TicklingDuo
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Del, please read this reply...
because you obviously haven't read and understood the others.
Not all tickling is sexual in nature.
Not all tickling is done in the nude.
NONE is righteous except the Lord, our God.
To sit in judgement of others is itself a sin of presumption (that we have any right to do so)...just as going about your way and assuming final forgiveness without repentance is a sin of presumption.
I would personally agree that tickling that takes on a more sexual nature and includes sexual contact may leave reason for concern. I too believe that this type of play belongs within the bounds of marriage. However, not all tickling is like that. And, I have no reason to judge those around me if they do it. All I can do is show love and be faithful in my own actions to what I believe.
Though we are called to fraternal correction and to call one another to conversion, I don't believe that the approach you are using is a valid one. It very much smacks of pharisaicle attitude. That is just as ungodly as any other sin.
Beating folks over the head is not Christ-like. Christ called people to Himself without pulling punches on the truth. We should follow Him and do the same. However, it should be done in love and humility.
When Mary Magdalene was brought before the Lord for the sin of adultery, He didn't call her a sick pervert. He protected her from those who would have stoned her and forgave her. THAT is what led to her conversion....love and mercy, not condemnation.
Please pray about this. Search your heart. Ask yourself if it isn't yourself that you are condemning by stating things the way you are. Then, give yourself the gift of forgiveness. I guarantee that you'll be more at peace and a better witness for Christ if you do. I know. I've been there.
Ann
because you obviously haven't read and understood the others.
Not all tickling is sexual in nature.
Not all tickling is done in the nude.
NONE is righteous except the Lord, our God.
To sit in judgement of others is itself a sin of presumption (that we have any right to do so)...just as going about your way and assuming final forgiveness without repentance is a sin of presumption.
I would personally agree that tickling that takes on a more sexual nature and includes sexual contact may leave reason for concern. I too believe that this type of play belongs within the bounds of marriage. However, not all tickling is like that. And, I have no reason to judge those around me if they do it. All I can do is show love and be faithful in my own actions to what I believe.
Though we are called to fraternal correction and to call one another to conversion, I don't believe that the approach you are using is a valid one. It very much smacks of pharisaicle attitude. That is just as ungodly as any other sin.
Beating folks over the head is not Christ-like. Christ called people to Himself without pulling punches on the truth. We should follow Him and do the same. However, it should be done in love and humility.
When Mary Magdalene was brought before the Lord for the sin of adultery, He didn't call her a sick pervert. He protected her from those who would have stoned her and forgave her. THAT is what led to her conversion....love and mercy, not condemnation.
Please pray about this. Search your heart. Ask yourself if it isn't yourself that you are condemning by stating things the way you are. Then, give yourself the gift of forgiveness. I guarantee that you'll be more at peace and a better witness for Christ if you do. I know. I've been there.
Ann