Is it so much that actual ACT of performing...
...that those of us who enjoy it find so appealling, or is it actually our partner's REACTIONS to what we're giving them? After having read the past couple pages of posts on this (it still amazes me how everyone's coming out of the woodwork on this thread 😛 ), I've given it some reflection, and to me, it doesn't matter what I'm doing to give them pleasure. THAT'S what reallllllllly turns me on... if the oral sex does it, fine. Taking a fistful of their hair and tugging their head back while I'm smoochin' on them? You bet! The occasional spank on the hiney? Absolutely. I'm betting that I'd be aroused by just about anything that gave my partner pleasure, within reason. (gotta get the little disclaimer in there, in case I'm expected to do something disgusting later! LoL! 🙄 ). If I discover that someting I've done or am doing makes them go ballistic, well then, we're havin' some more of THAT! 😀 But I seem to have pretty good results when I give that "special kiss", so I dig it. What's not to dig, really? The more pleasure you can give your partner, the better! Bring on the screaming orgasms!
And I'm NOT talkin' about the alcoholic drink, either! 😉
