What was your first game changer tickling skill?

[Wesker28]

Psychological teasing was a big thing for me too. It makes tickling much more effective I've found. Things like doing a countdown before you tickle or saying you'll tickle a spot but going for a completely different spot. It builds the anticipation and tickle fear just making it more fun as a whole.

Yes, I have noticed that also, when I got to tickle my wife, I countdown from 3 to 0 and tap her foot each time. Definitely effective 😉

 

[natscott6282]

I bought vibrating ribbed finger things for women but use to tickle soles , amazing with oils and creams inder the toes and arches

I have such ticklish arches even hearing or seeing that word makes me physically shudder

 

[natscott6282]

Two words: psychological teasing

Mostly in the form of verbal taunts. Whispering in their ear, making them aware that they are helpless, that they don't know where I'll be attacking next, etc.

when they know that you know you found a hyper ticklish hotspot and ur not leaving it

 

[natscott6282]

Even just talking to your Lee while exposing their feet or other ticklish area and describing what you're planning to do (you dont even have to use an 'evil tickler' voice ) can be a good way to 'prime the pump' (as I like to call it ) for a good tickling experience.

we use to describe their ticklish spots to them when we exposed them

 

[Deleted member 210275]

I have such ticklish arches even hearing or seeing that word makes me physically shudder

Id love to tickle them

 

[natscott6282]

Id love to tickle them

hahaha nooooo lol

 

[Deleted member 210275]

hahaha nooooo lol

Hahaha yes softly and slowly up your arches

 

[Wrestledom]

Using thumbs on hips. I was always a good tickler (watching regular videos tends to make you above average, lol) but this technique made me go from a brown belt to a black belt.

I've had women tell me that I'm very good at tickling them. And honestly, most of it is post this.

 

[natscott6282]

Using thumbs on hips. I was always a good tickler (watching regular videos tends to make you above average, lol) but this technique made me go from a brown belt to a black belt.

I've had women tell me that I'm very good at tickling them. And honestly, most of it is post this.

as in rubbing ur thumbs on and just inside the hip bones in non stop circles pressing in?

 

[Wrestledom]

Yep. Preferably with the rest of my palm and wrist holding my lee in place while I do it.

as in rubbing ur thumbs on and just inside the hip bones in non stop circles pressing i

 

[Hiphophooray2]

The best skill, imo, is realizing there really isn’t one 🙂 There is no one skill or component that is magical. There are skills, tools, techniques, relationships, interactions, situations, spots, and connections. There is a lot of listening to other Lers, and what they can teach you. Listening to Lees is important and that can be a game-changer.

As mentioned above:

Using proper (and proper use) and safe bondage is important if this is how you will be playing. Once I know I’m truly secured, I can physically let loose and it’s quite enjoyable.

Know your spots. Then forget it, because pretty much anywhere can be a spot, depending on the Lee. This is where listening to the Lee is important. Beforehand finding out what they are willing to share and what they like, then listening during the session and paying attention to reactions and needs.

Unpredictability is a good one too. I don’t wanna know. Honestly, my blindfold is my favorite tool. I don’t have to worry about overstimulation with visual input. I can let my tactile nervous system take over and enjoy the sensations. Don’t be afraid to move around.

Be flexible during the session. I loved this one. Listen to your Lee. How are they reacting. Are they comfortable? Needs being met? How does their response change depending upon the light or pressure touches? Are they responding to banter?

And the mind games/banter are big too. Remember this is an interaction. Action/response. Teasing, banter, verbal battles can be a huge compontent and leads to my biggest technique: connection. The more you interaction, the more you genuinely try to get to know one another, the more you show your safety, the more comfortable the Lee will be. While anxiety can intensify the reactions, there is a difference between anxiety with the person and anxiety with anticipation.

Things are supposed to be awkward. Social skills are important. You don’t have to make small talk, but remember your Lee is human and oerson a toy. Anything can become a tool. Almost everywhere can be a spot. But until you get to know your Lee (both mind and body), you will be missing out on potential benefits and reactions. What may work with one, won’t with another. Don’t assume, ask.

The game changer is knowing that you never stop learning. Your t-word “tool box” can be endless. Something new can always be known. Don’t get set on anything specific. Fluidity. Don’t stress, enjoy the interaction and experience.

The best skill, imo, is realizing there really isn’t one 🙂 There is no one skill or component that is magical. There are skills, tools, techniques, relationships, interactions, situations, spots, and connections. There is a lot of listening to other Lers, and what they can teach you. Listening to Lees is important and that can be a game-changer.

As mentioned above:

Using proper (and proper use) and safe bondage is important if this is how you will be playing. Once I know I’m truly secured, I can physically let loose and it’s quite enjoyable.

Know your spots. Then forget it, because pretty much anywhere can be a spot, depending on the Lee. This is where listening to the Lee is important. Beforehand finding out what they are willing to share and what they like, then listening during the session and paying attention to reactions and needs.

Unpredictability is a good one too. I don’t wanna know. Honestly, my blindfold is my favorite tool. I don’t have to worry about overstimulation with visual input. I can let my tactile nervous system take over and enjoy the sensations. Don’t be afraid to move around.

Be flexible during the session. I loved this one. Listen to your Lee. How are they reacting. Are they comfortable? Needs being met? How does their response change depending upon the light or pressure touches? Are they responding to banter?

And the mind games/banter are big too. Remember this is an interaction. Action/response. Teasing, banter, verbal battles can be a huge compontent and leads to my biggest technique: connection. The more you interaction, the more you genuinely try to get to know one another, the more you show your safety, the more comfortable the Lee will be. While anxiety can intensify the reactions, there is a difference between anxiety with the person and anxiety with anticipation.

Things are supposed to be awkward. Social skills are important. You don’t have to make small talk, but remember your Lee is human and oerson a toy. Anything can become a tool. Almost everywhere can be a spot. But until you get to know your Lee (both mind and body), you will be missing out on potential benefits and reactions. What may work with one, won’t with another. Don’t assume, ask.

The game changer is knowing that you never stop learning. Your t-word “tool box” can be endless. Something new can always be known. Don’t get set on anything specific. Fluidity. Don’t stress, enjoy the interaction and experience.

Excellent answer

 

[Hiphophooray2]

I guess my "game changing" epiphany occurred when I finally learned to just slow it down an take my freakin time, especially during the initial all over head to toe discovery analysis.

 

[MikeMenace]

Psychological teasing is a big one. It's a game changer and it's so much fun.

But the most important one was realizing that just because spider-walk tickling is my favorite technique, it doesn't mean it's gonna work on every lee and on any spot. Variety is key. And sometimes you will need to use some obscure, even outlandish techniques and tools to get a reaction. Learned this by tickling my ex-wife.

And a bonus one. Foot licking can be arousing or excrutiatingly ticklish depending on how you move your tongue. Also learned it by experimenting on my ex-wife.

 

[SoleMates]

It isn't any one thing, but I'd say that at this point I've tickled so many people that odds are pretty good I'll be able to figure out what works on someone pretty quickly, even if they weren't aware of it themselves. Whether a spot, a touch, or whatever... there's always that little "ah-ha" moment where you - and, more importantly, they - know that you just struck gold, and it's going to get ruthlessly, ruthlessly exploited.

 

[ticklishbod20]

1) hands inside the pockets devastates some lees
2) less pressure on sides tickles a little less (sometimes more) but can be tolerated waaaaay longer in lees

 

[Tickled_Me]

1) hands inside the pockets devastates some lees
2) less pressure on sides tickles a little less (sometimes more) but can be tolerated waaaaay longer in lees

Hands inside the pockets! Even if you don't do anything, the act of putting the hands inside is enough to drive me crazy

 

[natscott6282]

I guess my "game changing" epiphany occurred when I finally learned to just slow it down a take my freakin time, especially during the initial all over head to toe discovery analysis.

soooo true u gotta be methodical

 

[FFT32]

Spider Tickling a smooth arch. I’m still very good at it… ;0)

 

[Elyos]

1) hands inside the pockets devastates some lees
2) less pressure on sides tickles a little less (sometimes more) but can be tolerated waaaaay longer in lees

I actually wondered if anybody would mention hands inside the pockets.. That's a killer move from a lee's perspective. Cannot even count how often I really "felt" hands inside the pockets of my jeans....

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I love knowing and using the fact that everyone is different to my advantage when I'm exploring as a tickler.

Oftentimes, ticklers are quite formulaic in spots, tools, the order... And it becomes boring.

Never lose the art of careful, gentle exploration. You will be rewarded as certainly you will find a spot that is new or has been forgotten OR (my favorite) a spot that has been purposely hidden. 😘

 

[aberdeen]

I actually wondered if anybody would mention hands inside the pockets.. That's a killer move from a lee's perspective. Cannot even count how often I really "felt" hands inside the pockets of my jeans....

You can do that with a Lee restrained face down and set their body and brain on fire! Ribs, then slide fingers under into yer pockets area and...enjoy the show!

 

[4Pawz]

It isn't any one thing, but I'd say that at this point I've tickled so many people that odds are pretty good I'll be able to figure out what works on someone pretty quickly, even if they weren't aware of it themselves. Whether a spot, a touch, or whatever... there's always that little "ah-ha" moment where you - and, more importantly, they - know that you just struck gold, and it's going to get ruthlessly, ruthlessly exploited.

Oh my goodness yes! We all know spots. But when a Ler finds one they do well, on an intense spot, or they find a new one, it makes the mind and senses go wild! “Oh…no…” has been uttered more than once lol.

1) hands inside the pockets devastates some lees
2) less pressure on sides tickles a little less (sometimes more) but can be tolerated waaaaay longer in lees

Pockets are definitely one! Having a Ler behind me intensifies everything and changes the angles. Pockets is a huge one! Yeesh!

 

[extrasock2]

1) hands inside the pockets devastates some lees
2) less pressure on sides tickles a little less (sometimes more) but can be tolerated waaaaay longer in lees

Hands inside the pockets! Even if you don't do anything, the act of putting the hands inside is enough to drive me crazy

Oh my goodness yes! We all know spots. But when a Ler finds one they do well, on an intense spot, or they find a new one, it makes the mind and senses go wild! “Oh…no…” has been uttered more than once lol.

Pockets are definitely one! Having a Ler behind me intensifies everything and changes the angles. Pockets is a huge one! Yeesh!

This sounds interesting. Do you all mean, like, hands inside the pockets of jeans or something? If so, if you don't mind me asking, have you ever done that to someone/had that done to you before? If so, what was it like? I've literally never heard of this before.

 

[4Pawz]

This sounds interesting. Do you all mean, like, hands inside the pockets of jeans or something? If so, if you don't mind me asking, have you ever done that to someone/had that done to you before? If so, what was it like? I've literally never heard of this before.

Yes, hands inside front pockets of the jeans. I’ve had it done more than once. It’s a lot! lol. Usually surprised, but that gives pretty exclusive access to the hips and creases. Immediate fetal position 😂

 

[natscott6282]

You can do that with a Lee restrained face down and set their body and brain on fire! Ribs, then slide fingers under into yer pockets area and...enjoy the show!

yesss especially BARE pockets