Are you open about your tickling fetish?

[Susie]

Semi-open here. Friends don't know, family has an inkling that I like to tickle, since I was "busted" on several occasions when I was a kid, but not necessarily that it is sexual.

I tell all the girls I'd like to be in relationships with, since their responses are very important -- almost a deal-breaker if the answer comes back negative. By doing so, I've had two girlfriends be really into it, several who were so-and-so, and only one who was anti-tickling and feet. So, for those out there who haven't spilled the beans to their partners, you're really missing out!! Heck, if they are repulsed by it, do you really want to be with them at all?

Dave

Correctomundo Dave. I mean its not as if its some filthy nasty physical activity, its STIMULATION of the body and that's what sex is all about too NO????
Hugs
Susie

 

[Ivanho22]

I hear ya

Semi-open here. Friends don't know, family has an inkling that I like to tickle, since I was "busted" on several occasions when I was a kid, but not necessarily that it is sexual.

I tell all the girls I'd like to be in relationships with, since their responses are very important -- almost a deal-breaker if the answer comes back negative. By doing so, I've had two girlfriends be really into it, several who were so-and-so, and only one who was anti-tickling and feet. So, for those out there who haven't spilled the beans to their partners, you're really missing out!! Heck, if they are repulsed by it, do you really want to be with them at all?

Dave

same here, my girlfirend is the only person I really want knowing and it's worth it cuz I can tickle her and it will affect her even if she's not that ticklish but I just recently found out that I'm a pretty good ticklee too and she likes tickling me just as well cuz she knows it turns me on. Here's a plus, she just grew some nails that feel awsome when she rakes them lightly over my skin. You really should tell your girl about your fetish people, it might just bring something out in them that they didn't know they had 😎

 

[miss_nylons]

I'm not open too much because I'm pretty shy about that.

 

[candyfloss]

I feel the same like you miss nylons, but I think, that a fetish is nothing you have to tell the whole world. It's an intimate thing which I would only tell my very best friend and my boyfriend or girlfriend. So far I've been to shy to be open about my fetish in my last relationships but I think next time I will talk about it with my boyfriend or girlfirend 🙂

 

[darktick]

I'm not open, I only told to the closest friend of mine and one of my ex-girlfriends. That's all. They both accepted it easily but I knew that they would do so.

 

[Yersinia]

To speak candidly, I am very secretive about this tendancy of mine. If you are dating me you will find out about it, but I only share it with very close friends, and never with family. Noone who knows me except my one and only ex would ever guess that I am on this forum.

 

[Ivanho22]

Agree

I feel the same like you miss nylons, but I think, that a fetish is nothing you have to tell the whole world. It's an intimate thing which I would only tell my very best friend and my boyfriend or girlfriend. So far I've been to shy to be open about my fetish in my last relationships but I think next time I will talk about it with my boyfriend or girlfirend 🙂

I totally agree with that, corse not even my best friend knows that I come here or any other tickling site. The only one that knows about me and my fetish are my girl friend and an X of mine. My mom embarassingly enough sort of knows but then again she tends to turn her head at anything strange that i do.

 

[Neutron]

Totally Open

Anyway else is immature and dishonest.

 

[LonelyKimiko]

See I thought it was because I'm shy, and don't want to be ridiculed, possibly because I don't want my private things being spread among people I know...
But sure, immature and dishonest works too I guess... >_< .

 

[Sockstickler]

See I thought it was because I'm shy, and don't want to be ridiculed, possibly because I don't want my private things being spread among people I know...
But sure, immature and dishonest works too I guess... >_< .

Shy? Probably. Immature and dishonest? Naaaaah. 🙂

 

[LonelyKimiko]

*goes back to drawing on the walls with crayons*

 

[LonelyKimiko]

I'm meeeeelting! XD

 

[Sockstickler]

I'm meeeeelting! XD

*Gathers up melted Kimiko and puts the meltings back into a Kimiko-shaped mold.*

 

[MistressValerie1]

In Western culture it is common courtesy, not "immature and dishonest," to avoid discussing one's sexual habits with acquaintances, because sexual topics, especially regarding unconventional practices, make many people feel uncomfortable. I consider it good manners to spare my non-fetish friends the details of how I sexually stimulate my husband, just as I expect them to spare me the details of how they "get off."

 

[Morpheus72]

**Shakes Head**

Anyway else is immature and dishonest.

Discretion does not indicate dishonesty.
Discomfort about one's own beliefs does not indicate immaturity.

But hey, it's your opinion. My opinion is that comments like this contribute to all those lurker-gals out there not wanting to talk to us males.

It's...well.....creepy.

Dave

 

[Sparkybdj1]

In Western culture it is common courtesy, not "immature and dishonest," to avoid discussing one's sexual habits with acquaintances, because sexual topics, especially regarding unconventional practices, make many people feel uncomfortable. I consider it good manners to spare my non-fetish friends the details of how I sexually stimulate my husband, just as I expect them to spare me the details of how they "get off."

good point Val, but even if one tickles without the sexual intent, i still think most ppl will keep it to themselves, except in a safe place such as here. again, just my opinion.

 

[ThaDonMakaveli]

no, I'm really not. and until now I havent even been much of a poster with like-minded folks like yourselves

 

[scrooem]

sig other very receptive, only discuss with other women.

 

[Bournemouthstu]

I am pretty much at a zen - like place....lol! Tickling is some peoples pet hate and I don't push it...I always state that I like it and leave it at that...sometimes things happen and it feels better that way.

 

[yami]

I was pretty damn open about my tickling fetish with my girlfriend when... well, yeah.

When we started doing it. (Blushes)

Heh, I guess it's cause I'm younger than most of you, but talking about sex is a lot harder than talking about tickling, IMO.

 

[DarkPoet]

That's kinda odd... I find it a lot harder to talk about tickling than sex. Then again, I don't have much of a sex drive, so there you go.

 

[DarthGrinn]

When it comes to tickling, I'm only open to my significant other; after all, she's the only one that really needs to know right? It's not like I'm goin around tickling dudes, or attacking every girl I meet 😛

However, I have casually mentioned my foot fetish whenever the topic of "what part of the chick do you like" is brought up amongst friends.

It's funny to see how the guys react; and I enjoy seeing their mental gears spinning when I ask em "why wouldn't you find feet attractive?" Most of them, after actually thinking about it, realize that they might be missing out on one of the most underrated parts of a woman's body 🙂

The girls I've talked with have some funny reactions, but they are generally more open minded. Generally, a lot of them are simply unaware of the possibility that their feet might be generating attention; and often neglect them (since most foot fetishists like to lurk). However, after a very openly discussing foot fetish, a lot of them actually start taking care of their feet; and even flaunting them 🙂

EDIT:

Btw my gf knows about my fetish 🙂 we both had that lil "tell me ur dark lil secret" discusison, and were both pleasently suprised with what we found out about eachother hehe. My gf knows I post here and I frequently direct her to the discussions I post in... fun stuff 🙂

 

[Ivanho22]

I was pretty damn open about my tickling fetish with my girlfriend when... well, yeah.

When we started doing it. (Blushes)

Heh, I guess it's cause I'm younger than most of you, but talking about sex is a lot harder than talking about tickling, IMO.

Nothing wrong with that at all, I find tickling to be a very sexual pleasure between me and my girlfriend when we have sex. She knows it turns me on and she dosen't mind me tickling her if i don't do it to long and it makes me happy making her laugh. In fact, i've introduced a ton of experiences to my girlfriend since we've started dating.

 

[yami]

Well, to tell the truth, me and my gal both lost virginity with each other, like, a couple of months ago.

I'm 18...

Well, I guess I find sex to be more taboo than tickling or something.

She accepted my fetish, as I accepted her furre fetish.

Yeah, sex is fun. (Especially if you're parents don't know about it at all! 😀)

 

[conehead180]

Not really. Just don't see any reason to point it out to anyone right now.