R U honest about your fetish?

[Aragon]

I have an odd perspective on being open. I saw combat in Mog and Bosnia, and came back on a stretcher in one place and saw 2/3s of the group I went into Mog die. It is not that I am open, I am honest at all times about all my life. Why lie, as Issy said life is too short.

One girl who I work with playfully runs from me when I tickle her, but wants to show off her body to me in a string bikiniwhen she loses the weight she wants to lose. Long story as to the whole thing, but she knows I will tickle her then.

If I was not who I was, she would not be glad to do this. I have had a former roommate who made fun of it, but he was not a model person. He never liked it when I turned the tables on him about his life when he started in on me, and others laughed at him. I just could have cared less.

 

[tricham]

The Guy Sounds like a buthole

I have an odd perspective on being open. I saw combat in Mog and Bosnia, and came back on a stretcher in one place and saw 2/3s of the group I went into Mog die. It is not that I am open, I am honest at all times about all my life. Why lie, as Issy said life is too short.

One girl who I work with playfully runs from me when I tickle her, but wants to show off her body to me in a string bikiniwhen she loses the weight she wants to lose. Long story as to the whole thing, but she knows I will tickle her then.

If I was not who I was, she would not be glad to do this. I have had a former roommate who made fun of it, but he was not a model person. He never liked it when I turned the tables on him about his life when he started in on me, and others laughed at him. I just could have cared less.

People who make fun of others tend to have issues deeper, more tragic, or just are screwed up in so many ways imaginable, it's irresistable to them to take the opportunity to devert attention away from their own miserable lives & focus on what they ASSume is a flaw in yours/others lives. More power to you Aragon

 

[tricham]

A lady who came to meet me from Texas

God Bless her

 

[Aragon]

People seem to be scared of other's opinions, I have yet to understand why. But, I'm the sort to pick up pink bunny ears and wear them while shopping. Plus, with my family, verbal warfare is a normal conversation and no one is offended or hurt. People just live life and have tons o'fun.

 

[tricham]

This is what Im in the mood for tonight

Sexy, clean, freshly pedicured feet

 

[chickles_:)]

Are you comfortable enough with who your with?, how long have you known her?,there might not even be a need to tell, a situation may occur where you are able to have some foot fun.

Hiya!
Exactly my thoughts, Trich!!

If it works for you in your relationship then definitely take it to the next level!

Many blessings,
Chickles

 

[ticklee_heather]

I'm not open about it at all. I'm always scared of what my friends might think or what guys might think if they knew I liked to be tickled. I always feels like they may think I'm a freak or something.

 

[HeavenlyTickle]

I'm not open about it at all. I'm always scared of what my friends might think or what guys might think if they knew I liked to be tickled. I always feels like they may think I'm a freak or something.

Ditto. However, having said that, I did admit my fetish to one of my friends last night... and he turned out to be cool with it. He even said it turned him on a bit too. So you know, it just goes to show that things aren't always what they seem and that if you take a chance, it might not turn out as bad as you think.

xXx

 

[tricham]

I'm still working on getting that 6'1 girls feet

Hiya!
Exactly my thoughts, Trich!!

If it works for you in your relationship then definitely take it to the next level!

Many blessings,
Chickles

It's not just a job it's an adventure!!!

 

[tricham]

Not at All

Hiya!
Wow! seeing so many angst-filled answers i got to thinking... (hey, it happens occasionally! )

I hope i didn't come across as thinking everyone should just hide out and not tell. I guess in my first post here, all i meant was there's no rush to tell. It is sometimes best to wait until you start to get to know each other a little bit that way when you do say "hey let's try this, it's something i like" he sort of has enough confidence with you to receive it as a step to a new level and try it at least before judging it or you.
but definitely tell!! Oh yeah!
It's all about openness and honesty.

I hopethat helps a little.

Many blessings,

All intelligent points of view are welcome

 

[susannah355]

I don't feel I'm being dishonest if I hold back personal things like this. I'm only comfortable sharing intimate secrets with people with whom I'm intimate. I don't know many people who just blurt out their fetish during casual conversation. 😱

 

[chickles_:)]

All intelligent points of view are welcome

Hiya
Well, that's nice to know.🙂

I guess it's all a matter of finding our way through the difficult minefield of relationships and revelations. 😱

Many blessings,
chickles

 

[tricham]

It's about whatever floats your boat

Hiya
Well, that's nice to know.🙂

I guess it's all a matter of finding our way through the difficult minefield of relationships and revelations. 😱

Many blessings,
chickles

As long as it's legal & boths sides have a say so

 

[chickles_:)]

As long as it's legal & boths sides have a say so

Hiya Trich!
hmm, legal --- Good point! 😛

Many blessings,
Chickles

 

[Jackpot$]

I don't feel I'm being dishonest if I hold back personal things like this. I'm only comfortable sharing intimate secrets with people with whom I'm intimate. I don't know many people who just blurt out their fetish during casual conversation. 😱

You don't know me very well, then. Last week, I confessed to the Rabbai that I tickled a young lady to multiple orgasm! He told me, son, you are Catholic. Why are you telling ME this? I told him, Hey, I'm telling EVERYBODY!

 

[tricham]

You don't know me very well, then. Last week, I confessed to the Rabbai that I tickled a young lady to multiple orgasm! He told me, son, you are Catholic. Why are you telling ME this? I told him, Hey, I'm telling EVERYBODY!

That was YOU!!!

 

[cloudgazer2k]

old memories

after a few years of trial-and-error, i had found roundabout ways to tell girls about my fetish(es). some accepted, some didn't...but many tickle opportunities still came up in my life. then there were people who i didn't tell cuz i did not want to be more of an outcast than i am. the real problem for me was when, before i moved out of home at the age of 19, my dad decided he'd snoop and found my foot paradise videos and bondage toys, which he then later proclaimed me as sick (this is the same guy who owns some of the raunchiest porn i've ever seen; something i really don't care for).
nowadays, if i feel the need to tell someone about it, i do it. i got nothing to fear now, since high school is over and i'm not looking for a girlfriend anymore.

 

[wendynpeter]

I never had to tell anyone about my fetish - they always seemed to figure it out. It usually went something like this:

THEM: "Hey! Heeheeheehee - You've got a tickling fetish, don't you."
ME: "Yeah, I do. Is that a problem?"
THEM: "Not a long as I know what's coming afterwards!" (grin)

The story of my (fetish) life!

 

[tricham]

I feel ya Man

after a few years of trial-and-error, i had found roundabout ways to tell girls about my fetish(es). some accepted, some didn't...but many tickle opportunities still came up in my life. then there were people who i didn't tell cuz i did not want to be more of an outcast than i am. the real problem for me was when, before i moved out of home at the age of 19, my dad decided he'd snoop and found my foot paradise videos and bondage toys, which he then later proclaimed me as sick (this is the same guy who owns some of the raunchiest porn i've ever seen; something i really don't care for).
nowadays, if i feel the need to tell someone about it, i do it. i got nothing to fear now, since high school is over and i'm not looking for a girlfriend anymore.

It's not cool to trash someone else until you cleaned your own closet

 

[Goodieluver]

Since i dont trust people being my friend longer than a year, those who do break that barrier and i can trust, i may tell them

It was humorous, i told one gal a month ago, she said "Oh thats ok, as long as you dont have some freaky fetish about it"
my reply-....whats the difference?
her answer "You can like feet, just its not normal to obsess about them and need them constantly"

Heh i dont need, i just prefer

 

[tricham]

I tell on the first date

Since i dont trust people being my friend longer than a year, those who do break that barrier and i can trust, i may tell them

It was humorous, i told one gal a month ago, she said "Oh thats ok, as long as you dont have some freaky fetish about it"
my reply-....whats the difference?
her answer "You can like feet, just its not normal to obsess about them and need them constantly"

Heh i dont need, i just prefer

What the hell, either you like me or you don't.

 

[justatickler]

I'm open about it with only one person. Fortunately the only one that matters. 🙂

 

[tricham]

If I understand you correctly

I'm open about it with only one person. Fortunately the only one that matters. 🙂

You mean yourself, however I don't think what turns us on is any worse than being attracted to breast, asses or anything else. Hell what woman doesn't enjoy a foot massage. I guess it depends on how you go about it.

 

[chickles_:)]

You mean yourself, however I don't think what turns us on is any worse than being attracted to breast, asses or anything else. Hell what woman doesn't enjoy a foot massage. I guess it depends on how you go about it.

Foot massage!! Did I hear someone mention a foot massage??

Woohoo!

Chickles

 

[tricham]

If you are ever in Manhattan

Foot massage!! Did I hear someone mention a foot massage??

Woohoo!

Chickles

My door is open to you