Pretty Feet, Non-pretty face. What 2 Do?

[kis123]

If you're going to call someone "over-sensitive," you might want to refrain from displaying your lingering anguish over comments made in past threads. I'm reminded of a certain adage involving a pot and a kettle...




Are people not supposed to have or espouse personal preferences? Or perhaps they're not supposed to have personal preferences that YOU don't agree with? I'm sure you'd have no problem whatsoever with a man who announced that he would only date "larger" women. What a crock.

By the way, the above seems even more hypocritical in light of your previous post in this thread, in which you said:








I'm a tall man with a large frame. I'm sure people hate sitting next to me on planes, too... And I don't blame them one bit. I don't fit into those little seats, and consequently my shoulder winds up invading the personal space of whomever is unlucky enough to have the seat next to me. My knees also generally prevent the person in front of me from adjusting their seat to the "reclined" position. Certain people don't fit into those tiny little seats on airplanes, and it is uncomfortable to sit next to them. I fail to see your point in referencing this particular comment as some sort of egregious slander against large people...




Yes... However, had this thread been started by a woman about a man at her work, you would have seen the opposite.

Here's what I'm not willing (or going) to do

I'm not going to have a "who's dropping their pants first" contest with you.

I've made my points perfectly clear-the men on this forum are more judgemental on looks than the women. Sorry, the proof is in the posting!

I'm not going to have some sort of slug-fest with you either-we should be able to express without repress. Doesn't look like it from here-especially since I blatently pointed out that the men have the "looks" issues more so than the women

It would be better to agree to disagree at this point. But if you have a need to continue from here after I've clearly made my point, have at it.

Oh, and BTW, the thread was NOT started by a woman (once again proving my point), it was started by a man. Just deal with it and move on please.

Once again, let's just put this baby to bed.

 

[asutickler]

I've made my points perfectly clear-the men on this forum are more judgemental on looks than the women. Sorry, the proof is in the posting!

You have no point: Your biased mindset makes you more likely to remember judgmental comments made by men than judgmental comments made by women. Sorry, but you'll have to come up with something better.

I'm not going to have some sort of slug-fest with you either-we should be able to express without repress. Doesn't look like it from here-especially since I blatently pointed out that the men have the "looks" issues more so than the women

"Express without repress?" Is that why you bash any man who "expresses" an ideal of physical attractiveness that you disagree with? How hypocritical can you get?

And again: You've "blatently" pointed out nothing more than your own biased opinion.

It would be better to agree to disagree at this point. But if you have a need to continue from here after I've clearly made my point, have at it.

I can agree to disagree... But unless your "point" was that you have some sort of problem with men in general, you haven't made one yet.

Oh, and BTW, the thread was NOT started by a woman (once again proving my point), it was started by a man. Just deal with it and move on please.

In the sentence you're referring to, I said, "HAD this thread been started by a woman..." It should be fairly obvious that I was speaking theoretically.


If you still want to put the baby to bed, I'm game... 🙄

 

[kis123]

You have no point: Your biased mindset makes you more likely to remember judgmental comments made by men than judgmental comments made by women. Sorry, but you'll have to come up with something better.




"Express without repress?" Is that why you bash any man who "expresses" an ideal of physical attractiveness that you disagree with? How hypocritical can you get?

And again: You've "blatently" pointed out nothing more than your own biased opinion.




I can agree to disagree... But unless your "point" was that you have some sort of problem with men in general, you haven't made one yet.




In the sentence you're referring to, I said, "HAD this thread been started by a woman..." It should be fairly obvious that I was speaking theoretically.


If you still want to put the baby to bed, I'm game... 🙄

Your points are weak at the very best, but obviously you have the need to feel superior. I'm used to such behavior so I'll play...

You're right-I'm wrong

Whatever you said was perfect and I should bow before you

Anything I said previously you should just discard because you're special

And this thread was once again started by a MAN, not a woman, so I guess you should just deal with it and move on.

But if you have a problem with that (which is blatently obvious).....I guess you should continue posting and ignoring the obvious points I discussed earlier.

I tried the "agree to disagree" argument, but you have a need for something else. Good luck with that. You still can't dispute that the MEN in this forum are into looks than the women are.

Please put the baby to rest--this has gotten incredibly old. I'm still waiting for you to dispute the obvious. Try not to depict me as a bitter woman-that's far from the truth. I'm much better by not having to deal with the ones who made what they thought were good choices for them. I HAVE A REAL MAN who loves every bit of me so you can't place me in that category.

Let it go.....just let it go!

But you always have the option of continuing a miserable dialouge.

 

[amk714]

Interesting thread. I'll just say that no one should be judged by their looks alone, and that both men and women do it too often, regardless of what the percentage/ratio is of insensitive men and women.

On to what the thread is about. I had her over last night, early this morning & everything went well. I gave her a foot massage , which she thoroughly enjoyed. & of course we talked. I'm more attracted to her aura/personality/inner being now that the ice has been broken. All those who are interested I'll update you as time goes on. Peace

That's great, Tricham. I hope your relationship with her is a success. Peace. 🙂

P.S. Let's lighten up this thread a little. After seeing your pic, Tricham, I think I'd go for you if I were gay. There, that should do it.

 

[kis123]

Interesting thread. I'll just say that no one should be judged by their looks alone, and that both men and women do it too often, regardless of what the percentage/ratio is of insensitive men and women.

Unfortunately, that's the way things are. If someone isn't beautiful or a "hottie" they get thrown under the bus!

And someone like me isn't supposed to point it out or I'm met with the "bitter woman" bull sh**.

Sorry, but if I see it, I'll call it, plain and simple!

As far as tricham is concerned, I'm sure this is not what he intentioned when he started this thread. But that's just the nature of the internet-sometimes you never know..........

 

[Battousai]

I wouldn't touch this thread with a ten foot pole.

What a coincidence, I almost posted that exact sentance just before you, but decided not to. What are the odds?

I don't like turning things into a blame game or a 'which gender is more holy' battle. It might be true that there are more judgemental men than women here, but that does that prove? That all men are evil? It doesn't really change a thing, some people are still going to be judgemental, whatever gender they are.

I'm not saying that anyone here is accusing an entire gender of being judgemental, but since they're not, then why does it matter about percentages?

 

[asutickler]

Your points are weak at the very best, but obviously you have the need to feel superior. I'm used to such behavior so I'll play...

You're right-I'm wrong

Whatever you said was perfect and I should bow before you

Anything I said previously you should just discard because you're special

And this thread was once again started by a MAN, not a woman, so I guess you should just deal with it and move on.

But if you have a problem with that (which is blatently obvious).....I guess you should continue posting and ignoring the obvious points I discussed earlier.

I tried the "agree to disagree" argument, but you have a need for something else. Good luck with that. You still can't dispute that the MEN in this forum are into looks than the women are.

Please put the baby to rest--this has gotten incredibly old. I'm still waiting for you to dispute the obvious. Try not to depict me as a bitter woman-that's far from the truth. I'm much better by not having to deal with the ones who made what they thought were good choices for them. I HAVE A REAL MAN who loves every bit of me so you can't place me in that category.

Let it go.....just let it go!

But you always have the option of continuing a miserable dialouge.

I don't need to feel superior to anyone... You're pulling that notion out of your own over-active, sexist imagination. I only took up this argument with you because of your offensive comments in regards to men in general. You'll have to forgive me for being offended by bigotry.

My points are weak why, exactly? You're using your own opinions instead of facts, and your attitude towards men instead of actual reasoning or logic. Your emotional and acrimonious manner of debate makes me wonder if you actually know what a point IS.

If your comments reflect the way you really feel towards men, then I feel very, very sorry for you... I have no need to depict you as a "bitter woman." Anyone who reads your posts can form their own conclusion, so why would I bother trying to depict you as anything?

I've already said all that I can really say on the matter. Trying to make you understand what I mean and where I'm coming from is apparently a gigantic waste of time... Either because you're too emotionally attached to your viewpoint, or because I'm a man, or perhaps due to a combination of the two. Whatever the reason, I'm through trying to discuss this with you. Keep on bashing men all you want... In the long run, it makes no difference anyway.

Good night.

 

[isabeau]

wow o wow has this thread gotten out of hand. it started with a relatively simple question and did it ever explode. ok to him he needs a pretty face to date. so what? how do we know what constitutes a pretty face to him? everyone has different tastes , thank goodness, if everyone wanted everyone to look alike twould be a boring world. and as far as i can see, Tricham never mentioned large versus smaller women but i might be mistaken. he said he was going to see her and find out how things went. to me case is closed.

isabeau

 

[toneus79]

Women like me in America have no sense of humor

Well what can I say, other than agree.

 

[isabeau]

Well what can I say, other than agree.

i happen to think kis has a great sense of humour.

isabeau

 

[kis123]

I don't need to feel superior to anyone... You're pulling that notion out of your own over-active, sexist imagination. I only took up this argument with you because of your offensive comments in regards to men in general. You'll have to forgive me for being offended by bigotry.

My points are weak why, exactly? You're using your own opinions instead of facts, and your attitude towards men instead of actual reasoning or logic. Your emotional and acrimonious manner of debate makes me wonder if you actually know what a point IS.

If your comments reflect the way you really feel towards men, then I feel very, very sorry for you... I have no need to depict you as a "bitter woman." Anyone who reads your posts can form their own conclusion, so why would I bother trying to depict you as anything?

I've already said all that I can really say on the matter. Trying to make you understand what I mean and where I'm coming from is apparently a gigantic waste of time... Either because you're too emotionally attached to your viewpoint, or because I'm a man, or perhaps due to a combination of the two. Whatever the reason, I'm through trying to discuss this with you. Keep on bashing men all you want... In the long run, it makes no difference anyway.

Good night.

Blah, blah, and.........blah!

Now the old "emotional woman" defense! My goodness, if you're going to attempt to criticize me, at least present something a little more original! I'm proud of my natural innate tendency to be emotional. That's the way God (for those who believe) wired me. Maybe 20 years ago this could have been an issue, but now I could care less if a man calls me on it.

Same old rhetoric from a man who obviously has issues. When you can find something new to say, or better yet, disprove the fact that on this forum, the men are more judgemental of looks than women, give me a shout!

Otherwise, continue the drivel as usual. The baby has been put to bed and the horse you continue to beat has been dead for a very long time.

 

[kis123]

Well what can I say, other than agree.

Tell it to my man baby-he happens to think I have a great sense of humor along with several attributes that make him a very happy man!

Then again, who cares what you happen to think?

What is it, the weather, the food, or the bitter beer you guys drink in your country that makes you so critical?

 

[kis123]

i happen to think kis has a great sense of humour.

isabeau

Thanks Izzy!

They're just upset because they know I'm right about many (NOT ALL) of the men on this forum are more judgemental about a women's looks than the opposite.

I must reiterate-who started this thread in the first place, a male or female? No offense to tricham-I have no problem with him. At least he's honest about his opinions/feelings and dealt with the opposing opinions of other posters.

They just want to make their jokes and spew their venom without someone challenging them on it. Sorry, I don't roll that way baby!

If they can dish it out, they should expect to take it too.

 

[Avenger314]

*sighs* Kis and Isabeau, the content of your messages and your overall tone make me want to pin you both down and tickle you senseless.

Oh wait, I'm wrong--it's not the tone and message content that makes me want to tickle you, it's your gender and presence on the Tickling Media Forum. My bad 😀

 

[isabeau]

*sighs* Kis and Isabeau, the content of your messages and your overall tone make me want to pin you both down and tickle you senseless.

Oh wait, I'm wrong--it's not the tone and message content that makes me want to tickle you, it's your gender and presence on the Tickling Media Forum. My bad 😀

wellllllll thats the best offer i have had all day. go ahead and try lol

isabeau

 

[kis123]

*sighs* Kis and Isabeau, the content of your messages and your overall tone make me want to pin you both down and tickle you senseless.

Oh wait, I'm wrong--it's not the tone and message content that makes me want to tickle you, it's your gender and presence on the Tickling Media Forum. My bad 😀

Ah, somebody loves me! 😉

I really am an overall nice person. I get fed up with foolishness sometimes and the old claws come out. People are going to make their own assumptions of me and call names or whatever. I'm too old to care about what those that don't like me think! I ain't here for a popularity contest-I'm here to share my views on subject matter just like they are.

Now, I might even let you tickle me if I get to reciprocate......... 😉

 

[toneus79]

What is it, the bitter beer you guys drink in your country that makes you so critical?

Warm lager actually

 

[Vamp]

Fighting on the internet is so lame it hurts.

NOW HAVE SOME OF THIS!!: It is a well known, sad but true fact of life that men are more "judgemental" about looks. Except it's not a question of judgement, but biology. There's lots of old sayings like "men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears". Unfortunately we're animals and this stuff is deep within us. Thanfully, as Isabeau says, everyone has different tastes, meaning there's probably someone out there made for you...

 

[tricham]

I hope no ladies are angry with me

If you are, come to Manhattan, I'll give you a foot massage & make things all better

 

[Battousai]

Fighting on the internet is so lame it hurts.

NOW HAVE SOME OF THIS!!: It is a well known, sad but true fact of life that men are more "judgemental" about looks. Except it's not a question of judgement, but biology. There's lots of old sayings like "men fall in love with their eyes, women fall in love with their ears". Unfortunately we're animals and this stuff is deep within us. Thanfully, as Isabeau says, everyone has different tastes, meaning there's probably someone out there made for you...

Actually, biologically speaking, women are supposed to be the picky ones. Men are supposed to be able to mate with anything, get their seed out there, etc. Women on the other hand are the ones that, biologically speaking, are supposed to be thinking about which mate would provide the best genes for their children. The real world really doesn't work on pure biology anymore, though.

Thanks Izzy!

They're just upset because they know I'm right about many (NOT ALL) of the men on this forum are more judgemental about a women's looks than the opposite.

I must reiterate-who started this thread in the first place, a male or female? No offense to tricham-I have no problem with him. At least he's honest about his opinions/feelings and dealt with the opposing opinions of other posters.

They just want to make their jokes and spew their venom without someone challenging them on it. Sorry, I don't roll that way baby!

If they can dish it out, they should expect to take it too.

Now Kis, understand that I'm not arguing with you. I might even agree with you. Like I said before, sometimes I'm ashamed to be male, due to certain men who do act like that. But I ask again, even if you're right (hypothetically, since I don't know the facts/numbers for sure) and there are more judgemental men on this forum than women, what does that prove? It doesn't mean that either gender is always right, or one is worse than the other. In the long run it doesn't mean anything, you can't use it to judge either gender as a whole.

My point is, whoever's right, it doesn't really make a difference. It's just about who gets the last word. It'd be better for everyone to just stop arguing all together.

 

[venray]

On to what the thread is about. I had her over last night, early this morning & everything went well. I gave her a foot massage , which she thoroughly enjoyed. & of course we talked. I'm more attracted to her aura/personality/inner being now that the ice has been broken. All those who are interested I'll update you as time goes on. Peace

Perhaps start another thread to keep us posted as this one seems to have gotten way out of control and not obviously as intended......I for one am genuinely interested as it sounds like things went quite well for both of you.... 😎

Everyone needs to breath here for a second...(perhaps 2) and move on....

 

[kered]

A few years ago some genious got a government grant to study what turns out to be the meat of the last seven pages of posts. Know what he concluded after spending a few years an millions of our tax dollars? THAT MEN AND WOMMEN ARE DIFFERENT!!....no shit. This was fun but now lets have a group hug and celebrate this wonderful difference.Everyone is fantastic and ticklish in one way or another.

 

[steph]

Hee hee! That was cute honey...
XOXO

A few years ago some genious got a government grant to study what turns out to be the meat of the last seven pages of posts. Know what he concluded after spending a few years an millions of our tax dollars? THAT MEN AND WOMMEN ARE DIFFERENT!!....no shit. This was fun but now lets have a group hug and celebrate this wonderful difference.Everyone is fantastic and ticklish in one way or another.

 

[kered]

Steph called me honey!! I die happy!!!

 

[steph]

😀 😀 😀