WallStreet
2nd Level Red Feather
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A sad fact is that you could even be attacked by someone you've known for years.
Talking on the phone is no where near enough. If you're going to put yourself in a position where you are helpless, bound, tied, or whatever, you'd better damn well be sure that you can trust the person.
It is unfortunate that QB's friend had this bad experience. I can remember the same thing happening to another female member about a year ago. If QB's friend had read those posts she probably would have been a bit wiser.
There are long time members of this forum all over the country. With all of these established people, is there really a need to meet someone who is not a forum member?
I am as big a tickling enthusiast as anyone here, but I must say that meeting someone simply for a tickle session is a bit strange. No dinner? No hanging out before hand? No meeting in a public place?
The only times I've ever met a woman strictly for tickling was either with a dominatrix or to do a modeling shoot. And trust me, I was screened heavily.
Think of it from the sexual predator's side of things. He surfs the net looking for lonely women who are willing to be tied up by strangers. This is irresistable to the predator. He will say or do whatever he has to in order to meet this woman.
A fully grown adult shouldn't need others to post the basic rules of meeting strangers. It is all common sense. I'm sorry if I come off sounding harsh, but that's the facts. What this scumbag did to QB's friend is unforgivable, but that's the unfortunate consequences of trusting a scumbag.
I think that the tickling community has evolved enough to where we don't need to meet people outside of our circle. Then again, what do I know?
Talking on the phone is no where near enough. If you're going to put yourself in a position where you are helpless, bound, tied, or whatever, you'd better damn well be sure that you can trust the person.
It is unfortunate that QB's friend had this bad experience. I can remember the same thing happening to another female member about a year ago. If QB's friend had read those posts she probably would have been a bit wiser.
There are long time members of this forum all over the country. With all of these established people, is there really a need to meet someone who is not a forum member?
I am as big a tickling enthusiast as anyone here, but I must say that meeting someone simply for a tickle session is a bit strange. No dinner? No hanging out before hand? No meeting in a public place?
The only times I've ever met a woman strictly for tickling was either with a dominatrix or to do a modeling shoot. And trust me, I was screened heavily.
Think of it from the sexual predator's side of things. He surfs the net looking for lonely women who are willing to be tied up by strangers. This is irresistable to the predator. He will say or do whatever he has to in order to meet this woman.
A fully grown adult shouldn't need others to post the basic rules of meeting strangers. It is all common sense. I'm sorry if I come off sounding harsh, but that's the facts. What this scumbag did to QB's friend is unforgivable, but that's the unfortunate consequences of trusting a scumbag.
I think that the tickling community has evolved enough to where we don't need to meet people outside of our circle. Then again, what do I know?