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I am eclectic. I am eccentric. I am every day easy and casual. I am serious as an IRS accountant and silly as little girl chasing bubbles. I am dirt and mud and glitter and shine. I am the rain in the forest and the sunflowers in the field. I am the torrent of wrath and the caress of love. I am puma and rabbit. Gentle and rough.
I am dark and I am light, combined together under icy flames and honed to a deadly edge.
I am paradox.
I am The Raven.
I live in bliss with my Love, who holds my heart with the gentlest of hands and cushions my sorrows with the strongest of arms. With him, I know absolute surrender, for he is the smile upon my lips and the light in my darkness. There is no other who could sway the heat that engulfs us.
In honor, always, for Him...
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The Basics...
I am eclectic. I am eccentric. I am every day easy and casual. I am serious as an IRS accountant and silly as little girl chasing bubbles. I am dirt and mud and glitter and shine. I am the rain in the forest and the sunflowers in the field. I am the torrent of wrath and the caress of love. I am puma and rabbit. Gentle and rough.
I am dark and I am light, combined together under icy flames and honed to a deadly edge.
I am paradox.
I am The Raven.
I live in bliss with my Love, who holds my heart with the gentlest of hands and cushions my sorrows with the strongest of arms. With him, I know absolute surrender, for he is the smile upon my lips and the light in my darkness. There is no other who could sway the heat that engulfs us.
In honor, always, for Him...
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The Basics...
I am currently 33, female, residing in the Sacramento area of California. I live with my Love (and fiancée) Wirchler, who is also a member here. I try to be friendly and approachable, but can get bitchy and sharp when annoyed. I love to tease and taunt, and the banter here on the forum is a real hoot sometimes. Don't be shy about hitting me up about something. I tend to be an open book. A complicated open book sometimes, but open none the less!
I am an artist of many talents. I design and manufacture jewelry. I do erotic photography as a hobbyist (both behind and in front of the lens). I write in a variety of genres, including fantasy and erotica. I also write and maintain an in depth blog for newbies on safety, philosophy and techniques regarding alternative lifestyles as well as sexuality/sensuality on another site.
I enjoy the out doors as much as I can. I am a solitary witch and have been for many years now. Spirituality is important to me. I respect religion and the influence it can have in ones life, but I can not tolerate organized religion when it starts invalidating other peoples ideas and thoughts. That no longer is spirituality but control of the sheep. I loath sheep. I could never be one. I am puma... a hunter.
I read as much as possible. Not as much as I used to or would like to, but I usually juggle three books at once. As far as music goes, I listen to an eclectic mix. Sarah Brightman is my favorite. From there it spans from Gary Allan to CCR to Godsmack to Goth Opera to Celtic instrumentals. I am an odd birdie.
The Lifestyle...
I've been into erotic tickling for over two years now. I was introduced by my Love who has been in the scene for many years. My background is actually in BDSM. I have been active in the lifestyle for well over seven years now. I was trained by a professional Dominatrix who was a close college friend of mine. I was her personal play toy for about five years. I have taken what she has taught me and have held a number of submissives under my protection. Additionally, I mentor a number of people in real time and on line.
I was fortunate in my introduction to the lifestyle. Many are not. If I can help steer someone from a bad situation or give them the tools to protect themselves, then I have done something worth while with my time and efforts.
I am a well trained sadomasochistic pure switch. I need to dominate as much as I need to submit. My Love knows this well so while I am allowed all the little submissive toys I want to play with, I kneel only in submission to him. It has been a wonderful journey for both of us so far. I have learned how to soften my hand and he is learning the complexities of giving pain to another. The lessons are hard for both of us, but crucial as we want to share this with each other fully. We both understand well what it feels like to deny part of yourself because of how others perceive our kinks. To be with a partner who understands and shares your desires is amazing. I just try not to scare my gentle sensualist with my sadomasochistic desires!
In the tickling arena, I switch as well. Others are allowed to tickle me only when Wirchler shares me, which he does often. He's sweet and generous like that. I have enjoyed it greatly. The people we have met at munches and gatherings in NorCal and the Bay Area are amazing. They are smart, funny and warm people. And good 'lers and 'lees! My Love has introduced me to a number of people who have become dear to me as well.
I would greatly encourage those who have not attended munches or gatherings to do so. You have nothing to fear. The people there understand your fears about “coming out” as they have been there themselves!
Where am I ticklish? All over. But I can be a stinker and focus it away. Those who I have been shared with learn fast, thanks to my Love, how to break my focus. Ask me and I may tell you...
I have many, many fetishes. I write about paraphilia and fetishes so it goes without saying that I am always discovering something that I am willing to try out! My biggest has got to be feet. And both sides of that coin. I love worshiping my Love's feet. And he mine. Its just one big happy foot fest! LOL! (now that just pops up all kinds of kinky pics!) Shoes follow in second, DUH! Then probably blades. Or fire. That one is hard to say. I lust over both. Next would be blood. Now you see why I am careful with my darker desires. That stuff can get dangerous quickly especially with how deep mine run. The shadows in my brain can be a scary place. Bring a flashlight!
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I think that about covers it.
Please ask me whatever you wish. I am hard to offend, difficult to make blush and not likely to bite ya... unless you ask me nicely
Yes... the siggy pic is me... my work. Below are a few more. 😀
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my blog, Dark Kisses
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I am a artist and photographer as well. My art tends to be more SciFi and Fantasy and my photography tends to center around Nature rocks, crystals, and widdle furry animals when I can sneak a pic of them. 
