saeria is gone

[Sammy Scales]

Hey Goth... You got a sticky!!! Yay!!!

Glad to hear Saeria is in a safe place... I hope she contacts you soon. Sounds like she has quite an understanding man to rely on during chaotic times. I hope things continue in a positive manner for you, her, and the little one... I'm keeping you in my thoughts! Maybe you should do some more Saeria themed photo-manips to give her when she returns... 😀

 

[Gothika]

Hey Goth... You got a sticky!!! Yay!!!

Glad to hear Saeria is in a safe place... I hope she contacts you soon. Sounds like she has quite an understanding man to rely on during chaotic times. I hope things continue in a positive manner for you, her, and the little one... I'm keeping you in my thoughts! Maybe you should do some more Saeria themed photo-manips to give her when she returns... 😀

thanks my friend and i am hoping and praying for the best i have thought of doing more stuff thanks and she has not contacted her friend in a while and she and i are worried i hope he aint got control over her again here is praying for the best

 

[Fangz]

Haven't come back to this since it got all sticky so to speak! So how ya holdin' up mein freund? Hope you've been hanging tough!!

 

[DimpleToes]

wow.. just read this.. SO sorry.. make sure to contact the authorities and just be there for her when she is ready to come home.. I am sure the ex has done a major mind f--- on her.
I am here if you need or want to talk/vent. you know how to reach me..

hugsssssssssss/Lisa

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Not sure why this didn't occur to me sooner. But, does she have a cell phone on her? If so, be sure that the authorities have the number. They may be able to use it to locate her.

 

[Marquis De Sade]

What about an Amber Alert? Sometimes they work.

 

[Gothika]

Haven't come back to this since it got all sticky so to speak! So how ya holdin' up mein freund? Hope you've been hanging tough!!

been working hard to be tough thanks

wow.. just read this.. SO sorry.. make sure to contact the authorities and just be there for her when she is ready to come home.. I am sure the ex has done a major mind f--- on her.
I am here if you need or want to talk/vent. you know how to reach me..

hugsssssssssss/Lisa

thanks

Not sure why this didn't occur to me sooner. But, does she have a cell phone on her? If so, be sure that the authorities have the number. They may be able to use it to locate her.

i was told she has a cell phone but have not been able to get the number i am hopiing she will give it to me so we can talk


ok searia just sent me an email and basicly told me that we are not a couple and canot be rignt now i am not mad about this and i told her i want to remain friends with her and keep in contact just waiting for her reply.i think her did mess with her mind tho and hopfully someday she relizes waht she truly wants in life and realized waht is goona make her happiest im still hoping she will at least call me thanks for everything everyone

 

[Carsomyr]

Well I'm glad that you got to hear from her Goth, but I'm extremely sad to hear what she had to say! 🙁 I'm still praying that this will have a happy ending when all is said and done.

Stay strong dude, and if you feel like you just need to talk to someone, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM.

 

[emilyemilyemily]

wait, did she say why she wanted to end it? that's kind of abrupt...

 

[venray]

Aw gee man..I was hoping it wasnt going to go this way....

Keep strong.... and tell her she still has friends she can talk to here if she feels the need...

 

[Gothika]

wait, did she say why she wanted to end it? that's kind of abrupt...

kinda but not realy she is just so confused rignt now and is not sure what she truly wants and is still trying to figure it out he has messed with her mind so much it aint funny she truly needs to be strong and not play his way anymore and to do waht she wants to do and i know she is doing this for her daugher cuz taht is what she wants i understand that but she also needs to focus on her self to and help her self before she gets in to something bad i still care for her and will be here for her always

Aw gee man..I was hoping it wasnt going to go this way....

Keep strong.... and tell her she still has friends she can talk to here if she feels the need...

thanks dude and sure will

 

[kurchatovium]

So sorry things turned out this way goth. 🙁 I was really praying hard they would turn out better. if you need to talk I am always here.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

Sorry to hear this...for both of you. I'll be continuing to pray for all involved that peace is found all the way around. If either of you needs to talk, you know where to find us.

 

[goddess_nemesis]

ok searia just sent me an email and basicly told me that we are not a couple and canot be rignt now i am not mad about this and i told her i want to remain friends with her and keep in contact just waiting for her reply.i think her did mess with her mind tho and hopfully someday she relizes waht she truly wants in life and realized waht is goona make her happiest im still hoping she will at least call me thanks for everything everyone

I'm sorry to hear this, man. I don't know you guys, but you seemed so perfect for each other. I hope she figures out sooner than later that you're the better man for her and not her asshole ex who will only manipulate her with mind games.

 

[fireguardian]

I am very sorry to hear it ended this way. Both of you still have our support.

 

[Gothika]

I am very sorry to hear it ended this way. Both of you still have our support.

thanks

 

[Gothika]

So sorry things turned out this way goth. 🙁 I was really praying hard they would turn out better. if you need to talk I am always here.

thanks i appricaite that a lot

Sorry to hear this...for both of you. I'll be continuing to pray for all involved that peace is found all the way around. If either of you needs to talk, you know where to find us.

thanks

I'm sorry to hear this, man. I don't know you guys, but you seemed so perfect for each other. I hope she figures out sooner than later that you're the better man for her and not her asshole ex who will only manipulate her with mind games.

ya hopfully some day she figures out she aitn goona have a good life with him she may have a house and not struggle but not goona have anything more then that she has goals in life and will do anything to get to them and she dont need anyone like that by her. i know her daugher is important to her and she is doing this for her but she also needs like she told me to look out for her self to and think of her self to she is desperate and scared and being manipulated she wants a house and not to have to struggle and i know he can give that to her but nothing more and she needs to relize that there are more important things in life and she can get her self a nice place and not struggle and also be with her daugher and if wants to also let her daughere see her father she needs to help her self to she is a strong indapendant woman and can do all that i know she is confused and wants things hopfully someday she realizes what she truly wants and does not do things out of desperation or fear no more thanks all

 

[xionking]

Fucking women...

 

[QBWeaver]

Goth... You're SO awesome! Part of what attracted her to you is just who you are... a loving, caring man.

Abusers do not change. I'm sure he's been apologetic again... just like last time, and the time before that... and way back. He'll show his true self again soon. When he does I hope she runs, not walks, as far away as she can. And from there hopefully she will come back to you where she and her daughter can be loved and life in a safe, happy environment.

It's very hard to step away from an abuser. They use all their charms to show how they won't ever do it again... but they do. I know... I lived it. It took me over a year to wake up and realize that all I wanted was peace back in my home and it wouldn't be there as long as he was in the house. When I "woke up" I moved out of my own house, that I owned, long enough for the abuser to move out. I never felt safe there though and for good reason it turned out. Once I moved away from there I finally felt safe.

I pray she won't be harmed but more than that I pray she seeks help now to help her see through his deceit and lies allowing her to break away from him and move on with living. If that brings her back to you.... that will be the icing on the cake. For right now she needs the time to learn and grow through this experience.

Time....just give her time. Be there for her in whatever way you can by supporting her decisions. As hard as it is to let go for now...it's truly the best thing for her. She needs to break out of the cucoon and spread her beautiful butterfly wings and learn to fly on her own for now.

All my best to you Goth! I'm praying for you and especially for Saeria.

 

[rhiannon]

Do I get this right that she only went back to him because he has a house and money???

 

[The Fallen Angel]

Do I get this right that she only went back to him because he has a house and money???

sounded that way to me as well, how sad

 

[kis123]

Whoa there......

Fucking women...

I'm sure you said this out of sheer frustration; I've stayed out of this thread publically for a reason. Now that it's pretty much concluded, I feel I can say some things. Not all women are bad people; I'm sure you've met some messed up ones; we all encounter them here and there throughout our dating/relationship lives. I've been involved with some men that would make you cringe; that's why I'm very selective who I spend my time with and usually stay to myself.

I'm sure everyone has their opinion about this situation so I'll give mine and only hope to be right. Sae is NOT a bad person regardless to whatever conclusions some of you may have come to. She has made some really bad decisions based on old conditioning and tons of other issues that were going on long before goth ever showed up. As much as women hate their abusers, it's FAMILIAR territory and they've come to accept it as reality. I've told several people that perception is reality to people. It doesn't matter what actual truth is; if one perceives something as reality, then it is.

I hear some of you saying that she did this over a house and money; trust me, it goes far deeper than that. That's just what she said to push goth away because she knows if she doesn't, he won't let go. Can't believe that she'd go through such extrememes, but it's just her coping mechanism so she can let go herself. No one other than saeria knows what's truly going on and until she makes it public, we'll never know. All of this defies logic, but when it comes to children, a mother will do some logically defiant things. As QB said, those abusers hold a ton of power; she's hearing the same old crap and expecting a different result. She'll learn on her own and will deal with that when it comes.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but at the end of the day it's between sae and goth as to what happens next. Right now she's gone and goth has to pick up the pieces of his life and move forward. Based on (several) personal experiences, it's hard as hell and it's really going to suck.

Goth, we've PMd about this on several occasions and I'll continue to be there should you need to talk. If it were me, I'd move forward, but never give up until that famous "fat lady" sings. From what I've been reading, she hasn't even had a warm-up.

 

[Seru]

gothfreakhell,

I'm new here, but I've read(and been following since I joined) this whole thread and my best wishes and condolances are with you, man. And I want you to know that in my first video(which should be uploaded tonight) I'll come on camera and personally dedicate the video to you. If there's anything you'd like to see in it let me know and I'll put it in.

Best wishes my friend, may God bless you and saeria.

Justin

 

[badreligion]

I'm sorry to hear about this Goth I hope things turn out ok .

 

[BlackestLily]

I'm sure you said this out of sheer frustration; I've stayed out of this thread publically for a reason. Now that it's pretty much concluded, I feel I can say some things. Not all women are bad people; I'm sure you've met some messed up ones; we all encounter them here and there throughout our dating/relationship lives. I've been involved with some men that would make you cringe; that's why I'm very selective who I spend my time with and usually stay to myself.

I'm sure everyone has their opinion about this situation so I'll give mine and only hope to be right. Sae is NOT a bad person regardless to whatever conclusions some of you may have come to. She has made some really bad decisions based on old conditioning and tons of other issues that were going on long before goth ever showed up. As much as women hate their abusers, it's FAMILIAR territory and they've come to accept it as reality. I've told several people that perception is reality to people. It doesn't matter what actual truth is; if one perceives something as reality, then it is.

I hear some of you saying that she did this over a house and money; trust me, it goes far deeper than that. That's just what she said to push goth away because she knows if she doesn't, he won't let go. Can't believe that she'd go through such extrememes, but it's just her coping mechanism so she can let go herself. No one other than saeria knows what's truly going on and until she makes it public, we'll never know. All of this defies logic, but when it comes to children, a mother will do some logically defiant things. As QB said, those abusers hold a ton of power; she's hearing the same old crap and expecting a different result. She'll learn on her own and will deal with that when it comes.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions, but at the end of the day it's between sae and goth as to what happens next. Right now she's gone and goth has to pick up the pieces of his life and move forward. Based on (several) personal experiences, it's hard as hell and it's really going to suck.

Goth, we've PMd about this on several occasions and I'll continue to be there should you need to talk. If it were me, I'd move forward, but never give up until that famous "fat lady" sings. From what I've been reading, she hasn't even had a warm-up.

Very well said Kis.