I see you are taking responsibility for this, as you've editted your first post to include at the end- " I can't help but worry about the fuse I just lit..."
That right there proves to me you were willing to step back, look at what you said and see the negative that was present in it. Its much more responsible, and it shows me alot.
My only issue though is with this becoming a religious issue. It didn't need to go there and you totally took my honest answer and turned into a religious bashing and/or possible discussion.
All I mentioned was that he found Christ, and I feel I explained what that entails adequately. Christ is not about religion, he's about a way of life. The fact he touches people spiritually like this, in this very example of Mr. Redder, is further proof of not only divine intervention, but spiritual healing. People these days are so unwilling to look beyond the surface. "Why did this person need help?! There was nothing wrong with them!" etc, etc, but perhaps Jake needed this. Perhaps he was to be taken away from this just so he could see what he was doing with his life and improve upon it. Its not that this was wrong or evil, it was just obviously holding him back, and it even cost him his marriage. In the end he wasn't saying "I've been doing something horrible all these years!", he just basically said "this isn't for me anymore", and we should respect that and leave it at that.
At some point he discovered more of himself. He learned to appriciate himself more as a human being and to expand on his life. In fact, this has nothing to do with religion, as I've already stated, alot of it has to do with self-realization and spiritual development. As spiritual development (as you should know as a buddhist) helps heal and strengthen not only the spiritual, but the mental and physical, even the psychological.
While Jake has found Christ for the first time and I've had the benefit of knowing him all my life, I can say that the Lord works in mysterious ways and I don't know why he was called, I can only say that I'm certain its a good thing and will lead him towards further goodness.
I don't see this as a loss at all. I see it as a continuation, a journey. He needed to move on, and maybe it took God to nudge him a bit so he could actually do it. Alot of people become so complacent that they fear change. And when theres a door, a window of opportunity they grimace at it because they are afraid of losing what they have. But this is God we're talking about. Nothing bad comes from Him, and how fortunate for Jake that he felt spiritually motivated and touched. Its the strongest motivation there is. No pep talk, no rousing, no speech can compare to the internal touch of a divine experience. I'm sure if you asked him himself to explain why, he probably couldn't. Thats how awesome spiritual experiences can be. You don't necessarily know at first why this is happening to you or why you should listen to it, all you have is the feeling. And that feeling is never wrong when its coming from God. And as time passes, His plan for you will become more evident and things will be as they should.
Jake Redder is on his way to a better life. And perhaps his artistic skill will better suit him whereever he is lead. Sometimes your life will take a complete turn-around. So many people are afraid of venturing forth.
" Do not be afraid, I am with you."- Jesus Christ :happy:
As for you and me personally, its ok now. I forgive you. We were both being immature jerks and our pride was getting in the way of ever patching things up. And it seems we have both been having hard times lately, personally speaking, so its understandable why either of us would be on edge. But we are both good men and we are both willing to acknowledge that. I've thought about you too and there are things I regret as I'm sure theres things you regret. But honestly, thats behind us now, and I'm glad we've come to terms. :happy:
I believe it was this experience, this exchange, and this topic especially that was set before us so we could recover what we had lost, or perhaps gain something we never had- a friendship.