Are heavy women more into tickling then thin women?

[BlackmoonDoll]

Well, like I said, it's just something I've noticed over time. This is especially true with female lers. As a male lee, I'm generally on the prowl for girls who like to tickle, and I've noticed that it's much easier to get black girls to talk about tickling. There have been a number of times when I've found a way to get tickling into a conversation with a black girl and she'll start telling me all about how she loves to tickle her boyfriend or whatever. White girls just tend to be more uneasy about the whole subject.

yeah i would agree. that white girls do tend to be uneasy and put off by the whole tickling idea and topic. why? i don't know! that is just something that i have noticed as well. even online i have more white girls tend to ignore you and are just down right rude to you when you bring of the topic and discussion of tickling to there attention.

 

[kis123]

Yes it is. But your statement gave the implication that you thought I was saying this is the way it is with all bigger women. Your words implied that you were 'setting me straight'. I was giving a general opinion. I'm probably making too mch of it, I just don't like it when people take things I say as something very different than the way I intended.

If I thought you were trying to be insulting, I would've simply said so. I don't like playing head games with people and I don't tend to mince words. If I felt insulted, I just would've came out with it. I don't want to turn this into an issue. You're free to post as you like, just as anyone on this forum is free to comment on it and the mods are free to delete what they deem is necessary.

I've made several posts on this board and unintentionally got into issues. This isn't like that at all. You gave an opinion, I gave mine. That's it and that's all it should be.

 

[kis123]

Well, like I said, it's just something I've noticed over time. This is especially true with female lers. As a male lee, I'm generally on the prowl for girls who like to tickle, and I've noticed that it's much easier to get black girls to talk about tickling. There have been a number of times when I've found a way to get tickling into a conversation with a black girl and she'll start telling me all about how she loves to tickle her boyfriend or whatever. White girls just tend to be more uneasy about the whole subject.

Being big and a black female, your theory seems to have some validity!!😀

 

[TummyDragon]

You know, come to think of it, I had two very close female friends back in high school who were of African descent. Neither one had the least bit of a hang up with tickling in the least. Either one would talk about it without hesitation, or even dive into a tickle fight with me (or anyone else) at any time. The same held true for another friend I had in college. She was a lee/ler to the core for sure, though at that time, I didn't really see tickling as a fetish, but in retrospect, I wouldn't be the lease bit surprised if all three of them derived intense pleasure from tickling even if not full blown fetishists. Of course, three ladies doesn't make a statistical sampling, but, it's interesting to think about for sure. I wish I knew how to contact them now to invite them to the TMF! lol..

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

again TummyDragon quit interesting. you think that it would be just the oppset though that White girls would way more into tickling and upfront about it more so then Black girls. i mean not to bring any Racist undertones to this thread or anything! but you just think that thats the way it would be. you know?

 

[kis123]

again TummyDragon quit interesting. you think that it would be just the oppset though that White girls would way more into tickling and upfront about it more so then Black girls. i mean not to bring any Racist undertones to this thread or anything! but you just think that thats the way it would be. you know?

I don't think you're making a racist statement at all. Actually, this is becoming quite fascinating. I have a sister (on dad's side of course) who introduced me to tickling when we were kids. She had a real high drive (if you know what I mean) and she went for the boys when w
e turned teenagers. It left me kinda high and dry except a few occassional sneak tickles.

Being a bigger girl and extremely shy (whodathunkit?) I just hid in my tickle closet and went with the vanilla norms for many years. After I met another closet ticklephile eight years ago, it was off to the races for me!!! I simply will not get involved with anyone who does not understand my love of tickling. Especially since I'm on the ler side-he has to be willing to be my tickle slave for a very long time. I will occassionally take one for the team and be the lee, but I love making people laugh, and let's face it, I'm somewhat of a control freak.

Please folks, carry on! I'm just enjoying the heck out of this thread!! Don't let me interrupt!

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

I don't think you're making a racist statement at all. Actually, this is becoming quite fascinating. I have a sister (on dad's side of course) who introduced me to tickling when we were kids. She had a real high drive (if you know what I mean) and she went for the boys when w
e turned teenagers. It left me kinda high and dry except a few occassional sneak tickles.

Being a bigger girl and extremely shy (whodathunkit?) I just hid in my tickle closet and went with the vanilla norms for many years. After I met another closet ticklephile eight years ago, it was off to the races for me!!! I simply will not get involved with anyone who does not understand my love of tickling. Especially since I'm on the ler side-he has to be willing to be my tickle slave for a very long time. I will occassionally take one for the team and be the lee, but I love making people laugh, and let's face it, I'm somewhat of a control freak.

Please folks, carry on! I'm just enjoying the heck out of this thread!! Don't let me interrupt!

I'm was quit shy as well. well who am i kidding i still am shy to this day! always have been. But i never really got tickled much or got to tickle people as much as when i got older and into my (20's) i'm 20 years old right now. so i never was tickled as a kid that much rarely ever if i remeber correctly 🙁 . But i just feel so passionate about tickling its my love and my drive. and to this point in my life i'm not getting to tickle anybody in real life and have them tickle me as well. Because it comes down to my shy factor again its always been that! so in a way it kinda hurts and is sad. Because i'm not able live out my love for tickling and my fantasies with it

 

[ticklkitten]

Yeah, I don't think there is a huge correlation here between weight and tickle fetish or not. I'm almost 5'5" and somewhere around 140 lbs... so I'm really neither. But most guys like my curves, and then there are some who only like tall thin girls, and then there are guys who like bigger woman. Like everything else, opinions varies. Maybe bbw are more open about it because there is so much fun pinching involved and they have something to pinch! LOL! They know they have something men want. Who knows?

Just my opinion,

 

[metroguy2k4]

Perhaps kis and others can give their opinions on this as well, but in addition to showing a greater interest in tickling, black women tend to be better lers. I remember this one time at my old job a coworker of mine, a black female with very long nails, unintentionally tickled me (and yes, I'm 99 percent sure it was unintentional). Basically, she brushed past me and her nails ran across my chest and a shirt button was undone and she hit bare skin. I literally yelped as the electric feeling went through my body! I know this is only one instance --- hardly a scientific sample --- but it all seems to come together quite nicely.

And yes, for you curious folks, after that I was always hoping she'd tickle me again for real, but she never did 😡 But man, if black girls are THAT good at tickling, to be tied down and tickled by one or more would be some intense experience! 😱

 

[kis123]

Yeah, I don't think there is a huge correlation here between weight and tickle fetish or not. I'm almost 5'5" and somewhere around 140 lbs... so I'm really neither. But most guys like my curves, and then there are some who only like tall thin girls, and then there are guys who like bigger woman. Like everything else, opinions varies. Maybe bbw are more open about it because there is so much fun pinching involved and they have something to pinch! LOL! They know they have something men want. Who knows?

Just my opinion,

At 5'5", and 140, you're a pretty good size. You're not too thin and not too big! I remember the day my size was about the same. If you lived in the 1970s, Twiggy was the national icon. My size (since age 13-17) was about the same. I was considered fat and unattractive (can you imagine that???). But that height and weight are actually healthy sizes for me. I wish I could be that slim. But enough about me....

Us bigger folks are more of a challenge. We can be conquered, but who's going to drop the gauntlet?? Some of us have lived long enough to determine what side of the fence to be on (ler or lee). These guys on this forum are starting to realize that they have to change their way of thinking if they expect to get their fingers on anyone!! Bigger is beautiful and more acceptable in today's society. It's not like they're looking to get married or something...

 

[TummyDragon]

...Especially since I'm on the ler side-he has to be willing to be my tickle slave for a very long time. I will occassionally take one for the team and be the lee, but I love making people laugh, and let's face it, I'm somewhat of a control freak.

LoL, I tell you what, Kis, I'll personally volunteer to be your tickle slave for as long as you can dish it out... on the condition that you "take one for the team" and let me have at that ticklish skin of yours for a very.... very..... VERY.. long time! 😎 😉

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

i don't think a persons skin color effects how good at being a Tickler they are or not. it personally just comes down to the skills they have at Tickling. weather thier black,white,mexican etc. it just again comes down to tickling and how skillful they are out at it and how much practice and expericance they have had with it. Not what color a persons skin tone is (that should NOT effect or even be a factor as to how well they are at being a Tickler and tickling someone to making them start laugh out loud)

 

[ticklkitten]

At 5'5", and 140, you're a pretty good size. You're not too thin and not too big!

Thanks kis! I think I am a healthy weight for my height and build, it works for me. Yeah, I don't make myself much of a challenge when I've been tickled. I'd rather be a lee. I pretty much let my tickler have his way! Of course, I fight like mad when he hits a really good spot but that is all part of the fun. In order for me to be a ler, there has to be restraints involved! But there is nothing wrong with restraints...

 

[TummyDragon]

i don't think a persons skin color effects how good at being a Tickler they are or not. it personally just comes down to the skills they have at Tickling. weather thier black,white,mexican etc. it just again comes down to tickling and how skillful they are out at it and how much practice and expericance they have had with it. Not what color a persons skin tone is (that should NOT effect or even be a factor as to how well they are at being a Tickler and tickling someone to making them start laugh out loud)

It's not the skin color that would make a difference.. it would be more of a cultural influence if a difference truly exists at all. I'm willing to entertain thoughts along this avenue because it would seem that tickling and ticklish reactions are learned behaviors. Take the Japanese for instance. It seems that the most common reaction to a tickling a Japanese woman (actually born and raised in Japan) is that of a sputtering moan. The ticklish laughter just isn't the same. Now take an oriental woman from the Phillipines. The ticklish response is a loud, screaming belly laugh from deep inside. It would appear that the response to tickling is learned differently within specific cultures.

The women I mentioned earlier in this thread had the screaming belly laugh response, but, think about this... perhaps there cultural differences between white and black american females which *could* (not necessarily does) create more of an openness to touch, tickling, etc, in black females where the white culture is more anal retentive to touch. I realize this is a huge, sweeping generality, but if there is really a difference, this culture angle is where it would be found. Just a thought.

 

[BlackmoonDoll]

It's not the skin color that would make a difference.. it would more of a cultural influence if a difference truly exists at all. I'm willing to entertain thoughts along this avenue because it would seem that tickling and ticklish reactions are a learned behavior. Take the Japanese for instance. It seems that the most common reaction to a tickling a Japanese woman (actually born and raised in Japan) is that of a sputtering moan. The ticklish laughter just isn't the same. Now take an oriental woman from the Phillipines. The ticklish response is a loud, screaming belly laugh from deep inside. It would appear that the response to tickling is learned differently within specific cultures.

The women I mentioned earlier in this thread had the screaming belly laugh response, but, think about this... perhaps there cultural differences between white and black american females which *could* (not necessarily does) create more of an openness to touch, tickling, etc, where the white culture is more anal retentive to touch. I realize this is a huge, sweeping generality, but if there is really a difference, this culture angle is where it would be found. Just a thought.

you think way too Much Dragon!!! 😛

you need to get out more and see the Sun light

lmao

 

[kis123]

I am an African American (excuse the political correctness) female who enjoys giving tickling pleasure across all genres; race, religion, male, female, and everything else inbetween..........I'll tickle them all with great pleasure!!!

 

[Neutron]

Ignorant Question

Tron

 

[BBWticklee1973]

Re: Ignorant Question

Originally posted by Neutron
Ignorant Question

AMEN to that!! Took the thoughts right out of my head.

 

[ticklemad]

Well one thing I've learnt being a very ticklish BBW is that I need to move from the UK to the USA, you guys are much more welcoming and open to us BBW's than the Brits. Soon as I mention size to a Brit they go running. Their loss I say.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I was 5'10 and 135 pounds when I graduated from high school and hella ticklish. Loved it to death, and wasn't shy about it at all. (Mainly because I didn't see anything wrong with it.)

When I got to college, that was when I realized that I loved it WAY more than anyone else, and that was VERY awkward for me. It was also when I started gaining weight (in spite of the 4 hours of basketball I was playing a day. COLLEGE FOOD!)

The weight gain didn't change how I felt about tickling at all, as I am sure that weight loss wouldn't either. (Nor did it change the amount of attention I was getting.) Leaving college and entering the real professional world did that. You can't very well roll all over the floor laughing at your job without being looked at strangely.

I don't believe for a minute that race is a factor in tickling. Simply, it is not. It's a case by case thing with each person. As far as weight and ticklishness.... That I cannot clearly answer. Weight may or may not play a part. I need more scientific evidence.

Where's my NEXT victim?

😛

Sunriseticklee

 

[Iggy pop]

I don't think this question is totally ridiculous, and I've heard many theories about it.

One: We have just become bigger, heavier, and fatter as a population in general. I'm sure there are a high percentage of heavy guys here. Although they rarely identify themselves as BBMs.

Two: Thinner more petite girls are afraid of attracting too much attention. They are more prone to dangerous situations, and they choose to lurk in the background for safety reasons. Bigger women, on the otherhand, often feel more confident that they can handle themselves in dangerous situations and are less afraid to make their presense known.

Three: Thinner and younger women have more men than they can deal with and do not have to come to a fetish forum to get attention. We've heard from several larger women that they still get plenty of male attention. Bella even stated that larger women even receive the most attention at fetish parties and that this scares off a lot of thinner women. From my own expierence at bars and clubs, however, it is generally the thinner girls that get the most attention. Even here, it is the pics of the thinner girls that get the most comments, and the pics that have been proved fakes are those of thinner girls. So thin girls get a lot attention. Just look at Princess Ashleys thread.

So what's the truth? Honestly, I don't know. Maybe none of these are completely true, and maybe there is a little bit of truth in all of these theories.

 

[suprticklishgrl]

heh. hiya folks.

you all make great points. so why is this still an issue? it sounds like the size of the lee doesn't really matter. and if both lees and lers are happy with that, then hey, its a happy world. 😀

since this is coming right after iggy's post, i might as well comment on it. interesting theories. i agree with #1 and #2, although i'm pretty sure i could handle myself and anyone else who poses a threat in a dangerous situation. but just in case, you're right, we do shy away from certain circumstances. why else do i always put up my long scary profile in the chatroom lol. for #3, unless you take a poll of heights and weights and experiences and all that, you can't know for sure who gets the most attention. and thin girls ARE here. maybe it just depends on how EASILY she's willing to be tickled or not...

you want a piece of truth? i swear i'll never put up my picture in the members pics area. 😛 so you're theories are mostly dead on. and same to everyone else who's posted. 🙂

 

[kyle]

Out of all the girls I know none are involved in any social activity on the internet that goes beyound IM stuff, at least to my knowledge. So I believe girls aren't really involved in forums like this as much. This is all I know from my experience.

Heavy girls don't get as much attention. Everyone knows it. Now a heavy girl can come on here where the supply of females is not big and get attention.

An attractive girl would have the confidence and manage to satisfy her fetish without having to turn to the internet.

I think heavy girls come on here because they can get attention. I don't think it's a TMF thing either. You would probably find similar weight demographcis if you searched other places.

 

[ticklemad]

Bigger women, on the otherhand, often feel more confident that they can handle themselves in dangerous situations

Being a BBW I have to say from personal experience I disagree entirely.

And Kyle I also disagree that Big Women can come on here and get attention - soon as I mention my size to a bloke on here they do a runner or on some occasions I will even get an abusive private message sent to me. The understanding people seem to come from the USA when it comes down to size - they certainly seem much less prejudiced and appreciate a girls ticklish regardless of her size and that personality is much more than the size of her tits, dress size and length of her legs and colour of hair.

Men are entitled to have preferences as we all are but when they moan about women being thin on the ground it always puzles me why they seek out perfection so much, especially when I doubt very much they are able to offer the same in return.

 

[hiram]

Tickling the big girls

I always thought it takes boundless patience for a deathly ticklish woman to marry a guy with a tickle fetish. Shortly after the Enlightenment I married this petite and slender lass who is deathly ticklish. When she became a mom something changed in her metabolism so that she became a petite lass of the curve. With each child she became curvier...is that a word?

Since before we were married she has tried so hard to escape her ticklings. Sometimes she senses my mood before I attack and runs away. She always has, and still does, even though she is now over 50. When it involves tickling, she has a number of "No fairs!" My favorite of these is when I'm chasing her and she is screaming "NO FAIR!" and she means it! I used to ask what was no fair and she said it isn't fair to chase her when she's too fat. Did that ever add to the tease! I made sure not to catch her right away, so we have had chases up and down the stairs and all through the house.

What is there to do with a woman who orders her tickler husband to leave her alone but sometimes simply dares him to tickle her?

Our kids have scattered to the four winds, and we go to visit them from time to time. Over the years we have settled on one hotel chain that has consistently provided favorite floor plan for its suites. All the suites have had at least 3 rooms and some have a large kitchen with in island in the middle of the kitchen floor.

A couple of weeks ago we were visiting one of the kids in a far off state and stayed at one of these hotels. The first evening we were just resting at the hotel. I was laying on the bed reading a book, and the wife came after her shower and sat at my side of the bed so I could look at her from the back and her side. She was wearing nothing and leaned forward to get her nightie from her suit case. Needless to say I stopped reading so I could watch her get ready for bed. As I said, these days she's a woman of the curve. She's quite broad at the hips, yet has a truly female waist. Her sides and tummy do that marvelous thing that women show when she turns or bends one way or another.

As she was playing with her nightie, she noted in the mirror how I was looking at her. Then, now get this! She reached over and scratched one of her nails over the sole of one of my feet and giggled when I jumped. Can you believe it! I started up. You can't believe how fast a woman of the curve can jump for herself. And she ran out of the bed room through the living room into the kitchen with me after her. She alternated between "I was only kidding!" and "No fair!" Watching her run that way was the sexiest thing anyone ever saw or hoped to see.

I chased her back to the bed room and took her down on the bed and pinned her arms over her head. Women with large ticklish breasts can't be resisted. I tickled her breasts and ribs and armpits for the longest time. She screamed she couldn't breathe, and whenever she managed to beg for mercy I would simply wriggle a finger into her most ticklish spots just to watch what she did.

There is little more fun than tickling a big girl and exploring for ribs and running your fingers over each one faster and faster when you find it.

I guess the tickling is the thing more than the size, but I will surely never complain that this ticklish woman became curvaceous.