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Being On An Even Keel If Things Go Great,. Or Terrible..

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Can we sticky this thread in the SS forum? Just to drive Mils, Goth, and those other posters crazy. 😛

I wanna get the "Last Word" in.
 
I'm going to say something, with extreme seriousness.

Now I'm fucking pissed off. While people think I overreact to things, my view is this.

He can say anything he wants about me.. but to drag my dead mother into it, when shes not here to defend herself, and not part of this forum, is seriously sewer rat tactics.

A question: How would any of you feel if he dragged YOUR dead mothers into situations you encountered on this forum, and took potshots at your mothers the way he just did at mine.

Henceforth, no one can sell me that he "cares". Not after that post. He just wants to see how low he can go. .

The ONLY one that would have a right to make a post like the one he made.. is my dad. He was her husband, is my father, and was part of our family. cold's purpose was to be nothing more than vicious to a new low.
 
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when shes not here to defend herself, and not part of this forum
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Now, that is a question... Would she be here if she was alive(posting on the TMF)? Who knows?

Your question:
How would any of you feel if he dragged YOUR dead mothers into this.
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You forgot the question mark.

First off, nobody has mothers...

My grandfather passed away in October. He helped raised me because I had no father growing up, and he was the closest thing to a father figure I had. Never felt the need to promote that part of my life; not only in a public internet forum, but in real life as well. The card was dealt to me, and continued on...

It is nothing more then trivial bullshit. Making it into something greater, of course you are going to have antagonists. The next goal should be: stop being a jackass. And, do not take it the wrong way, Mitch, please.
 
jager, I've always liked you. To answer your question.,. no, she wouldnt be here if she was alive.

This is more than just an "antagonist" This is a personal attacker the likes of which I've not had on my 10 years here.

How am I "being a jackass". I'm told to ignore it. It almost goes to the second page, he pushes it back to the first page.

I give up. This thread will go on indefinitely because this is whats being allowed.
 
Mitch, for the love of God, let this go. We all understand you don't like coldneck. Dammit, we all KNOW he is going to say something in this thread. Here's some helpful advice..

DO

NOT

RESPOND

TO

HIM

Seriously man, you keep saying he wants to "get the last swipe". Yet, it seems like YOU want the last word. Which is why this thread stays alive. For the record, he did not take a swipe at your mother, he took a swipe at YOU.

His quote? "If I had a normal relationship, instead of a weird co dependent, live with mom until she dies".

Break the sentence down Mitch. "If I..(meaning YOU), had a weird co-dependent (still talking about YOU), live with mom until she dies." WHO is living with mom? YOU. He didn't make one single insult towards you mother. He made it to YOU. I know how devastating it is to you that you lost your mother. We all sympathize with that. But man, this obsession you have with coldneck is what is keeping this thread alive.

We know he is going to say something. Not one of us is going to fight your battle and chastise him. Here is what is going to happen Mitch. He is going to post in this thread again. It is practically a given.

DO............NOT..........RESPOND. Be a bigger man and just let the thread die....
 
Prime, while I see what you're saying, it isnt ME who has the obsession with coldneck. It's HIM that has a history of posting in every thread I make. He's the one who is obsessed.,

I also have to wonder why none of you have told him to stop it.

It goes beyond me "not liking him" Due to his actions, I can honestly say I despise him worse than anyone I've ever encountered on this forum in almost 11 years.

Fine, tell ya what, I'll make you, kis, GQ, and everyone else happy by being the "bigger man".

Also.. FYI. The thread was almost dead last night, almost on the second page, and he pushed it back to the first page.
 
What keeps this thread alive is you. If he responds and NO ONE else responds, then the thread dies. You keep posting in it. The rest of us are not going to keep posting in it if you stop posting. Why would we? This thread will die once you let it go. Who cares if he replies one more time. Just DON'T RESPOND. Thread dies...
 
At times, you have to kill your EGO, Mitch. It is the only way to let go.

If you are SMART, so be it.
If you are DUMB, so be it.

Does it really matter?
Unless you care so damn bad.
Just be a witness of things... :popcorn:


The only thing permanent in this world is change. <<< quoted.
 
Mitch...you know what is near and dear to your heart. Why in the world would you allow some guy on the internet get in the way? It doesn't make sense.

Coldneck has a history of being a dickhead to folks. What do you do? Let him be a dick and move on...it shouldn't get you down. In all honesty...who the fuck is he? Nobody in your life. Why let that bother you?

You have to take things in stride and not let everyone get under your skin. They will try to poke and prod at ya....but you have to get some tough skin and not let it get under it.

We all have lost someone close to us at one point or another. I know it is recent with you and can strike a nerve...however, the more you let it bother it...the worse things will be. Ease up...take a deep breath...understand your own feelings towards your loved one....and know that nobody can change that regardless of how harsh their attacks are.

Brush your shoulders off man....as I hear a lot....let the haters hate...accept who you are and nobody will be able to bother you.
 
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Boh, I understand. Thanks.

jhop, thanks. I understand what you are saying.

I seriously wish there was a way to put a thread on ignore, like one can do with other members. I'm just going to have to stop reading this thread.

jhops right, in the larger scheme of things, cold and what he says doesnt matter. He isnt a close family member, or a friend of mine. He's just some guy on the internet who has an extremely negative history with me.

primes right. Letting it go does make me the bigger man.
 
Pretty sure coldneck was calling YOU co-dependant as the closeness with your mom was .... different than most, to say the least, with even you comparing the relationship you had to that of two lovers.
 
C.A.B. said:
Speaking for myself, I do not 'hate' Mitch. I see him for what he is unto himself. And while my opinion about his personal matters are irrelevant, I do see a fellow soul just trying to find his way, as best he is able, with what he has to work with... like all of us, he is flawed. And if perfection were sold in a bottle, I'd buy a case of it for everyone here.
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OK, "Most Hated" is pretty strong. I'll concede that.
I was trying to tie it in to the Casey Anthony bit as humorous, even though I'm fully aware he didn't allegedly murder his own child.

Maybe "Most Unpopular" would have been a better choice of words.

Regardless, I'm going to respectfully disagree with the message you're putting out there.

I don't see a "fellow soul just trying to find his way the best he can". I just don't.

I see a middle-aged man who is leeching off his parents.
He's done nothing but constantly bash the hell out of his father, but now that his life support system has been cut off, he has no problem sucking up, and plugging back in for another free ride.

I don't call that giving it your best effort.
I call that no effort.
Yet, it still doesn't stop him from whining and crying about his lot in life.

Most of us deplore that type of behavior.

One word comes to mind: Pathetic.

Here's a guy who's been handed many, many tools to succeed, but would rather blame his father, instead of manning up and taking the bull by the horns.

Flawed is one thing.
Being an ungrateful parasite is another.
 
prime, I'm trying, but I cant, I'm sorry. No one has the right to tell me to sit silently while this vicious slander and attacks go on from the same person every night. Would YOU want to, prime, if this was happening to YOU?

You know what is most pathetic, cold.,. The same person, whose behavior is like that of a sewer rat, being allowed to consistently carry on the way you have.

cold, no matter what bad would happen to you, it wouldnt be bad enough for me. You've made your position clear. If I was to post on this forum that I was diagnosed with cancer like my mom was, you would post your glee.

Newsflash for you, you vicious troll. Whatever agreement my father and I do.. or dont.. have.. it is none of your fucking business. You know what I'd really like to do? Find out who you are, and find out from your ISP what the definition of harassment is? If this is it.. I wonder if it s just cause to have your internet service cut off.

I';m almost banned for "harassment", because I send messages about feet and tickling, on a forum with that subject matter, and this is allowed to go on? I seriously dont get it. If cold's never ending attacks arent harassment, I dont know what is.

Also, since you think you know so fucking much.. My father knows I belong to an adult chat room, and that I've discussed my personal life and estrangement from him with that chat room. He doesnt care. He realizes that he doesnt have a right to tell me what to say. He discusses his situation with me with people who he knows. No one, in either of our worlds, has reacted to that situation, the way you have, with such hatred.,.
 
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Newsflash for you, you vicious troll. Whatever agreement my father and I do.. or dont.. have.. it is none of your fucking business. You know what I'd really like to do? Find out who you are, and find out from your ISP what the definition of harassment is? If this is it.. I wonder if it s just cause to have your internet service cut off.
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You are pissed-off drunk or high... I am just drunk! 😀 Anyhow...

This is why I called you a jackass! I am not not defending you or your antagonist! Stop posting tonight...
 
Mitch, in all seriousness, can you fathom at least a little bit why people are exasperated
and super annoyed with you? If you didn't post every detail of your personal life on this
forum, nobody would be able to throw it back at you down the road. Can you see why the
mods are tired of playing recess referee? You post stuff like this, then cry to them when you
want it to stop. The key to stopping it all is to stop posting threads like this. 90% of what you
post would be better suited to a cancer support forum. The other 9% to a forum where people
give a single fuck about the weather, beyond checking their local forecasts on their phones. And
the remaining 1% is probably okay.

At this point, what you're doing is saying "COLD! YOU STOP FIRST!" And he's saying "LOLNO." So,
who is going to stop first? If you just unsubscribed from the thread, and stopped clicking on it, you
wouldn't even know if someone said something insulting.

And for what it's worth, there have been waaaaay worse trolls than Cold here on the TMF. Way worse.
 
Okay, Brighteyes, so adding up the percents you have.. I should stop posting all together?

Your post is an absolute exxaggaration, as this is the first personal thread I've posted in the main forum in a long time. I post many things now in my blog.

That there have been way worse trolls than cold is your opinion. I'm telling you, in ten years, I've never encountered any like him.

I've already stated this was an ill advised thread. I admitted my mistake. I dont think it was cause for cold to go into every single aspect of my life, or forecast doom for me.

I'm never going to get you to see it from my polnt, because I know you dont like me. I dont think you're viewing it objectively.
 
Mitch....*sigh* I told you that he was going to post again and that he was probably going to say something to get you riled up. I told you he will post and he did. You keep falling for it, hook, line and sinker. Like so many others have told you, stop replying to the thread.

Honestly, Coldneck is stating in very blunt terms what many have tried to describe to you and tried to help you with. We have all watched your life unfold on this forum and we have witnessed many times how vile and evil your father is, then we hear he is trying to help you. Then we hear about yoru friend Barney and the trouble you had with him, then we hear he has read this thread (which showed your frustration with him by the way) and he agrees with you. Then, instead of letting things die, you go on saying "How come no one is scolding coldneck?" None of us are schoolyard classmates of yours. Why should we engage in a tit-for-tat with someone else just because you are having an issue with him?

Mitch honestly, this thread is so indicative of so many other threads of yours regarding your life issues. I understand that asking for advice can help someone, but your threads always turn out the same way. Someone says something you don't like and it becomes a negative. Just stop and think for a moment and ask yourself. "Yeah, why isn't someone telling Coldneck to stop? Why hasn't a moderator stepped in and scolded him either? Why does it seem like no one is supporting my cause?" The answer should be clear. Coldneck's "attacks" get worse because YOU also continue to attack him back. Don't life and say you haven't wished him ill will because you have. So, he is going to respond in kind. Tit-for-tat. It's like you have to have the last word. So does he. This is a battle of wills. Like I said, if he posted and NO ONE else responded, especially YOU, this thread dies.

You are 40+ years old. Mitch, I know dear old Dad has screwed you over, but guess what? You are WAY TOO OLD to rely on a parent at this point in life. taking care of your mother in her time of need? Good son. But now that you are on your own and the remaining parent is a guy you said that is pretty much evil, there is no way you should rely on him at all. You are not 18 years old, getting started in life. You are over FORTY. If you read Coldneck's posts and so many others, we are saying the same thing over and over and over and over and over and over. Be a man. Stand on your own two feet. DO NOT EXPECT YOUR PARENT TO HELP YOU AT THIS POINT IN LIFE. Coldneck pretty much is telling you that in a very crude, blunt way. He is not telling you to die. he is telling you to be a man at this point. Which is what so many people have told you, but you keep resorting to "we don't understand you" "your father owes you help.." "You will be starting your own business.." and so on and so forth, but we keep talking about the same thing over and over again. Hence the frustration of people.

Seriously, just stop replying to Coldneck. If he wants to be mean, let him be mean. Why should you let ONE guy ruin your day? Most importantly, if this thread has not shown you what happens when you continue to post personal things, then you will be a lost cause. Because here is what will happen. You are going to post another personal thread. Someone will disagree with you, you will call it an attack, and there will be another 15 page thread with you constantly trying to defend yourself. I am telling you Mitch, if you make another thread that talks about your personal life issues, then you absolutely deserve everything that comes in that thread, positive or negative. Seriously, you make another personal issue thread and I think NO ONE will ever try to help you and it will derail into antagonistic posts over and over again. JUST STOP.

We wish you luck in life and keep your personal issues to yourself at this point. It is for your own good health and stress levels. Post a thread when you succeed. Then you will get all the congratulatory posts you can ever imagine and you can even point your finger at Coldneck and say "told you so." He won't have anything to reply to.... See?
 
prime, I understand what you are saying. As for what agreement my father and I have, that is really between me and him. I didnt ask him for help. He emailed me when my mom took sick, and offered. Trust me, if he wanted to drop me, he could and there would be nothing I could do.

My best description of this thread is that its a pissing contest between coldneck and myself. (One of my dad's favorite expressions),.

Tell ya what, okay, to make you happy, I will stop replying to this thread even if coldneck wishes me to die tomorrow, and if I want to post anything personal, say on the anniversary of my mom's death, will do so in the blog.
 
I give it less than 24 hours before Mitch replies after saying he wont.


Again.
 
Not to be an attention ***** (this is where it always goes to hell, huh?)but go look at that thread, and my latest post to it.

There are about 3 MAJOR details that I'm not willing to post here that make all of these deaths A LOT more complicated, not to mention my fragile mental state BEFORE any of this ever happened.

So before you go shut off people's internets and some such, and continue to argue with a person who STILL hasn't done anything wrong, look at somebody next to you. Remember some time ago I told you to look at the homeless guy over and say your life sucks? For all intents and purposes I'm that guy now.

So while your situation undoubtedly sucks and there are people who don't get it/give harsh advice, there's always somebody going through something worse.

And you keep saying to be in your shoes? Okay. I am now. And before you go into saying her mom isn't mine, just stop and think about the 3 factors I'm not mentioning. So okay, I'm in your shoes.

And I still disagree with how you're handling it. I haven't been preaching this shit to you for years to not apply it myself. And you know what? It's fucking working. I went to work today. Guess what happened. I made money. I was miserable, didn't want to be there, felt like the world was about to end, and then I came home and my guinea pig died IN MY GIRL FRIENDS ARMS, 48 HOURS AFTER HER MOM DIED... and guess what I'm gonna do later on today? (5:10 AM as of this sentence.)

You know what I'm gonna do with all of this shit that you know, and even worse, what you don't know going on? I'm going to bury my guinea pig with my girlfriend, cry my God damn eyes out because sometimes that what you have to fucking do, stuff a nasty dollar sandwich in my fucking throat because I can't afford much more than that right now, and then go the fuck to work to strive for better.

And this is 48 hours after two important deaths. It's been a year for you. Move the fuck on, no, I don't mean forget, I mean move the fuck on to the point of supporting yourself emotionally and financially. I have to be the rock for my girlfriend and her family, myself, and every other person who's counting on me.

From your post history, all you have is you, and you can't even do that much?
 
I think the only thing that could possibly make this thread worse is trying to 'one-up' Mitch in terms of shitty living situations.
 
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