Being On An Even Keel If Things Go Great,. Or Terrible..

[chicago]

 

[kis123]

This right here is one of the many roots of your frustration, Mitchell. You post your dramatic threads, clearly looking for sympathy and support. Anything other than support and sympathy you automatically categorize as a "personal attack." That line you quoted Coldneck saying, "You live off daddy, you're going to end up homeless." Perfect example. That is not a personal attack. It's a warning of the eventual result of living off parents. They eventually die, and if you can't support yourself, you'll end up homeless.

Normally, I'd say that's none of Coldneck's business.

Except you've MADE it his business, and everybody else's by starting this thread and countless others like it. You seem to have this sense of entitlement that says, "I should be able to post a thread and expect nothing other than sympathy and support." That's not how the forum works and it's not how real life works either. If you're going to post personal and emotional issues like this, you better damn well be prepared to hear answers and responses other than those for which you are soliciting.

And really, what is so horrible about that? So Coldneck disapproves of your financial situation. What do you care? There are so many ways you could respond to his comments, not to mention ignoring them altogether. And yet what do we see time after time after time? Whining, whimpering, and mewling. "Coldneck is mean to me!....Coldneck said mean things to me!...Why don't you tell Coldneck instead of me to let the thread die?!"

That is the exactly the kind of thing to which people refer when they talk about first grade behavior.

Who do you think you're kidding Mitchell? You haven't learned a damn thing, and nothing will change. You'll go right on posting emo threads that air your personal business. Coldneck and others will tell you what you need to hear instead of what you want to hear, and you'll respond by wailing about the "unfair treatment" and "personal attacks" etc.

Until you stop blaming your problems on other people and take ownership of them, you'll never conquer them.

Now darn it Mitchell, you've forced me to have to agree with this post.......verbatim! And you know about me and DAJT........

But it is what it is.........and he's right about another thing.....you haven't learned a thing because you're still defending yourself instead of sucking it up and allowing this thread the black hole treatment it deserves.

I think Jeff and Myriads are somewhere either having lots of drinks or popping Excedrin like candy.......

 

[kis123]

 

[Leo tickles]

This is pathetic.

 

[Mitchell]

Tell you what, kis. I just read the latest replies to this thread. including DAJT, about whom I have the same opinion as coldneck.

As for what you said about Myr and Jeff popping Execdrin, no.. I think they are just going to let me take a good thumping.

Tell you what.. no matter what else is said.. no matter how bad.., by cold, DAJT.. whoever.. I wont say a word. Its now.. Wed at 350pm as I post this.. we wlll see how long this thread remains on the first page.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Congratulations, this is the single most pathetic, disgusting thread I've ever encountered.

 

[Mitchell]

I'm told to let this thread die, and another of my TMF attack dogs buts in,. The last time she posted in anything I had to say was when I expressed concern about my cousin's weight .

What is most pathetic is when someone only gets involved in threads to bash another.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

It wasn't last night, it was like, last month or the month before. Stop posting pathetic shit. Just stop.

 

[Mitchell]

Excuse me, my mistake about saying last night, but the point is clear, you only get involved to bash me, and what is the most "pathetic shit" is someone who only involves themselves to bash another.

The joke of this all is.. Barney knows all about this thread. I told him, and we had a long talk. His message to me "Why are you still there?" I used to know, now I'm questioning it.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

The fact that you would start a thread about your friend not paying enough attention to you
and whatnot is just ridiculous. You're a middle-aged man. You can't take criticism. My best
friend in the world punches me in the face with the truth when I need it, and I wouldn't have
it any other way.

And then you showed your fetish forum hangout to said friend. I'm baffled, I tell you. Baffled!

 

[chicago]

Tell you what.. no matter what else is said.. no matter how bad.., by cold, DAJT.. whoever.. I wont say a word. Its now.. Wed at 350pm as I post this..

Like 4 hours later and you're back.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Like 4 hours later and you're back.

I think he's posting for the lolz.













lol.

 

[Mitchell]

Go read my latest blog entry, Brighteyes. Considering your attitude toward me, I doubt it will explain anything or that you'll understand.

It doesnt matter how "old" someone is. Feelings exist about things like this.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

No thanks. I've seen enough. 😉

 

[Mitchell]

Whatever.. I know what your motiviation was for posting in that thread then. It wasnt to mean well, and just to continue your history of bashing me. My feelings in regard to your posting history with me stand as is.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

I could not give less of a shit about what you think about me. lol.

 

[Mitchell]

Thats fine. The feeling is mutual.

 

[BrightEyes1082]

Uh huh. Clearly.

 

[coldneck]

Mitchell. WoW!!!
You've really earned the "Most Hated" title on the TMF.
Congrats. Your new roommate is Casey Anthony.

She just declared bankruptcy, I suspect you'll be close behind.

You can blame me, or any of the myriad people who've been unfortunate enough to cross paths with you, for your misfortunes, but the reality of it is, you and you alone, made the choices that have led you to where you currently are.

Your Dad and his wife will eventually grow weary of supporting a grown man, in his mid-40's, who is chock full of excuses as to why he can't support himself, and finally cut you off.

I believe this is not so much as a malicious prediction, as it is an eventuality.

People get sick of whiners and excuse makers. Even Dads. Especially Dads.
And this is what you've become, without a doubt.

A spoiled, former rich kid, who doesn't want to make his own way, work, or sacrifice anything like the rest of us.
It's much, much easier to whine on a public forum instead of actually WORK your way through life. Right?!?

You have a tough road ahead of you ... and like KIS sez, "It's gonna be a bumpy ride."

 

[Mitchell]

Instead of sinking to cold's sewer rat level of cursing him the way he has me. I'm just going to ask one question. HOW AND WHY are these not considered PERSONAL ATTACKS? This is the list of his predictions.

I'll be declaring bankruptcy.

I'm the "Most Hated Man on TMF"

I'll have a tough road ahead of me.

It will be a bumpy ride.


"My Dad will cut me off"

Oh, let me guess.. "Hes predicting the future".

Once again, he does this because HE CAN, because the GR doesnt apply to me when it comes to being attacked.

I have one wish for you, cold, that a force greater than any of us, punishes you severely for your malvolent forecasts.

I've talked to a friend about leaving the forum. This person advised me not to do that, and that if I do so, the trolls like you win.

Internet definition of "Troll": "Someone who does nothing but post inflammatory, off topic messages in an online community" (Quoted From the Wikipedia) This describes you and your posting toward me on this forum perfectly.

Why your predictions are so disgusting is this.,. At least the others who have posted frustration toward me.. have said nice things at some point. You NEVER have, so your intent is clear.

Your posts are also delusional:

"Spoiled rich kid" (Your words). In childhood, maybe, to a degree, but I never asked for much, even my dad knows this. After age 19, I had.. no medical insurance, no grad school education, no vacations, and no money. Rich people have, educations, vacations, money, and insurance. If you would define me as a rich kid from soph year in college on, anyone who knew me and the situation would say you are positively delusional,

I also have to ask one thing, to people that (used) to be my friends, and perhaps have expressed frustration to me with this thread.

kis, GQ, Leo. All of you were mega supportive to me during my ordeal with my mom, and have said encouraging things to me, which I appreciate. Why have none of you said to coldneck : "Okay, enough is enough. We know you despise Mitch. You've posted your hatred/predictions to him and his life. I've been told by you guys that I should stop responding to let the thread die, but why has the same not been said to him?

 

[Leo tickles]

I just bought a new keyboard today. It's like... split in half and I think its for people who type the "correct" way.


Just thought I'd throw that out there before exchanging it.

EDIT: I guess I should answer but really, what's the point?


The reason that I haven't said anything to coldneck is that 1, he isn't wrong for sharing his opinion. That is, after all, the point of posting something to a public forum, no? Just because he isn't saying what you want to hear doesn't make him a troll. He's saying what everybody else is, in his own way.

And 2, it isn't my day to watch you. And what I mean by that is I'm not going to babysit a 40 something year old on a forum. If I was sitting next to you and you choked, I'd save you. If you needed immediate evacuation from your house and I was able to, I'd provide a temporary retreat. But yelling at cold, or anybody, on a forum, because they said something bad in your honor? Especially when they aren't doing anything wrong? Fuck no.

Further more, you put me on ignore and then ask me questions, take me off to get an answer, then put me on ignore again if I say something you don't like. Then you say you won't post anymore about 10 times, and then you come back to post.


What is it that you want from us? Answer that question and put cold and me and everybody else aside. What do you want from us? What do you want to take away from posting your life on a fetish community full of people who have their own shit to do?

And better yet, why the fuck should any of us care? Especially since you refuse to do what you need to do to improve the situation that's been so horrible for the last number of years?

 

[Bothersome]

Despite how pathetic everyone seems to think this thread is, they sure don't mind bumping it back up to the front page at every opportunity.

 

[GQguy]

I just bought a new keyboard today. It's like... split in half and I think its for people who type the "correct" way.


Just thought I'd throw that out there before exchanging it.

EDIT: I guess I should answer but really, what's the point?


The reason that I haven't said anything to coldneck is that 1, he isn't wrong for sharing his opinion. That is, after all, the point of posting something to a public forum, no? Just because he isn't saying what you want to hear doesn't make him a troll. He's saying what everybody else is, in his own way.

And 2, it isn't my day to watch you. And what I mean by that is I'm not going to babysit a 40 something year old on a forum. If I was sitting next to you and you choked, I'd save you. If you needed immediate evacuation from your house and I was able to, I'd provide a temporary retreat. But yelling at cold, or anybody, on a forum, because they said something bad in your honor? Especially when they aren't doing anything wrong? Fuck no.

Further more, you put me on ignore and then ask me questions, take me off to get an answer, then put me on ignore again if I say something you don't like. Then you say you won't post anymore about 10 times, and then you come back to post.


What is it that you want from us? Answer that question and put cold and me and everybody else aside. What do you want from us? What do you want to take away from posting your life on a fetish community full of people who have their own shit to do?

And better yet, why the fuck should any of us care? Especially since you refuse to do what you need to do to improve the situation that's been so horrible for the last number of years?

Agreed.

Coldneck speaks of our reality. It's nothing personal to you. If anyone on this forum were to live and think like you, we'd be in your same boat! The forum would react to us the same way that they do to you to anyone else that refuses to take responsibility for your life.

When your mother passed...there's nothing you can do. We sympathized and extended our empathy. But now and everything else you complain about....you can change it, we've changed it in our own lives but you refuse to. Then you double/triple/quadruple down when we all know you're in the wrong.

If you listened to one of us that told you the truth in a more gentle way and coldneck came in with his brutal truth, we'd stop him and say "hey bro, he's got it". But you still don't get it. Maybe Cold with his cold water will wake you up.

That's why.

 

[C.A.B.]

Mitchell. WoW!!!
You've really earned the "Most Hated" title on the TMF.
Congrats. Your new roommate is Casey Anthony.

Speaking for myself, I do not 'hate' Mitch. I see him for what he is unto himself. And while my opinion about his personal matters are irrelevant, I do see a fellow soul just trying to find his way, as best he is able, with what he has to work with... like all of us, he is flawed. And if perfection were sold in a bottle, I'd buy a case of it for everyone here.

 

[kis123]

Agreed.

Coldneck speaks of our reality. It's nothing personal to you. If anyone on this forum were to live and think like you, we'd be in your same boat! The forum would react to us the same way that they do to you to anyone else that refuses to take responsibility for your life.

When your mother passed...there's nothing you can do. We sympathized and extended our empathy. But now and everything else you complain about....you can change it, we've changed it in our own lives but you refuse to. Then you double/triple/quadruple down when we all know you're in the wrong.

If you listened to one of us that told you the truth in a more gentle way and coldneck came in with his brutal truth, we'd stop him and say "hey bro, he's got it". But you still don't get it. Maybe Cold with his cold water will wake you up.

That's why.

^This^

I just bought a new keyboard today. It's like... split in half and I think its for people who type the "correct" way.


Just thought I'd throw that out there before exchanging it.

EDIT: I guess I should answer but really, what's the point?


The reason that I haven't said anything to coldneck is that 1, he isn't wrong for sharing his opinion. That is, after all, the point of posting something to a public forum, no? Just because he isn't saying what you want to hear doesn't make him a troll. He's saying what everybody else is, in his own way.

And 2, it isn't my day to watch you. And what I mean by that is I'm not going to babysit a 40 something year old on a forum. If I was sitting next to you and you choked, I'd save you. If you needed immediate evacuation from your house and I was able to, I'd provide a temporary retreat. But yelling at cold, or anybody, on a forum, because they said something bad in your honor? Especially when they aren't doing anything wrong? Fuck no.

Further more, you put me on ignore and then ask me questions, take me off to get an answer, then put me on ignore again if I say something you don't like. Then you say you won't post anymore about 10 times, and then you come back to post.


What is it that you want from us? Answer that question and put cold and me and everybody else aside. What do you want from us? What do you want to take away from posting your life on a fetish community full of people who have their own shit to do?

And better yet, why the fuck should any of us care? Especially since you refuse to do what you need to do to improve the situation that's been so horrible for the last number of years?

and ^This^

Are the reasons why I or no one else is coming to your rescue where coldneck is concerned. If he was wrong I would've called him on it a long time ago. His truth is tough, but it is what it is.

Besides, we are NOT in the first grade and he didn't steal your pencil! Put on the big boy pants and handle your business and stop with the complaining. You should get off this computer and start working on improving your life and circumstances.

Coldneck is also right about another thing; your father isn't going to support you on the long term. You MUST have an exit strategy or you may end up in a really bad way. Stop wasting your energy looking for loopholes.......they're aren't any.

I completely sympathize and understand that you are still grieving about your mother. I have buried my mother and my husband; my kids are still grieving and I haven't even had the chance to process it all because I have to be strong for them. He wasn't always the world's greatest husband, but he was a great father to my children and that deserves respect.

Many of us have incurred personal losses and I have more than my share. I simply cannot afford to allow the grief and depression to overtake me; it can be brutal at times. But at some point you must get up and move forward with your life. My mother and husband are gone from this life, so I celebrate their lives by living mine as best as I can. It still hurts, but I keep going.

You MUST do the same, no more excuses, no more pity parties! Just do the damn thing already and report your progress. Maybe coldneck would get on that bus and be supportive. But no one is going to support you in the state you're currently in......NO ONE!