to a girls looks. I do care about looks. But to me also on the other hand looks are not the main thing on my top list. Because to me anyways how the girl carries herself inside and her personality means alot more then her looks will in the long run of things. Because looks will always seem to pass away and fade but the girls inside beauty and whole personality and how she carries herself in life and how she loves herself in life will always last.

Might that seem a little too deep? it might perhapes. But i don't believe in going along with the grain just because i'm a guy. So i try to not always follow the rules of guys so much. I'm different.

I agree, just as I said in the second point in my post. 😛
Men aren't as shallow as we are made out to be.