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Re: Bush and the Gay Marriage Issue

Haltickling said:
"Inbreeding" bears severe genetic risks for the offspring, as far as I know. That's enough to forbid such marriages, for the sake of the future children.

Another unoriginal remark from Big Jim here, but that is true. But how about this for the sake of being Devil's Advocate....

What if both people involved in the incestuous relationship had no intention of having children through it? Go further than that; what if one or both of them were utterly sterile through medical or natural means?

My thoughts would be a Joby-like "Icky, icky, Blergh!!!", but who am I to stop other people doing that sort of thing, if they want to and no-one else is going to be harmed? I find the idea rather stomach churning personally, but I wouldn't ban it if I was the lawmaker, purely because I've got no right to force my opinion on someone else. I'd definately make it illegal to have children by such a union though. Hal makes a very legitimate point there. After watching 'Deliverance' there's no way I coud stomach THAT thought!!!
 
Thanks Big JIm...

HALTICKLING:

I did specifically say I was interested in any reasoning BEYOND the "ramifications of having children in those relationships."

Of course, it's well established that "Inbreeding' bears severe genetic risks for the offspring." But as Big Jim also points out, they may choose not to have children, or may be uncapable of having them (just as it is with a gay couple, I might add). But just as it is with gays, there's always adoption, or some other type of artificial insemination that might render your concerns about the "offspring" irrelevant to my question.

To which, I now return...
 
Sorry, execmail, I misread your post.

I wouldn't have any moral qualms about siblings getting married, if they agreed to sterilization. I would also vote for a minimum age (e.g. 30) to avoid juvenile psychological incest problems, and to give them a fair chance to grow up and maybe find another partner.

But I can't see why siblings or other close relatives would want any additional bond like marriage; they already share the strongest bond of all: their blood-bond.
 
HALTICKLING:

You, "wouldn't have any moral qualms about siblings getting married, if they agreed to sterilization"? I'm guessing THAT'S gonna open up a whole can of worms around here! 🙂

While I hadn't considered your suggestion of a "minimum age (e.g. 30)... to give them a fair chance to grow up and maybe find another partner," I think that gets us back to the discrimination issue again-- why for them, and not for others, when all kinds of people may have "juvenile psychological incest problems" to work out? And I'm not sure that would even appease society on this issue.

Nor can I "see why siblings or other close relatives [or even people of the same gender, as far as I'm concerned] would want any additional bond like marriage," yet they do. Hence the ongoing discussion here.

Still wondering what others think...?
 
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I agree that our society is not yet ready for such liberal ideas, execmail...

Two remarks: The "juvenile psychological problems" I talked about refer to the fact that many close relatives also live together quite closely. Often enough, they haven't had the chance to experience "the world outside", so to say, and to acquaint any other potential partners or partnership situations. The chance to live their own lives before they bond for a long time is higher for older persons. But I realize that the same applies to many "normal" couples as well.

And second: Homosexual couples have none of the legal rights as close relatives, e.g. in medical emergencies, inheritance etc. So that's not directly comparable.

On a more humorous note, our conversation reminded me of an old joke:

Q: "Should Catholic Priests be allowed to marry?"
A: "Why not, if they love each other!" 😛

But that's a can of completely different worms... 🙄
 
Haltickling said:


Homosexual couples have none of the legal rights as close relatives, e.g. in medical emergencies, inheritance etc. So that's not directly comparable.


I've got a great idea, then! Why don't gay people simply ADOPT each other rather than marry! Gosh, why didn't we all think of this before?!

Problem solved!

🙂

(Woo hoo! My first attempt at using the little "quote" mechanism, and it worked. Another small step for the electronically challenged!)
 
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RE: Stirrin it up...!

execmail and Hal bring up some rather humorous, yet relevant points. Just how far should the government extend over our personal lives? It seems to me that's what these questions all boil down to. It's a dangerous business making laws based on morality, because no two people have exactly the same list of what's okay and what's not okay. Governing laws should be restricted to areas of public safety, protection of personal property, that sort of thing. They have no business making laws about issues of personal preference, and certainly no business making laws based on religious teachings. That's what the Taliban-ruled Afghanistan was all about.

If you want to call your country a "free" country, you have to let the people do what they want, as long as they don't encroach on the safety or personal property of others.
 
Re: RE: Stirrin it up...!

drew70 said:
If you want to call your country a "free" country, you have to let the people do what they want, as long as they don't encroach on the safety or personal property of others.

Superb point and a classic illustration of just why America is possibly the least free country in the West.

The Christian Patriotic Movement is something that makes this point very well. They see through a lot of the smoke-screen of so-called civil liberties and want to change it. But these people still hang a Bible round their necks and go misty-eyed at the mention of the Founding Fathers. What they cannot seem to accept is that the institution that creates their religion is just another part (indeed an extraordinary LARGE part) of the system that restricts civil liberties and puts people down who don't subscribe to it.

Their idea of what they want to create is "one nation, under God". Whose God? The islamic Allah? The jewish Yahweh? The centre of all enegy and goodness that "spiritual" people believe in? Nah, not a bit of it. It's the beard-wearing, finger wagging God of the Old Testament they mean. Their ideals aren't about freedom at all, they're about imposing a dictatorship all of their own. These people believe in stockpiling guns and shooting for freedom. 😱 😱 I've heard a lot of people say how important the 2nd Amendment is and how it's perfectly reasonable for "free" Americans to use guns to protect their freedom against possible incursions by a stiff government. I've even heard them say how it's ridiculous to imagine that the government would use people like the Navy SEALS or Delta Force to go in and take them out, as the publicity would be so bad. Oh yeah? So what exactly would have been the response of the WASP public if the negroes in the Watts Riots had decided to use firearms to try and escape from the American version of Apartheid? The army would have mowed them down in their scores and the public would have reluctantly agreed that there had been no other alternative because these people were being just too extreme in trying to secure their freedoms. If only they'd been more reasonable........ 🙁

I don't know what frightens me most about this. The world these gun-toters are living in with all it's repressions and violations of basic freedoms, or the one they want to replace it with.
 
Jim, Jim, Jim...

Just when I think you and I are beginning to row our boat together in the same direction, one of these anti-religion screeds gets reinterjected.

Why can't we just stay solution-focused here, instead of eminating hostility and assigning blame at every chance?

Exactly what do you mean that, "...the institution that creates their religion is just another part... of the system that restricts civil liberties"?

By this, were you referring to "government" as the institutional system that restricts liberties? If so, I can't see how government "creates their religion." But of course, I agree that ONLY government has the coersive power to force people to do anything. Thus, the religious right, or gay activists, or any other groups who try to coopt governemtal power to further their agendas are equally "frightening" to me. But "organized religion," like anything else, is rather impotent, until it's hinged to that government force, and THAT'S what's been behind all the historical ills you allude to, I think.

"One Nation, under God," I have no problem with. While I believe I live in the greatest nation on earth (my humble opinion), I can acknowledge our fallibility upon occasion, and believe that there is, somewhere , an ultimate standard that our (and every) country should strive to meet. Call THAT God, if you want.

"Gun control" and the "Watts Riots?" How much further can we get off topic here? I'll just remind you that over here in America, using our arms to form a militia, much of the "WASP public" once fought on behalf of "negroes" [your words] in a Civil War, that would have made your Watts scenario resemble Tea Time.
 
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Off topic ramblings.......

execmail77 said:


Why can't we just stay solution-focused here, instead of eminating hostility and assigning blame at every chance?

It was part of the topic of religion and control that we were talking abuot. Sort of an extension of when we talking about gay marriage and governmental interference. The religious justified repression of it is a big vote-winner for American politicians.
Please know that I only critiscise the institutions of religion, not the innocent people who express a loving spirituality through their Christian beliefs.


execmail77 said:
Exactly what do you mean that, "...the institution that creates their religion is just another part... of the system that restricts civil liberties"?

I assosciate most rganisations that peddle control through fear and falsehood as being interlocked at their top-most levels. This includes politics, religion, the medical profession, the banking industry, education and the military.


execmail77 said:
By this, were you referring to "government" as the institutional system that restricts liberties? If so, I can't see how it "creates their religion." But of course, I agree that ONLY government has the coersive power to force people to do anything.

No I wasn't, as I just explained. Read these threads to understand more of my point of view.
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18477&highlight=Politics+Religion+Thread

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28158&highlight=Politics+Religion+9/11

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=28644&highlight=Politics+Religion+9/11

http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=30975&highlight=Politics+Religion+Thread



execmail77 said:
"One Nation, under God," I have no problem with. While I believe I live in the greatest nation on earth (my humble opinion), I can acknowledge our fallibility upon occasion, and believe that there is, somewhere , an ultimate standard that our (and every) country should strive to meet. Call THAT God, if you want.

No offence, but most Americans think their country is the greatest in the world. If you mean the greatest in power and possible opportunity, then yes it is. But it's also the most backward country in western civilisation, for the beliefs of a lot of it's citizens and the people who run it. In certain areas it's still stuck 300 years behind the rest of the civilised world. Having laid such a daming critiscism down on it, it's still the country I'd most like to visit. Being a country of such wild extremes of black and white, someone who knows how to seek out what they want to find can get on very well there. It also happens that a lot of the people I love the mostin all the world live there. 🙂

execmail77 said:
"Gun control" and the "Watts Riots?" How much further can we get off topic here? I'll just remind you that over here in America, using our arms to form a militia, much of the "WASP public" once fought on behalf of "negroes" in a Civil War, that would have made your Watts scenario resemble Tea Time.

You don't have to remind me of anything as I know more about the ACW than most Americans. I used to re-enact it as a hobby and own more books than you could fit into most attics, on the subject. Because of that I know that the "using our arms to form a militia, much of the "WASP public" once fought on behalf of "negroes" in a Civil War" was a pretty cynical ploy by Union politicians, to get waning public support back on their side. People like George McClellan sure as hell were'nt against slavery. He was quoted as saying "If I believed that this war was for the purpose of depriving United States citizens of their rightful property, (meaning black slaves) I'd resign my commission tomorrow!"

So that paragraph may have been off topic, but it was on the money. It was a calculated critiscism of people who think the second amendment is there so they can have a basement full of semi-automatic weapons purely for their own agrandisement; as opposed to forming a state's militia to defend against the redcoats charging over the Canadian border.
 
Okay...

BIG JIM:

You said you, "only criticize the institutions of religion, not the innocent people who express a loving spirituality through their Christian beliefs." Fair enough.

But it just didn't sound like that when you referred to, "these people [who] still hang a Bible round their necks and go misty-eyed at the mention of the Founding Fathers," and believe in, "the beard-wearing, finger wagging God of the Old Testament." That sounded pretty personal, and was a rather broad generalization to boot.

Also, to say that, "The religious justified repression... is a big vote-winner for American politicians," is also WAY too broad. Sure that's a popular sentiment among those who already feel that way, but trust me, that is a MUCH smaller segment of American society than you might perceive. Vocal? Yes. But a vast majority of us are not to the extreme right or left, but somewhere in the reasonable middle.

And, whew! You, "assosciate most organisations that peddle control through fear and falsehood as being interlocked at their top-most levels. This includes politics, religion, the medical profession, the banking industry, education and the military"? That's one helluva conspiracy theory!

Finally, you just KNEW I'd ask for a clarification on what the heck you mean by America being, "the most backward country in western civilisation... still stuck 300 years behind the rest of the civilised world." I'd love to see a list of these "certain areas" you're referring to...?!
 
Some clarifications.........

execmail77 said:
BIG JIM:
But it just didn't sound like that when you referred to, "these people [who] still hang a Bible round their necks and go misty-eyed at the mention of the Founding Fathers," and believe in, "the beard-wearing, finger wagging God of the Old Testament." That sounded pretty personal, and was a rather broad generalization to boot.

It was intended to be personal Exec, but not towards you or or other "general" Christians. That was specifically aimed at the Christian Patriotic Movement, which is why I mentioned both in the same breath. Although they are clever enough to see through a lot of smokescreens about government conspiracies, they're not clever enough to see that the Founding Fathers or their own religion is just another part of that conspiracy. They're also not clever enough to see that if you fight fire with fire, you only end up with a conflageration twice the size of what you started with. The world they'd replace this one with, is just another expression of the same tired, old dictatorial energy they're fighting now. All they're fighting for is their position at the top of it.

I've used Ann of Tickling-Duo as an example before and I hope the good lady doesn't mind me doing so again. She is a catholic. She is also one of the nicest, broad-minded and loving people in the online-community. She is a Christian whom I'm happy to call a friend; as are you. We may disagree on some fundemental things, but you don't come across as the dictatorial type, who'd oppress other people just for the sake of them having a different belief system to yours. I hope that clarifies things. 🙂

execmail77 said:
Also, to say that, "The religious justified repression... is a big vote-winner for American politicians," is also WAY too broad. Sure that's a popular sentiment among those who already feel that way, but trust me, that is a MUCH smaller segment of American society than you might perceive. Vocal? Yes. But a vast majority of us are not to the extreme right or left, but somewhere in the reasonable middle.

Yup, that forms a large part of those big conspiracy threads I pointed you towards. The vocal (and thus the most power-sponsored parts) of American politics are an unreasonable minority. But the buggers are exceeedingly cunning. A lot of people are influenced by them without even realising that religion is being used to do it.

As for them being "a MUCH smaller segment of American society than you might perceive", well I'm not so sure. Certainly a lot of people who fall into this category wouldn't think of themselves as actively being a part of it. But I've lost count of the times when an American has responded to a thread like the one about abortion with a phrase like "It is an offence in the sight of God". So it might be, but as I said then, just when did God call a press conference and say this? That may sound flippant, but I'm being deadly serious here. All religious texts are a mass of contradicitions. God apparently says "Thou shalt not kill". But this is the same God who was allegedly happy to wipe out the world with a flood, nuke two cities on the basis of one guy's observations in ONE of them and incite "his chosen people" to murder, rape and thieve from anyone who wasn't of their creed. In those threads I gave links to, I examine religion and it's inconsistencies in minute detail. Rather than me regurgitate it all here, I can only suggest you read all my comments (which as is typical of me, are quite long-winded) in them.

execmail77 said:
And, whew! You, "assosciate most organisations that peddle control through fear and falsehood as being interlocked at their top-most levels. This includes politics, religion, the medical profession, the banking industry, education and the military"? That's one helluva conspiracy theory!

Yes it is. There's one thread in particular in those links I gave you. "The Big Politics/Religion Thread" that outlines my reasons for being a "conspiracy theorist". The other three or four all give supporting information to it, but that one is the best place to start if you want to know my reasons for thinking that way.

execmail77 said:
Finally, you just KNEW I'd ask for a clarification on what the heck you mean by America being, "the most backward country in western civilisation... still stuck 300 years behind the rest of the civilised world." I'd love to see a list of these "certain areas" you're referring to...?!

1/ The continued propogation of the death penalty despite it being a)More expensive than life imprionment (It's actually cheaper to imprison someone in solitary confinement at the highest level of security for 40 years, than it is to execute them!) b) A safer bet considering the ability of the American courts in convicting innocent people c) A proven fact that it does not deter crime, with places of the highest execution rates having higher murder rates d) Being used only for the sake of appeasing the need for revenge, given that everyone is going to die one day anyway and 40 years of brutal, anal rape at the hands of Benny The Bughole Buster on B-Wing is much more frightening. If you want to see more about that, go here.........
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=19781&highlight=death+penalty (There is even a list of 24 (I think) innocent people who I said were executed in America in the last century.)

2/ The belief in the execution of children who have committed capital offences.(A whole seperate issue.) This includes children as young as 11 or 12. Doesn't just extend to execution either. There is a very disturbing and utterly nonsensical trend of treating juvenille criminals the same as adult ones.

3/ The widespread use of religious dogma in politics and public service. This tends to be strongly Christian in America, purely because that's the dominant religion there. But it's almost on a par sometimes with things the Taliban did in Afghanistan. As yet, there's not been a huge amount of mass, physical co-ercion, but watch this space!

4/ The "Hulk angry, Hulk SMASH!!!!!!!!" mentality. This basically justifies the bombing/other military action against anyone who the US is pissed off wih on any particular day. It doesn't need logical justification or military common sense to do it, just the desire for revenge and the fact that no-one is powerful enough to stop America doing just whatever the hell it wants. A good example is the annihilation of a village in Afghanistan, two weeks after American intelligence were aware that the Taliban had vacated it. Another good example is the way we know that Bush and Blair lied to us about Iraqi capabilities to justify the war in Iraq. The general signals they're giving out now is "Well even if we were wrong about the WMD, it was all in a good cause wasn't it?" Most people, like myself, have no sympathy whatsoever for Osama and Saddam, who are both insane criminals. But The twin administrations of the US and UK were perfectly well aware of this situation weeks before the war started and probably had these "all in a good cause" speeches written months in advance, for when they were rumbled about talking total and utter claptrap.

5/ The gradual erosions of it's citizens civil rights and liberties. This has been most conspicuous in the wake of events like Oklahoma and 9/11. See the linked threads above for more information.

Now a lot of Americans who are my friends are probably feeling quite pissed at me right now. Probably they held some of the above opinions. Well I'd like to make it clear that I'm not setting the UK about the US at all. During the 1960's and 70's we had our very own version of Apartheid in Northern Ireland and we've been more than happy to pitch in beside the US whenever there's been something in the offing. The US tends to be the extrovert "male energy" partner; flexing it's muscles in public and roaring. The UK more takes the part of the "female energy". Working behind the scenes etc. I'm not seeking to demonise the US for the sake of making the UK look superior.

I also am not insulting people who belong to any particular religion. I have a big beef with the people at the top of those religions, because they're perfectly aware of what they're doing. But people who innocently follow a faith and use it to put some good into the world I have no problem with. People who use the biblical argument of an "eye for an eye" to justify capital punishment, I do; although not by far as much as I have with the chief manipulators.
 
Hey, BIG JIM:

I'm about to take a nearly two-week hiatus from my computer, so won't be writing much again 'til after Labor Day. But, just to respond quickly to your last post.

First, is the "Christian Patriotic Movement" an actual organization? You keep using all CAP letters, so I had to ask. I've never heard of them. Perhaps they're over there in G.B.? If so, that might answer my confusion about "personal" versus "institutional."

Second, I did take a quick gander at a few of your posts, but quckly gasped, "I don't have time to read all THAT right now!" May try to over the next couple 'o weeks, though! 🙂

I concur with you on the capital punishment issue. Would rather see the convicted felons do "hard time" for the rest of their lives in some isolated Alaskan camp. Our punishment system is too lenient over here-- capital punishment notwithstanding.

But I don't see that your items here at all justify your original contention that the U.S. is "the most backward country in western civilisation." That kind of irrational hyperbole doesn't serve your arguments at all.

But for now, I'm over and out.

Now... get up from your computer, go outside, get some fresh air, and go tickle someone, would ya!!!

🙂
 
"Christian Patriotic Movement" sounds to me like an appropriate catchall for the psalm singing, gun fellating, six-iron up the ass hard right wackos so prevalent in our society nowadays. I'm sorry I didn't come up with it myself. Like the poor, the aforementioned will always be with us.
Unfortunately, I've come to the sad conclusion that the McGoverniks running the Democratic Party will always be with us too, assailing us with their totally unrealistic vision of the world. It's a shame the Democratic Party stands for nothing substantial, and has no plan or vision for America, and functions as little other than a shelter for those espousing an anachronistic and unworkable philosophy. If they showed more vigor, then the Bush Regime wouldn't be so arrogant.
 
Re: Hey, BIG JIM:

execmail77 said:
I'm about to take a nearly two-week hiatus from my computer, so won't be writing much again 'til after Labor Day.

Enjoy the holiday mate. 🙂

execmail77 said:
First, is the "Christian Patriotic Movement" an actual organization? You keep using all CAP letters, so I had to ask. I've never heard of them. Perhaps they're over there in G.B.? If so, that might answer my confusion about "personal" versus "institutional."

Yes, they're an actual organisation. They also pretty much match Knox's description. They believe that the American nation has been hi-jacked and mis-used for cynical, conspiratorial reasons. So it has, but they believe it started out good and got infected. It has in fact been a wonderfully staged hi-jacking ever since a nobleman holding the rank of Colonel in the British Army, who was a member of an elite aristocratic order called 'The Order Of The Garter', decided to play a cynical ploy on Americans who wanted their own country. He stayed loyal to the British Crown (which organisation actually had him as a share-holder of it's controlling company in the 13 colonies) whilst pretending to be a rebel leading American. You might have heard of him, his name was George Washington.

execmail77 said:
Second, I did take a quick gander at a few of your posts, but quckly gasped, "I don't have time to read all THAT right now!" May try to over the next couple 'o weeks, though! 🙂

Take your time mate. It'll take you a long time to get through them all. I can virtually guarantee that won't agree with my views, but it should while away a few hours. 🙂

execmail77 said:
I concur with you on the capital punishment issue. Would rather see the convicted felons do "hard time" for the rest of their lives in some isolated Alaskan camp. Our punishment system is too lenient over here-- capital punishment notwithstanding.

Hell yeah! Alaska sounds like a good place to me! That or in the middle of an alligator pen in the Everglades! 😀

execmail77 said:
But I don't see that your items here at all justify your original contention that the U.S. is "the most backward country in western civilisation." That kind of irrational hyperbole doesn't serve your arguments at all.

I've lost count of the times I've heard an American asked whether they agree with the death penalty and replied........

"Way-ul, ah agree with whut the bah-bul say-uz. An ahh for an ahh, a tooth for a tooth!"

Being an ardent Christian is all well and good. People have the right to choose any path they want to find their way to salvation. But when you decide on which way the judiaciary ought to act (you as in the third person, not you as yourself, Exec) by going on a Christian dogma that was replaced by Christ Himself 2000 years ago (as MANY in America do), then you have seriously got to wonder if people have eveolved at all. People like that are living their lives by the Old Testament which is in direct contravention to what JC is supposed to have taught. That sort of person is kidding themself that they're being holier than though, just because it feels good to give in to hatred and anger and revenge. It isn't justice and it isn't effective. It's just surrendering to base emotions.

execmail77 said:
But for now, I'm over and out.

Now... get up from your computer, go outside, get some fresh air, and go tickle someone, would ya!!!

🙂

I always do!!! 😀 😉 :devil: I always will! 😀 😉 :devil:
 
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