Would you ever meet an online contact in person?

[SheDevil1]

Hahahahaha "fan out over the possible places he could be watching from and try to flush him out". Okay, next time you go on a blind internet date, call a SWAT team. 😛

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother not only would meet a few people from this site but is tihnking of meeting someone of here for a few days. the wqorst case scenario the hollywood brother do not die alone and that is a good thing

 

[naveltkltr1350]

Yeah yeah yeah, shut the f--k up loverboy. 😛 Maybe the next one won't be like her.

I dont want to meet anyone else. well at least not for the reason i met with AR.

 

[AphxA1]

im afraid of everyone, i will just hide in my goofer hole

 

[Georgevvvvv]

I would.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

you know the hollywood brother is thinking of meeting a few people here on this site. there is onethat the hollywood brother is starting to formulate a vacation where the hollywood brother gets to meet a specific poster. the hollywood brother is tihnking of a neutral place like vegas where neither the poster in question orthe hollywood brother hail from. this way there is no edge given to one great hollywood brother tickler or even the hollywood brother himself

 

[Merciless11]

It all depends on the person. I seriously doubt I would meet any male privately. There would have to be at least one other woman and probably my significant other as well.
A gal needs to feel safe ya know!

M1

 

[gilmourwaters]

after afew months of online talking (tickling/feet and everyday life conversation) i did meet a lady.Spent the weekend together......tickled the hell out of each other, licked her hosed feet silly etc(lol)...she came back for more afew more times....then we got married!2 years later we're still tickling and her toes still taste just as sweet!

 

[TickledToDeath]

I have met plenty of folks on line......after gaining trust of all those I have met. Made a whole lot of friends. Held gatherings. Met the LOVE of my LIFE as well right on line in the TMF Chatroom. Trust is everything indeed and can make for great frienships and or relationships once trust is gained.

TTD

 

[babinsky1]

I vote yes....
I've done it twice....As a matter of fact, I flew to Chicago to meet someone.
Had a wonderful time. Of course it took a couple of months of instant message's...
And I found my "ticklee" in my home town...That took a year for us to get comfortable
before our first session...

 

[diddywc]

Nope not that I'd know of if I did... not that I'm not up for meeting some of them just hasn't happened yet

 

[smyslov]

online is great

Every time I've met an online tickle friend, it has been better than expected! I think the online helps us get past a lot we might not otherwise deal with.

 

[wendyandpeter]

I'm totally perplexed by "no" answers to these sorts of questions...I always have been. Why on EARTH would someone answer someone's ad/strike up a conversation with someone if they KNEW beforehand that they would never meet that person or ANY person from online in real life?? Certainly it's understood that the whole POINT of online personals is to move past online (unless the ad expressly says otherwise)...

I don't know about other people, but that just seems kind of like walking into a Burger King, walking up to the counter and then refusing to order food. It just doesn't make any sense. I don't get it, I guess.

 

[-Kunoke-]

I'm totally perplexed by "no" answers to these sorts of questions...I always have been. Why on EARTH would someone answer someone's ad/strike up a conversation with someone if they KNEW beforehand that they would never meet that person or ANY person from online in real life?? Certainly it's understood that the whole POINT of online personals is to move past online (unless the ad expressly says otherwise)...

I don't know about other people, but that just seems kind of like walking into a Burger King, walking up to the counter and then refusing to order food. It just doesn't make any sense. I don't get it, I guess.

I concur!

I've always wanted to meet up with someone and have a nice tickling session 🙂
I always saw it like this...
If you are going to reply to an ad from a person who wants to meet up for a session, then you should actually be considering it, not putting something like "I wish I could." Or maybe "No, but maybe we could hook up on AIM or MSN for some cyber tickling...here's my username..."

Now, why would I do it? Simple. I love to tickle, I love to meet new people and make new friends, and I love being in settings I've never been in before, and meeting someone from the internet would definatly be new to me. The unfortunate thing is, I have yet to find anyone remotely from my area, and well, I'm not all that attractive, which does in fact strike an issue with meeting people from online...I lack a digital camera, so if I were to do this, I wouldn't want the first impression on the person to be "Whoa, he's hideous.."

That beside the point, I would absolutely meet someone I met online! It'd be a great adventure and a great chance to get my tickle on!

 

[wendyandpeter]

Cybertickling???

"Cybertickling" -- give me a break...

I suppose that if someone thinks of cybersex as a valid form of sex, one could see cybertickling as valid also. There are those who would argue till the cows come home that sex is 98% mental ... blah blah blah. The problem with cyber-ANYTHING is that it lacks actual human contact, which is the most important part. There's absolutely nothing empowering about cybersex, cybertickling, etc., because the participants do not have to deal with the vulnerability and get over the hurdle of face-to-face contact. Online, it's so easy to become another person altogether, with a better face, a MUCH better body, a distinct lack of personality disorders, etc. There are those who would argue that's a good thing -- the creation of an alter-ego -- yada yada yada. The problem there is that unless you are completely psycho, you will realize that you are living a lie. That cannot feel good. So it's actually DIS-empowering to get caught up in that web. That must really suck.

Now, all that said -- if you are engaging in cyber-something with a real-life partner who you only see every other weekend because of distance, that's another thing entirely. But when cyber-contact substitutes for real contact, THAT's a big problem.

Just my two cents' worth,

Pete

 

[shazbot]

I would no doubt have to really, really, know the person before hand. Whether it would be pictures, phone calls, or anything of the like. Nothing beats a face to face meeting, but there's nothing wrong with giving yourself complete confidence to know what you're going into before meeting an online person.

Not said to be shallow, or just being based on physical appearances. This is precautionary as pertaining to all aspects.

 

[-Kunoke-]

Hmmm....notioning back to cybertickling....

I agree. Cyber-anything seems empty and pointless because it lacks physical contact. Also, when people get caught up in that stuff, they really start to get addicted to it, and it becomes a huge problem. Soon, the person finds that every time their cybertickling buddy comes online, ther first thing they say isnt "What's up? How are you today?" or anything like that, but instead, says "Hey, wanna cybertickle?"

In the end, I think cybertickling is stupid. 😉
I stick to real tickling.

 

[Budweiserbob!]

I would like to meet some people online, but most of them live over in AMERICA!

DARN YOU AMERICA FOR BEING ABOUT 50x BIGGER THAN US! *shakes fist furiously (no, not in THAT context >😛)*

 

[ticklemad]

Aaaaaw Bob I take it you are in the UK then?

I have met with 4 people I have met through tickling forums now and they have all been positive experiences, some more than others I admit but I would have no probs meeting any of them again. I hasten to add we've only met after spending some considerable time getting to know each other, regular chats on IM's and phone calls etc and on 2 occasions a munch first before any play, then again I've also stayed overnight with 2 of them but that just goes to show the level of trust that built between us from taking the time to get to know each other I guess.

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Yep. I am a Uk citizen, and I'm DAMN PROUD OF IT! Even though I find american lifestyles cool! ^^

Wow...You put a lot of trust in the people you meet. Guess that goes to show how much time you spent talking to them I guess! 😀

But one day I'm gonna spend a couple months IN america and see if I can meet some fellow ticklephiles! ^^

But for now I shall wait here in the UK as my jobs going pretty well! ^^

 

[nessonite1]

Tell me where and when, BuddyBob! 😀

 

[Dussicar]

I would definately want to meet someone from the tickling community in person. Any person can tickle sombody they know, but there is a clearly defined difference between that and being able to live out my fetish with someone who not only knows but understands. To me, that is the epitome of true freedom...Atleast as far as this little fetish of mine goes. 😀

Unfortunately, I live in a province that as far as I'm sure of, has only little old lonely me as a tickle fetishist in it.
Of course, knowing my luck, there probably are other tickle fetishists here in Saskatchewan, but are all male.

Yeesh. I need a nice female lee to sweep away into gales of helpless laughter.

I've toyed with the idea of putting an ad in the personals section, but part of me keeps saying "what's the point?"

 

[Budweiserbob!]

Ness:

Where: The restaraunt at the end of the universe.

When: At the next full moon.

If you need directions I'll be happy to help you! 😀

 

[Kalamos]

Milliways. Such a wonderful place...

 

[Timewarp]

I believe anyone claiming to be a girl on the internet is either a man or an undercover agent.