Um...yeah.
Ah TIB,
How wonderful and uber-brave of you to chime in, you taboo-breakin' manly big time producer you!
No one said that you aren't entitled to your opinion. Your honesty about your feelings is a fine, fine quality indeed. But "m/m tickling is gay" is not an opinion. Gay is a state of being, one is or one isn't. Since many of us know several straight males that tickle other straight males and most definitely aren't gay, and people have stated here that they
*are* straight/straight male ticklers, your statement isn't an opinion, it's a falsehood, and one that's already been proven as such. You might as well say that Gary Coleman is tall and mexican in your opinion. He's, um...not. You're quite welcome to say it provided you don't mind the funny looks.
😕 . As I stated earlier, just as we know it's untrue that blacks aren't kinky because some of us are, we know it's untrue that m/m tickling is gay because of the straights who enjoy the proclivity.
Unless of course you're using the term 'gay' in the juvenile, derogatory sense, meaning 'weird' or 'strange'. That, while a tad narrow-minded and small, would certainly be an opinion.
Furthermore, nowhere did I read that the hunks we see dancing at clubs have no women around. In my experience, people get on the dance floor and switch partners a *lot*, and hot guys dancing in a cluster alone for a little while quickly end up with girls
surrounding them and then dancing with them. Those are usually the great dancers that just wanna dance to that really good song, and don't care who's in front of them (I get that way myself sometimes
😀 ) Heck, a few months ago I went out as the only chick with three very straight friends and we all four danced together with me in the middle, and when I went to the ladies room the boys just kept dancing. No one noticed, no one cared, as it was happening off and on all over the place in the crush of the dance floor. It's typical and no one blinks, which is why Mimi wondered what was so funny. But, feel free to laugh, no one would notice-the guys would be too busy dancing and the girls would be too busy watching the guys dance before joining them
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You're very entitled to an opinion. But an untruth will be called out
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Bella