tickling girls on a date?

[HerNameIsMonica]

Every guy that's dated me, has tickled me on the second date, just because my laugh is "attractive". That, and well, I'm fatally ticklish.

 

[Oddjob0226]

Why haven't you already found out?

 

[porcelaindoll2]

................how do you do it? I mean....fetlife? Here? I've never pulled off either. Nor do I really know anyone from here other than a screen name.

I post personals here and on numerous personals groups in FetLife. I've had a lot of luck finding dates/play dates. Lol maybe it helps that I am a female. I've also met people at local munches and play parties in my area. Getting active in your local kink scene is never a bad idea.

 

[Jagermeistered]

I post personals here and on numerous personals groups in FetLife. I've had a lot of luck finding dates/play dates. Lol maybe it helps that I am a female. I've also met people at local munches and play parties in my area. Getting active in your local kink scene is never a bad idea.

Unless, you are a dude... Then, you have to rely on fate! Some girls are like kittens, hiding secrets.

 

[Revenant]

Unless, you are a dude... Then, you have to rely on fate!

True...

 

[scorpionldr]

Unless, you are a dude... Then, you have to rely on fate! Some girls are like kittens, hiding secrets.

yea........I recently posted on Plenty of Fakers (pof.com) a forum thread to the effect of "consistently finding myself brushed off/ignored" asking if there was anything truly wrong about me that I could change. Most people said it would be a good idea to move from "husky" to "average" weight. Others criticized it as a whining thread. A few girls managed to piece things together that I was a tickling fanatic lol. And then they of course deleted the thread because hey, if someone else has a problem, and it doesn't affect you, it must be worth nothing.

But yea. "get out" and "lose weight". grrrrrrrrrrrr.........................

 

[Phineas]

A few girls managed to piece things together that I was a tickling fanatic lol. And then they of course deleted the thread because hey, if someone else has a problem...

Holy crap, that was you?

Small world, dude. Small world.

I lurk over there (no profile), and if I had been registered, I would have posted to A) ask the woman who said having a fetish would make her go "hmmm" why having a fetish was a bad thing, because hey, it's not like women don't have them, and B) to tell you that I had to agree that you went overboard with mentioning it multiple times in your profile. There's ways to communicate having a fetish to people that don't come across as obsessively creepy, and tickle-fetishists are, as a general rule, terrible at it.

It's pretty much gotten to the point where I can read any bit of writing and tell if it's been written by a foot/tickle fetishist or not. Once you know what to look for... bam.

 

[scorpionldr]

Holy crap, that was you?

Small world, dude. Small world.

I lurk over there (no profile), and if I had been registered, I would have posted to A) ask the woman who said having a fetish would make her go "hmmm" why having a fetish was a bad thing, because hey, it's not like women don't have them, and B) to tell you that I had to agree that you went overboard with mentioning it multiple times in your profile. There's ways to communicate having a fetish to people that don't come across as obsessively creepy, and tickle-fetishists are, as a general rule, terrible at it.

It's pretty much gotten to the point where I can read any bit of writing and tell if it's been written by a foot/tickle fetishist or not. Once you know what to look for... bam.

yes, that was me. Yea, lol, fighting with 45 year old women on whether or not turning on the television and watching it "socially programs" people of any age got pretty interesting; most people can't even admit it. It's looking at some really basic psychology such as why people will never negatively receive an attractive person and always negatively receive an unattractive person. People always assume "IT'S UNDER YOUUUUUURRRRRRRRRRRRR CONTROLLLLLLLLLLLL".

I was pretty explicit for the most part with the content I put under my interests because I felt if someone read it they should be able to figure me out. I only forgot tho; ppl don't read.

 

[jhop220]

Completely over thinking this. A small light tickle can be done while hugging or when walking close. If touch has been initiated then it is really a non-issue.

Don't allow your fetish to overtake your better judgement.

 

[scorpionldr]

Completely over thinking this. A small light tickle can be done while hugging or when walking close. If touch has been initiated then it is really a non-issue.

Don't allow your fetish to overtake your better judgement.

and if your fetish aids in shutting down your efforts to date?

 

[Phineas]

and if your fetish aids in shutting down your efforts to date?

Well, as I've already said numerous times in here and other places, it's not your fetish that's shutting down your efforts to date, it's how you're choosing to express that fetish. I've dated tons of women, none of them from this forum, who were cool and/or enthusiastic with my fetishes. Other people have as well.

If you think a woman is rejecting you because of your fetish, chances are that A) she's not into it, and that's okay, just find someone who is (they're out there), or B) stop being creepy about it.

You have to understand that you are going to be rejected for every reason under the sun. Example; you'd think playing guitar gets the wimmenz, but I had one gal tell me that she couldn't date a musician because she hated loud music. I have no idea what that had anything to do with being in a relationship, but there you go. I've been dumped for all sorts of ridiculous reasons; but the fact is, if she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you, and any reason she gives you is likely to just be an excuse that she pulled out of her ass in order to not have to admit that she doesn't find you attractive.

 

[TB1024]

Wow, reading some of these stories about how some of you people treat women, especially women you don't even know, it's kind of alarming to me.

I kept my tickling fetish a secret for a long time. But over the past 3-4 years, my attitude about it has relaxed a bit more. I remember the first time I ever expressed it to a girl I was dating, I was kinda nervous but she literally said that she finds fetishes to be interesting and she was open minded about it. The cool part is that all of the girls I have dated since then have all responded with a positive and open minded attitude about it.

 

[SpiffyTickler]

Well, as I've already said numerous times in here and other places, it's not your fetish that's shutting down your efforts to date, it's how you're choosing to express that fetish. I've dated tons of women, none of them from this forum, who were cool and/or enthusiastic with my fetishes. Other people have as well.

If you think a woman is rejecting you because of your fetish, chances are that A) she's not into it, and that's okay, just find someone who is (they're out there), or B) stop being creepy about it.

You have to understand that you are going to be rejected for every reason under the sun. Example; you'd think playing guitar gets the wimmenz, but I had one gal tell me that she couldn't date a musician because she hated loud music. I have no idea what that had anything to do with being in a relationship, but there you go. I've been dumped for all sorts of ridiculous reasons; but the fact is, if she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you, and any reason she gives you is likely to just be an excuse that she pulled out of her ass in order to not have to admit that she doesn't find you attractive.

Basically this. As long as you're not a creeper about it then very few people are going to consider a tickling fetish to be something worth dumping you over.

 

[c7_assassin]

So the other day, I'm watching a movie on my couch with a girl I know. She says something that seems bitchy but is really intended to be flirtatious. So I lean over and tickle her foot for a second. She squeals happily and shifts demurely. So I sort of cock my head and say, "Oh reeeallllllly?" and pick up her foot. She pulls, but not hard enough to break my grip. So I spend the next few minutes gently tickling her foot while she squirms, and I tell her she looks so cute when her face turns red, which is my segue into kissing her.

That's how you incorporate ticking into a date.