A Public Apology....To Those Who Have Meant Well.. And Been Supportive.

[Bohemianne]

11th Commandment: Thou shall not scratch the itch... or it shall scratch that.

 

[chicago]

The guy's got issues, clearly.

Took me a while to realize, but there's not much you're going to say that's going to get through to him, but I'm pleasantly surprised he's at least taken something from what we've all been telling him. And it's pretty much all died down now, so...

Is it really necessary to *bump* the thread and keep fuckin with him for your own LOLz?

 

[Bothersome]

The guy's got issues, clearly.

Took me a while to realize, but there's not much you're going to say that's going to get through to him, but I'm pleasantly surprised he's at least taken something from what we've all been telling him. And it's pretty much all died down now, so...

Is it really necessary to *bump* the thread and keep fuckin with him for your own LOLz?

This is essentially what I've been trying to say for awhile, albeit in slightly nicer words.

 

[Jericho716]

You could have stayed out of the damn thread.. but no.. you just HAD to join in, knowing you'd have nothing but negativity and uncivil behavior to contribute. .

And you didn't have to create the damn thread(s) in the first place, but no, you just HAD to do it, knowing you'd have no hope of changing or truly taking the advice to heart.

Jeff was right, and so was Leo. I learned my lesson in this thread too. Some people are so damn bad, that even when one makes a mistake, and tries to make it right, it cant be made right.

Its like this:

Mitch posts a thread in the main forum discussing a situation with his friend. Thread caused huge problems for weeks. Mitch upset everyone by that thread. Thread is Mitch's fault to take responsibility for. He does.

ANOTHER thread is posted, by someone other than Mitch, basically simply for the purpose of taking more issues with Mitch. Such happens. THAT thread is not Mitch's fault.

Mitch posts a thread. "Sorry my thread about my friend caused so many problems", for the intent of trying to calm things down, and even more potshots are taken at him.

Mitch complaining about his friend in the main forum, the initial thread,.. all on Mitch. The other two threads,. and the uncivil reactions to them, especially by several specific people . not his fault

How many times have you talked about yourself in this post alone? Somebody already said it... why the need to post a public apology in the first place? Why does everything have to be public? It's like a celebrity "donating their time" to charity... as long as it's on camera. The best apologies or kind gestures are those that none of us will hear about. Apologize to those people you feel you need to via a private message.

Stop posting about yourself, please.

If you refuse to take my offer to just leave the damn forum for six months, maybe you'll accept the challenge to not post ANYTHING about yourself for one month. Seriously, it would be good for you. Post about baseball or politics or the weather or your manly love crush on Jim Gardner, but DO NOT post about yourself. No Mitch this or that. No "I" or "me" or "my" or "mine" for one month. I don't think you could do it, even though you won't accept the challenge. It would be therapeutic for you to just talk about anything but yourself, but you're more self-centered and egotistical than you think.

I would pay the moderators more money than you would believe to ban you for six months, because you don't realize how much you need help. You're like the male version of Lindsay Lohan on the TMF... never taking responsibility and never truly getting the help you need. I can afford it, and the moderators could donate the money to charity, but it would be for your own good to just leave for awhile. Stay in touch with people via email or AIM/Skype/Yahoo/whatever... the select few that would want to. Just take a break. It's obvious you can't handle it here lately. Everybody's in the same boat here, so don't flatter yourself in thinking you're some victim and the world is out to get you.

Just take a break. I'll always be there for you, my friend.

 

[goalie34]

I love you C.A.B, totally the highlight of my day.

 

[Leo tickles]

I don't think that people are bad necessarily. I think its easy to laugh at somebody when the grass they stand on is greener on their side.

Winter comes for everybody though.

 

[C.A.B.]

I don't think that people are bad necessarily. I think its easy to laugh at somebody when the grass they stand on is greener on their side.

Winter comes for everybody though.

RoboCop: Waste makes haste. For time is fleeting. A rolling stone is worth two in the bush.
Boy: Go fuck a refrigerator, pecker neck!
RoboCop: Bad language makes for bad feelings.

 

[Leo tickles]

RoboCop: Waste makes haste. For time is fleeting. A rolling stone is worth two in the bush.
Boy: Go fuck a refrigerator, pecker neck!
RoboCop: Bad language makes for bad feelings.

I approve.

 

[Mitchell]

Reading the replies, carefully. MOST hold truth, even Annie's, but, uh, Annie, we all have "issues".. to some degree.

Jericho716, seriously, bite me, okay.

"YOU would love to pay mods money to ban me for six months."

Exactly how the hell am I troubling you? YOU are acting troublesome to me with your following me around the forum, making harassing posts and messages on the board, and in my profile, telling me to leave.

"Manly love crush on Jim Gardner".

Maybe its YOU that has a "manly love crush on me", considering how you trail me with your harassment.

If I want to leave, I will leave, okay? Personal choice. If the mods feel/had felt I did anything for them to ban me, they would have/would. It's their forum, Jericho, not yours, so why dont you stop with this "holier than now" attitude. Its bullshit.

 

[Mitchell]

I'm probably going to take a lot of heat for posting this in the main forum, but considering that my intended post hasnt been well received, my feeling is almost whatever.

To those who tell me to "Leave". It isnt so easy.. To those who wonder why I havent left for a while. How about some reasons.

Ummm. did any of you stop to think that NOTHING about my life is the same as it was.. 400 days ago, which is exactly the time I found out my mom was going to die.

In that time, I've.. watched my mom suffer her fatal illness, die.. reconciled with relatives who werent nice to me, met my father's wife, broken it off again with relatives who were still acting uncivil, moved to NY, and am living a totally different life, alone, than I had been 400 days ago.. and that I had for 42 years.

The ONLY thing that was the same about my life in that time.. was this forum. And.. when Jeff found me Jim Gardner to watch online. Sometimes, believe it or not, I just visit quietly, and read old stories I wrote, or posts people make. I've been here almost 11 years.. so.. good, bad,. indifferent, I'd say.. mixed.. I have a lot of history here, and it isnt easy to just turn my back on that suddenly, when so much else in my life has changed.

I stayed for several reasons. I felt I had friends here, appreciated the support I got during my mom's illness and death, and also still hold the same interests in tickling and feet that many forum members have.

I felt my life had changed so much, that I didnt want to leave, in spite of all the problems I'm having here.

There will probably come a point, once things fall into place, that I either will leave for a while.. or if not formally leave, be on here a lot less.

I've already said that I'm not going to post any more personal info on the main forum, and such. That's a promise I have to keep, more to myself than anything else. I do a better job of protecting myself in real life by not leaving myself open to attacks, by staying away from troublesome people and situations, than I have done on here.

I have no friggin idea if what I just posted will explain it, but if anyone actually looks at what I've been through the last thirteen and a half months, maybe they can at least begin to understand.

I also dont want to post some angry rant like I did in the summer of 2011, saying "I'm fed up with this shit, I'm, leaving", and then be back on 24 hours later. Such would be stupid, and look not credible

If I do leave for a time, I would want to do so at a time I felt was right. I would either do so quietly, or if I did announce it, would follow through with it, and really stay off of here.

 

[ChosenofMystra]

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

I see huge blocks of text.
The name "Mitch" a lot.
Something about biting.
Too much of:
🙁🙁

But mostly:

 

[Mitchell]

Aimee, your feeling about me is mutual, trust me. As I said before, your behavior is about the most uncivilized I've encountered on this forum. That is what is most ."crazy"

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

Aimee, your feeling about me is mutual, trust me. As I said before, your behavior is about the most uncivilized I've encountered on this forum. That is what is most ."crazy"

You love the attention.
It's okay. I'm an attention ***** too.

 

[Mitchell]

Aimee, if you think I "love this", then you're as "crazy", as you claim I am. What I am hoping is that this thread will die soon, but I dont see that happening.

 

[Wolf]

Aimee, if you think I "love this", then you're as "crazy", as you claim I am. What I am hoping is that this thread will die soon, but I dont see that happening.

Well, it WON'T, if YOU KEEP POSTING IN IT!!!!

 

[Bothersome]

I see huge blocks of text.
The name "Mitch" a lot.
Something about biting.
Too much of:
🙁🙁

But mostly:

I'm stealing this picture.

 

[♡AimLEE♡]

Aimee, if you think I "love this", then you're as "crazy", as you claim I am. What I am hoping is that this thread will die soon, but I dont see that happening.

 

[chicago]

When posts make even me sick, you know it's gone to a whole other level of fucked up.

I warned ya, Mitch.

 

[Comfort Eagle]

I'm pretty sure I can get banned on sight for saying this, but I have to know...



Mitch do you have autism? I'm not trying to be funny, I literally cannot figure out why you do what you do and have done for years, and that's the closest I can come up with.

 

[kis123]

I'm pretty sure I can get banned on sight for saying this, but I have to know...



Mitch do you have autism? I'm not trying to be funny, I literally cannot figure out why you do what you do and have done for years, and that's the closest I can come up with.

I can't answer for Mitch, but my son is an adult autistic and even he knows when he's crossed the line.

Mitch, I'm not sure what motivated you to do this, but it's going way off the track and it's turning into yet again one of "those" threads. Just stop and let it die.......go find something productive to do with your time and stop keeping this shit going.

Jeff warned you and I was hoping he would be wrong......unfortunately he isn't....

 

[Mitchell]

I saw the post, and no, I dont have autism, to answer the question. I make bad decisions at times.

I actually have been doing productive things, but I'm not going to post that.

 

[kis123]

I saw the post, and no, I dont have autism, to answer the question. I make bad decisions at times.

I actually have been doing productive things, but I'm not going to post that.

Why not??

You have no problem posting the negativity, so why not post something positive?

Or are your opponents correct??

Yes, this is a challenge Mitch......remember you opened the door......

 

[Mitchell]

Okay, kis, just for you, because I know you are sincere.

I've been doing a lot of research for my new business. A business that has been incorporated with a name, which I wont post. I have been researching costs of products, products to sell, marketing costs, as well as coming up with a business plan. I know what I'm going to do with that business plan, but, I'm not going to post that until I discuss it with the appropriate parties. Only my dad and I know the specifics.

Hope that answers your question.

 

[Leo tickles]

I'm probably going to take a lot of heat for posting this in the main forum, but considering that my intended post hasnt been well received, my feeling is almost whatever.

To those who tell me to "Leave". It isnt so easy.. To those who wonder why I havent left for a while. How about some reasons.

Ummm. did any of you stop to think that NOTHING about my life is the same as it was.. 400 days ago, which is exactly the time I found out my mom was going to die.

In that time, I've.. watched my mom suffer her fatal illness, die.. reconciled with relatives who werent nice to me, met my father's wife, broken it off again with relatives who were still acting uncivil, moved to NY, and am living a totally different life, alone, than I had been 400 days ago.. and that I had for 42 years.

The ONLY thing that was the same about my life in that time.. was this forum. And.. when Jeff found me Jim Gardner to watch online. Sometimes, believe it or not, I just visit quietly, and read old stories I wrote, or posts people make. I've been here almost 11 years.. so.. good, bad,. indifferent, I'd say.. mixed.. I have a lot of history here, and it isnt easy to just turn my back on that suddenly, when so much else in my life has changed.

I stayed for several reasons. I felt I had friends here, appreciated the support I got during my mom's illness and death, and also still hold the same interests in tickling and feet that many forum members have.

I felt my life had changed so much, that I didnt want to leave, in spite of all the problems I'm having here.

There will probably come a point, once things fall into place, that I either will leave for a while.. or if not formally leave, be on here a lot less.

I've already said that I'm not going to post any more personal info on the main forum, and such. That's a promise I have to keep, more to myself than anything else. I do a better job of protecting myself in real life by not leaving myself open to attacks, by staying away from troublesome people and situations, than I have done on here.

I have no friggin idea if what I just posted will explain it, but if anyone actually looks at what I've been through the last thirteen and a half months, maybe they can at least begin to understand.

I also dont want to post some angry rant like I did in the summer of 2011, saying "I'm fed up with this shit, I'm, leaving", and then be back on 24 hours later. Such would be stupid, and look not credible

If I do leave for a time, I would want to do so at a time I felt was right. I would either do so quietly, or if I did announce it, would follow through with it, and really stay off of here.

Look at that red text. Then look above it. See what you just did there?