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Would you ever marry someone not into tickling?

Would you ever marry someone not into tickling?

  • Yes

    Votes: 310 47.9%

  • No

    Votes: 225 34.8%

  • Dunno

    Votes: 112 17.3%
  • Total voters
    647
TickleTheater

TickleTheater

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If they didn't share your love for tickling, would you still marry them? Silly question for some, others not...we'll see. 🙂
 
Of course.
My girlfriend finds the thought of any kind of sexual fetish scary. So, I haven't told her the truth about myself.

But this wouldn't stop me marrying her if it came to that.
Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship.
 
I vow never to marry, but if I were giving another advice, I would say that they should marry them ONLY if they accept your interests. They may not share them, but if they don't at least accept them, then they don't love you truely, as a true love would accept you no matter what.
 
My current g/f doesn't know about my whole tickle thing. However, if things continue and we end up getting married, it's not the end of the world if she's not into it. She loves me for me, and that's the main thing. I'm sure there are some things she's into that she hasn't told me about. If I'm not into them, does it mean I love her any less? Not for me anyway. Course, I'm a little strange as it is...
 
I would and probably am going to marry my current girl. Been together about 8 months now, and she has no idea about my fetishes for feet and tickling. I still get to tickle her whenever I want...she may not like it all that much but she just laughs it up. Tickling is not the most important thing in my life by a long way, so in response to the poll- Yes I would.
 
Tickling is too much a part of me and I could not see comitting myself to marrying a woman who is not into tickling at least to some degree. Thankfully I do have shygirl, who is as into tickling as I am.

TTD
 
Yes I would,my girl friend sez she don't like to be tickled but when I tickle her its always fun and I don't abuse the situation.Just light tickling turn into interesting foreplay...
 
Deal-Breaker

I've gotta vote no here. Tickling is part of who I am. To not be able to share that w/a potential mate means to be unable to give myself totally to her, and that's unacceptable.
 
I voted yes because

I did marry someone not into tickling. I was never going to divulge my secret which I thought abnormal and embarrassing. So I answered the poll YES because it reflects most of my adult life. But finally after many unfulfilling years I did share my secret. It worked out nicely. I've made a tickler out of my man. Now, having lived my fantasy, understanding the full measure of the role of tickling in my sexuality, I'd have to KNOW FOR A FACT that my non-tickler partner would grow to be a tickler before I'd marry him. So I suppose that now I'd answer the poll NO.
 
I would have to say no.I was in a relationship for 19 years with someone that was not into it .Tickling is a part of who I am and could not go through that again.
 
I absolutely WOULD and am 99.9% sure I will. My lady knows about it and doens't mind it. However, it's not HER interest! She has her own things.
To quote many people who say that tickling is "part" of their life or "part" of who they are. SURE! It's PART of me. Which means there are many many many many OTHER parts of me or about me!

Does she love it like I do? No. Do I enjoy watching Lifetime with her? Nope!. Who cares! We get along on waaaaaay too many levels to let the little things cause problems! It might be one thing if she HATED being tickled but no, it in NO way hampers our relationship.
I think the main difference would be if tickling were such an ingrained part of sexuality for a person, then that would make a bigger difference than if it were at the quasi-fetish level like it is for me. It's more about fun than sex so it isn't as big a deal for me.
 
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I would at least have to be with someone who could understand my tickling fetish for what it was: A very intimate and special part of my being that needs to be explored and expressed. I've had many satisfying relationships with women whom were never "into" tickling, but was happy to be a part of it in order to make me happy. If they had their own fetish similar to mine with tickling, I would reciprocate that genuine openness and do the same for them.

But... if they never let me tickle them or they never tickled me, then that's something I don't think I could live with for very long!
 
I NEED someone to be able to accept my fantasies and, if they truly love me, be able to help me act them out. Part of being in a committed relationship is being open, honest, and being able to give and take. I wasn't going to tell my partner about my love of tickling, but it just kinda...happened. And I couldn't be happier!
 
my thinking on this idea is that whatever your kink or fetish is, youm ust tell your partner. If he or she really loves you then they will still love you and try to understnad your position. also if they are really into you then they will work the fetish into the relationship. On a personal note, i have done things that i did not care one way or the other about, but my girl at the time loved it. This is why i say what i say. If your partner leaves you or says you crazy then he or she is not your one true love.
 
If the love between us were very strong then, *yes* I would but, I'm sure I would eventually drive her away with my tickling antics. 🙄
 
I don't know about of it, because all my ex-girlfriend did know (or at least suspected) my tickling feet-fetish. So i'll have to have a girlfriend not tickle loving for to know if i would marry with her or not.
 
i vote no because I love being tickled and doing it so why would i be with someone who wouldn't enjoy it? The only person who knows my love for tickling is my best male friend who I would love to date.
 
absolutely not! if your a true tickle fetishist you wouldnt marry a non tickle person. you will truly never be happy.
 
What a bizarre question I dont think tickling has anything to do with a wife. And if you love someone its for who they are not because of what they are into. And ultimately u marry someone you love. So they answer is that yes I would marry someone not into tickling.
 
Let me put my two cents in.

Both my last girlfriend and the current one not only weren't into it but aren't very ticklish.

Well, not totally true. The current one was ticklish but kind of grew out of it. Now the only way I can get the desired out of control laughing from her is to pin her and use my tongue on her belly.

As I say, they weren't really into it. In fact, I can't think of one of ANY of my girlfriends throughout my life that were into it. They would all indulge me to some extent. The interesting thing is that I've met several girls lately that I would go nuts to be with because, not only are they beautiful and sexy but have outrageously ticklish feet. I know because I've played with them. The thing is that I can't honestly leave the girl I'm with for that. I've made a commitment and I'm obligated to stick with it.

Still, I'd love to be with this one. She and I click as people, too. ..And she has the most sensitive feet. Putting her in stockings doesn't diminish it at all. That's pure heaven for me.

I can't be in a relationship without some kind of footplay so I've basically settled for that as opposed to full on tickling.

I don't know if this answers the question. I don't think I'll ever marry my current girlfriend but it wouldn't be because of the tickling.
 
I've been out with women who said they hate to be touched. That gives me a glimpse into their psyche. Did something happen when they were younger that made them become "untouchable"? One woman said her ex abused her, so she did not trust men. (Even me?) Honestly, when you marry someone it is because you love them completely, warts and all, but in my case, if she couldn't stand being tickled or touched, I'd rather she found someone who wasn't so touchy feely ... then I'd be free to find my true "Sole mate"... you probably saw that one coming.
 
My current significant other was abused by tickling as a child. His brother would try to humiliate and dominate him by tickling him till he wet himself. Now, I'm more of a ler than a lee, but I could never tickle someone for my own sexual and emotional gratification who had such bad associations with tickling. Fortunately, I am hopelessly ticklish, even when I really wish I weren't 🙂 so it's become a part of our relationship by default. We've only been together a few months, but I suppose if our relationship got to that point I'd marry him, but since tickling is such a negative thing for him I doubt I'd ever tell him about my interest. I'm afraid it would make me seem cruel, considering what he's gone through.
 
I voted yes, I would marry someone not into tickling.

I enjoy tickling, but if the person wasn't into it, I wouldn't want to force him to endure that.

The current guy with me hates to be tickled, but tolerates little jabs from me from time to time.

In fact, when I go to see him, he'll ask if I'm bringing my "evil tickle hands" or keeping them home. lmao
 
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As much as I enjoy tickling and have been stuck with it for a no.1 turn on for as long as I can remember, If I truly loved a girl and she didnt like it, Im sure I would cope. My girlfriend lets me tickle her slowly in the places where she finds it 'relaxing', and while this isnt the form of tickling that really drives me wild, I still appreciate it and can get by on it no trouble.
 
I have to vote a big NO here. Like other people have said, this is a part of who I am. Period. Now, the other person does not have to have a tickling fetish per say, but at the very least she MUST be both ticklish and open to being tickled. Of course, I realize that this means that I'll probably never get married. :sigh: You know what, I've never been very fond of marraige anyway, so I could deal with that if I had to.

"Personally I think marriage is a fine institution, but I'm not ready to put myself in an institution right now." - Groucho Marx
 
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