Are you open about your tickling fetish?

[-Kunoke-]

It's too bad so many people feel they need to keep it secret...but I guess some people have to. 🙂

All I know is that I'm glad I don't. It makes me think about all the things I'd be missing out on.

 

[DarkPoet]

Yea... like a lot of tickling. Some girls won't let you tickle them if they know you're into it. But so far, the majority of the girls I know have a ton of fun with it. Gotta love it.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Yea... like a lot of tickling. Some girls won't let you tickle them if they know you're into it. But so far, the majority of the girls I know have a ton of fun with it. Gotta love it.

Some won't, but many will. The girls that let me tickle them know I'm into it and enjoy being able to turn me on through something so simple.

I usually don't go through a week without having contact with feet at least a few times.

 

[Ivanho22]

Yea... like a lot of tickling. Some girls won't let you tickle them if they know you're into it. But so far, the majority of the girls I know have a ton of fun with it. Gotta love it.

lucky, the only ones that know about my fetish is my girlfirends cuz I've got no reason to tickle anyone else. My girlfriend now is ok with bondage and a little tickling but i've never really tortured her with it, it's more like a play thing for us.
other then that I don't really let out that I have a fetish to anyone cuz I don't want them feeling any different about me. My best friend dosent' even know

 

[-Kunoke-]

lucky, the only ones that know about my fetish is my girlfirends cuz I've got no reason to tickle anyone else. My girlfriend now is ok with bondage and a little tickling but i've never really tortured her with it, it's more like a play thing for us.
other then that I don't really let out that I have a fetish to anyone cuz I don't want them feeling any different about me. My best friend dosent' even know

Well if you're suggesting you don't want them thinking you're weird or psycho...I say let them feel how they feel. People who care don't matter, and people who matter don't care. I found out on my own through telling people about it, that I felt more confident about myself. I also found that nothing really changed, except girls letting me tickle them and play with their feet. It's not such a big deal really...everyone has their own "weird" little fetish, including anyone who knows about yours. 🙂 So far, everyone has told me that there's nothing wrong with it, and that there are thousands of fetishes out there that are 10 times more weird.

Some people just feel they can't share it with people, and I guess it's all a matter of the situation, and how the person feels. It isn't like I go around just telling people either. Only if the subject comes up. There's a difference between being open and sporting it like a trophy.

But anyway. Just thought I'd share how I felt about it.

 

[Killerk]

I don't know anyone in rl who I trust enough to tell. I had a bit of a tickle interest when I was a teen, and..to be honest...it almost got out when I was in school that I liked to tickle people! Actually, it did get out and I pretty much avoided everyone for a couple of years until they forgot about it! Since then, I've been very afraid to tell anyone about my fetish, in case the same thing happens again 🙁

 

[emsindahouse]

in all honesty Kunoke maybe u're just not as sensitive as some of us are.U know u probably more thick skinned is what I''m sayin is all. Have u ever recieved any negative feedback a girl about fetish? I have and I'ts very disturbing ........hohum oh well

 

[Michael514]

My fetish isn't something I run out and tell the world, but to be honest back in my youth I was embarressed about being confronted with it. Now when I get to touch, rub, get caught looking at ,or hopefully tickle a woman's foot I am not afraid to answer questions about my fetish. Maybe it's just me but I found that if I'm honest about it to a woman in question then if they have a similar fetish or are curious then it seems to clear the air. Thia approach doen't work all the time. But the few woman I have revealed my fetish to haven't treated me any different. I hope I didn't offend anyone or open a can of worms. Simply put I am not ashamed of my foot fantasies and fetish. If asked I will tell the truth and put the descision on them. THANX!

 

[theticklingmaster]

I am not open about it yet, but I think I will tell people once I graduate from college. It's not something I'm ashamed of at all, but I don't know of anyone around me who shares such interests.

 

[Michael514]

Good for you Lovethemaster22. Glad you're not ashamed of it. In my opinion, just like me, take it at your own pace. Thanx

 

[Sockstickler]

Well, if I'm called on it, or asked about it, then I'll admit it. It's nothing I'm going to just volunteer out of nowhere though.
That being said though, I think a couple of my friends have sort of guessed though, and my family may have picked up on it, though if they have, they've never asked me about it.

 

[oceanhead]

this question is kind of vague. open to whom? your partner? your friends?

my friends know about my kinks, as did my last partner (all too well, the poor baby. heehee).

 

[DarkPoet]

I don't want to give the misunderstanding that I advertise my sexuality. I certainly don't. But I also don't hide it. And amongst my friends, I am known to be a tickler. In fact, I've been dubbed 'The Tickle Midget' amongst my close friends. As Kunoke wisely said, those who care don't matter, and those who matter don't care. Or if they do care, it's generally in a good way. I have a close friend who does care because she positively LOVES to be tickled.

Even at my highschool, many girls would shrink away giggling if they saw me walking by because I would be likely to tickle them, but it was always in a friendly manner. I guess it depends on how confident you are about yourself as a whole to be able to be open about something like this.

 

[Tremere]

I'm an officer in the Air Force because I would love nothing more than to die for my country. I've rushed into burning buildings as a volunteer firefighter. I have no problem speaking in public, or batting with the bases loaded and two outs in the bottom of the ninth down by a run. I say that because having people find out I have this fetish is pretty much my biggest fear. All of my family and friends have this glorified image that I am this guy who always does the right thing, goes to church regularly and yet my dreams are of tickling girls, sometimes mercilessly and that bothers me. In no other aspect of my life am I cruel, in fact I have lots of female friends that say how nice I am. But increasingly I find myself dating less because I don't want to fight the urge to tickle them. Oh well, I'm rambling, sorry for the therapy session.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Even at my highschool, many girls would shrink away giggling if they saw me walking by because I would be likely to tickle them, but it was always in a friendly manner. I guess it depends on how confident you are about yourself as a whole to be able to be open about something like this.

Looking back, I wish I'd been more open about my love for tickling. I mean, not even so much the sexual part of it, but you understand. It's not like I advertise either. There's a line you gotta draw between open and advertisement.

But I get that a lot now. Sometimes all I have to do is LOOK at one of my friends a certain way and she'll curl into a ball and beg for me not to tickle her. 😛

 

[Rubyfruit1]

...Nobody knows.
Not my parents, not my siblings, not my useless ex-boyfriend...

 

[Cavum]

...Nobody knows.
Not my parents, not my siblings, not my useless ex-boyfriend...

Thats a shame!
You could have had alot of hours of tickling behind you 😉

Myself Im open about it. And for me it's been all positive.
All girls I know good know about my tickle and foot fetish.
They think it's cute 😛 They allways start ticklefights and
they also even send me footpics just to be nice! 😀
Could it be any better? 😀

 

[MRV112]

Well, I wanna talk about me! I was never open about my tickle fetish!
UNTIL YESTERDAY!
Well, I have a great gf, we love to do weird stuff together, in sex.
She's had no problem with being tied up and we have sex while the other is tied up. But I've never had the balls to tell her about my tickle fetish. I've never told ANYONE ELSE!
But well, I love her so much I decided to tell her somehow about it, cuz it was driving me insane, and well to be honest, she's always up to try new things.
Anyways long story short, after lotsa kicking myself and pushing myself, I told her about it. :happy:
well, she told me it's cute to see a big man like me have a childish fetish like this ! 😀 I was like :wooha: you don't change ur views about me plz ! she said no freaking way ! lol
Well she started to ask me questions about it like when did I find out I have this fetish and why and what did I do about it and stuff like that .... So I told her about everything!
And the most awesome part is : she, herself, offered me to be my ticklee ! Well def she's gonna have a lotta fun to tickle me, but when I asked her " Are u fuckin serious? u have no fetish and u wanna do it with me????" and she said :"I can't see why not! @ and I was making the happy dance you can imagine!
So she was the first one I've ever told about my fetish, and omfg! She accepted it and she wants to be my ticklee ! Isn't she amazing ?
and one other point, she asked me to tell her what imma do to her, like a lil story ... well i told her about everything mma do ... and she hates feet, like she really hates feet! and hates to be touched on the feet
But I told her about how much I love'em and love to tickle them and suck on her toes, and she said " well i'm tied up, helpless, can't do anything about it! " And the told me it sounds like fun even tho i hate feet ! :happy:
and then she asked " what would u do if i say stop?" i said " well if u're serious then i will! " lol silly me .... :cyclopes:
she said " well if u don't do anything to hurt me, then even if i say stop, don't stop! I like to play the lil innocent victim someimes!!! @ and I was crying from happiness ! lmao
Ok time to shup for me, just am sooooooooo excited about it wanted to share it with you ! She's hot, so if i could convince her to take clips and pics from our action, def imma poost them here !
Peace !

 

[Cavum]

Thats great dude! 😀 Congrats!!
More people should be open about theyre fetish.
It's when your open about if you acculy start experience stuff you like!
have fun dude! 😀

 

[highwing]

I'm fairly open about it. Most of the people I hang around with are fairly liberal and have odd interests themselves. My current girlfriend knows and she didn't have a fetish until she met me. Now she loves to have her feet played witth. It's an advantage if you know who to tell 😉

 

[Susie]

Congratulations you are an EXTREMELY lucky man.
What a Christmas you will have this year.

Hugs

Susie

 

[EuropeGirl1]

Well, i voted no.. I think one should be honest to the ones that share the tickling interest in life.. If the job, family, and friends can tolerate it also, then one should be open about it, but if that doesnt occur.. well, be honest to the ones that u tickle, or that tickles you!

Being open is not that easy, sometimes..

 

[Ivanho22]

relate

I can relate to mrv112
I've been into tickling since I was in grade school and the fetish just kept sticking until I got the brains to check it out on the web.
My present girlfriend was sort of jellous of me going to these sites but I explained to her about my fetish and she was sort of ok with it. About a year ago we were getting ready for bed and I was just laying there relaxing when she came up to me and asked me about the sites that I visited and wondered if I had any fantasys about tickling her. well I said HELL YEA, so I aranged for a setting for us to do this all. if you want to read the story I have it posted here in the forum, just go looking for my threads from my personal page and you'll find it, there aren't that many.
You can't blame a girl for curiosity even if she's not really into it. Now a days I don't try to tickle her to extreem but more of a play intimate thing, but we both get turned on through it so it works.
you got to relate, it's every guys dream for his girl to come up to him and ask him about his fantasys then follow through with it.

 

[JD1331]

I am very open about it. If I was to hide something from the world it wouldn't be that. So if anyone asks I am always happy to tell them.

It seems to work too. Once the girl who I really like was on the phone with me and while she was talking her brother came in and tied her up because he was annoyed with her. She laid on the floor ordering me to walk the ten odd miles to her house to untie which I told her I wouldnt do. When she got free (it took a little work, as he had hogtied her with a belt and a bedsheet) she went on a rampage about how she didn't like him leaving her like that. She then asked me what I would do to her if I had her like that and I told her straight out that I would gag her (she yelled in my ear) and then tickle her.

She said, word for word. "You tie me up and tickle me and it would be fun for you and torture for me. I tie you up and tickle you and it would be fun for me and torture for you... sounds like a win-win situation..."

I nearly fell off the bed. :wooha:

 

[shastatickle]

I 'm generally open about it but just with someone I've been involved with and trust. None of my friends really know.