I understand Myriads position in this matter, but I just want to make one comment here.
In my experience, for the seven years I've been here, matters such as this are best being handled privately. Whenever I've been involved in a dispute with someone, such was always discussed privately in PM with the mods, to avoid myself and the other person or people involved, having comment passed on them.
Had such an incident happened to me, I would have messaged the admins privately about it, for two reasons. One, so as not to have my personal business in such a matter known about on the forum, and two, so as not to post about the actions of a former member, even if not named.
I hope that this incident can be resolved, but it just seems to me that with such a serious matter, especially one where an admin would have to do research that might have to be turned over to law enforcement, such would be best being handled not on a public forum, but within the confines of PM's and e-mails with the actual people involved.
Mitch