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Would you ever marry someone not into tickling?

Would you ever marry someone not into tickling?

  • Yes

    Votes: 310 47.9%
  • No

    Votes: 225 34.8%
  • Dunno

    Votes: 112 17.3%

  • Total voters
    647
I could see marrying someone who wasn't "into" tickling in the way people here are "into" it. But though none of my girlfriends have been fetishists, I've yet to have a girlfriend who didn't take it upon herself to instigate tickle-fights and tickle me into hysterics with regularity and gusto... I assume my future wife will share that particular predilection.
 
I think I could....if it was just that it didn't turn them on or something.

But I doubt I could go through with a relationship with a girl who didn't let me do it at least from time to time. With the lack of that in the relationship, not only would the attraction factor fall to the ground, but I'd be tempted to go to other sources to relieve myself of the urge...and it wouldn't work out well.
 
I honestly can't answer this one lol.

The way I see it; there is so much I would have to consider first, before I even get to the "well is she into tickling" part of the equation. But if everything else checks out; trust-worthiness, spritual compatibility etc... whether or not she's into tickling may not be that important...

I dunno lol... this is a very cruel question to ask a ticklephile!
 
I love to be tickled and it is a relatively deep need. If I had a girlfriend who stated that she would not or could not do that for me, there is no way I would marry her. Same for my foot fetish. If she expressed having a problem with that as well, I would never consider marriage. Plenty of attractive women out there have no problem with either fetish whatsoever.
 
I could'nt. Trying to surpress my love for tickling would be futile. Then where would your outlet be? Chances are, they would hurt your relationship in the long run.
 
I voted yes bc I did marry someone who's not into tickling, though she still indulges me from time to time. That's why I love her.
 
Very interesting points being made on either side of the fence here. On one side she must love you unconditionally and on the other, you're not crazy enough about tickling that a girl must have that in common with you. I voted no because tickling IS a part of me.
 
whats a little tickling to someone? if they cant accept that, then maybe theyre not worth marrying in the first place. by choosing to marry someone, you should at least be able to accept their quirks.
 
when I was with my ex fiance, she wasn't into the bondage or foot fetishes or tickling. When I finally told her what I was into, she gave me the wierdest look you can imagin. It was like her looking at me like if I was some sort of phycotic freak. I told her not to say you don't like it when you haven't tried it. So I talked her into getting tied up. After a couple of times of doing what I love to do, she started to love it. Especially getting her toes sucked. She even tried to talk me into it.
If they love you, they would except you no matter what you are into. Just like viseversa.
 
I voted "Yeah, sure".

I mean, you gotta keep these things in perspective...
 
Been there, done that with the whole marriage thing haha. But she was into it at first though. She kind of faded out of it, but it was fun while it lasted 😀
 
well, since I'm post # 64 I doubt too many will read this. LOL This might be long, but I wanted to express myself to other lers and lees. Maybe some of you out there grew up and felt the same way as I did. So don't read any further if you get bored.

I'm new here, 44 yrs old and read most of the responses on here. A lot of them are how I am and how I feel to this day. It wasn't until 1986 when I picked up a copy of LegShow magazine that I found out there were others who enjoyed the same things as I did.

Tickling has been a part of me since my childhood. I think my father had a foot and tickling fetish since he'd tickle my mom often. But back in the 1960's, fetishes was unheard of and kept in the bedroom. While growing up I thought I was the only one who liked tickling feet in hose. At times felt ashamed and embarrassed so I never told anyone about my fetishes. Not even the gf's I dated. I didn't want them to think I was weird or perverted. I never told my "wife to be" about it until after we were married. She's accepted my foot, hose and tickling fetishes after 21 yrs of marriage, but she's not really into it. And as us true ticklers know, it's not the same when a person does it because we ask them as it is when a person really loves it. I think my wife does it because she loves me.

For most, that would be fine. And it's true that in the end when we're old and gray, the only thing that matters is love. But for a lot of us, that's a long way off! LOL

My fetishes are a part of me as they are to others on here. One lady wrote that it's a sexual part of her. It's that way for me also. While sex isn't the only thing in a marriage/relationship, I do believe it ranks up there next to love, trust, honesty, etc. Especially if one or both partners are very sexual.

The question "Would you ever marry someone not into tickling?" is quite complicated. For 21 yrs I've felt and will always feel there is a true part of me missing. My wife is loving, caring, a wife any "normal" man would die for. But for me, my fetishes are real and deep. And because of that, it's caused serious problems in the marriage that I won't talk about.

I know my fantasies of tying and tickling my lover will never be fullfilled. I guess that's why they call it fantasies, right? At times it feels lonely knowing I won't be with a woman who would love for me to cuddle with her feet. Massage and tickle them while watching TV or things like that.

It seems you have to sacrifice one thing in order to get another. We could find a person who satisfies us sexually, but we might lose other things such as love, trust, etc. There is no perfect marriage/people. I don't believe anyone has it all. But I also think we weren't meant to have it all. We were meant to be happy and grateful for what we have.

My answer is no, I wouldn't marry someone who isn't into tickling. Not knowing what I know now.

Aloha
 
To be honest, I haven't tickled anyone in over four years. Most of my family thinks I'm strange in that aspect and get angry if they hear I've been tickling anyone regardless of age and sex. Even when I was younger it was frowned down upon. So marrying a girl whose not into tickling won't bother me that much. Besides, it's not like I'm gonna hook up with anyone real soon.
 
Yes, although I would prefer it if the woman I marry will enjoy being tickled by me. And if her tummy is one of those places where she likes to be tickled, all the better. 🙂
 
i don't really know yet whether or not i would...i've never really told anyone about my interests, and i don't think it would really affect the relationship. i'd have to try a relationship with someone into tickling to really judge it
 
Well I know the poll is closed and I did answer yes because I did marry a girl who isn't ticklish. We met at 16, dated for 9 1/2 years and finally married.
 
A few years ago, I stumbled upon a closed page, the former contents of which were replaced by a message to the effect of, "My wife left me because of my tickling fetish. Don't let this happen to you." Every time I think of going without in a marriage, I think of what I saw, and no--I won't let it happen to me. To ignore it for ten, fifteen years--to get CHILDREN involved--and then realise that something fundamental is missing? The world is littered with the corpses of marriages where matters of basic compatibility are glossed over. Nope. Not gonna happen. I'd rather die alone then take other people down with me. The girl I marry is gonna know about things from day one, and she should at least indulge me, like I might indulge her in accompanying her while she shops for clothes. That may well be the best I can hope for... happiest scenario, of course, would be to get involved with an out-and-out ticklee. God help me.
 
Marry ... meh it's not the fact of getting married,
but just to live with someone you love without this.

Definitevely i don't care if the person who is with me
is into tickling or not, she'll be tickled none the less 🙂
 
I totally agree with angie...Tickling is really one of the few simple pleasures i have in this life, not being able to be open with the one person i care most about would really rip me apart.
 
I think if you truly love each other, a little bit of give and take is possible. Something you like (tickling) for something they like.

I had to do that with my current girlfriend, but thankfully for me she's opened up and now has at least a very mild tickling fetish.
 
no way... not after my last experience with a non ticklish person. too frustrating!!
 
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