Would you ever meet an online contact in person?

[strider1]

Yeah, I would.

 

[dthomas1022]

By all means meet an online contact.

I have and will do it again, went to New Jersey and had best time of my life, I know the other woman had the best time of her life. Was in N.Wildwood NJ and Cape May NJ it was the lighting of the town celebration for the holiday's,
Went In carriage ride throughout the Old Victorian Town. The weather was perfect in the day and hit the shores of Wildwood with that amusement park that happened to be closed for the season, Dang.... But still in Love with the ocean.. :happy:

 

[dthomas1022]

I have and will do it again, went to New Jersey and had best time of my life, I know the other woman had the best time of her life. Was in N.Wildwood NJ and Cape May NJ it was the lighting of the town celebration for the holiday's,
Went In carriage ride throughout the Old Victorian Town. The weather was perfect in the day and hit the shores of Wildwood with that amusement park that happened to be closed for the season, Dang.... But still in Love with the ocean.. :happy:

you know what i mean HOLLYWOOD BROTHER I know you know the area I'm talking about... :wooha:

 

[blackmagicjack1]

Did meet someone on-line. I would probably do it again, but just remember know matter how much you talk to a person, you're not going to know them until you meet and spend sometime with them. Actions speak louder than words.

 

[CheshireCatNY]

you can see why i'm less optimistic about online personals than you.

Really the only difference between the amount of freaks online or offline is how willing they are to show that freaky side. They're all around us children....they're just a lot more honest about themselves online....a little too honest sometimes 😀

 

[theticklingmaster]

I said maybe. Meeting someone from online would be okay. since apparently I don't have any luck face to face or from any place. However, I'd bring my sister to protect me/as my handler, kind of like Charles handling James Bond in The World Is Not Enough. I don't mind bringing my sister as a safety precaution because she is faster & stronger than me, & she has already offered to beat up anyone trying to milk me for what little money I have.

 

[colofootman13]

I would love to meet fellow ticklers.We met a guy that checked this site out,he came out and both he and I tickled my wife.We have met a couple times and it was fun.My wife wants to see me tied and tickled so we would like to meet women.I can also tickle her.It has been so difficult talking to women about meeting that I am willing to be tickled by guys.We do tickling with the other one there so women can feel comfortable knowing another woman is there.She can also tickle my wife,if she wants,and I can watch.

 

[mercytk]

Oh oceanhead and cellardweller- thank you😀 2 people after my own heart..

I've met someone from this forum, after a good a many months of chat and phone calls. It went very well, and I made a very good friend who's almost like a weird older brother to me 🙂

 

[Kuroha]

Wow!

I met a friend online that I fell in love with over time. We've been talking for over 5 months now and I really want to meet her in the future but when I popped the question up she totally freaked out on me like I was asking her the 20 million dollar question. After spending so much time talking,chatting, sharing feelings with one another is it too much to ask that person to meet up? Correct me if I'm wrong but now I just feel so wierd around her. =(

 

[Morpheus72]

To date, I've met (I think) 23 people from online. Seventeen of these were from Yahoo Literati, and we all met in Vegas. What a great time! The other six were meets that were to lead to online relationships -- sadly, only two did. On the plus side, I did meet someone who shared my interest in tickling and being tickled. Too bad that one didn't last!!

So yeah, I'd meet more people from online in a heartbeat. My advice is make sure you talk on the phone before meeting -- that gets it a little closer to real-life and makes it smoother.

Dave

 

[Tremere]

I've met girls from dating services, mostly eharmony but as for meeting people from here I'd probably say no. Military training has made me paranoid, and I'd just think I was walking into a trap...

 

[theteam1]

I have been meeting online people for quite some time now and have never had a problem. I have made many friends and now, years later still keep in touch.

It always good to make new friends, altho I have only been friends with them and not had any relationships or told them I am into tickling.

 

[Morpheus72]

so we should....I am right here in St. Louis Missouri- sane and equipped to tickle the ooomph outta damn near any female lees....

Seems to me that's what the "gatherings" are for....

Dave

 

[Bournemouthstu]

Well about 5 years ago it was a lot easier...nowadays I sometimes feel like I am "accused" before I speak lol. For the record
1. I don't carry an axe
2. I have a life
3. I haven't knowingly murdered anybody recently....

Interestingly enough murder isn't a major crime in the Uk..its actually very rare as are most serious crimes lol but people worry and i understand that....however if you meet someone in a bar and take them home...whats the difference? You still don'treally "know" yhem...am I right? ( I am asking cos I am a bit thick)

What am I saying? YES I have and i survived and I wish people would loosen up a little - lets get back to the 60s yaaay! lol

Tes be careful but be reasonable...most people are actually ok and have jobs and lives and probably won't do anything to jepordise that.

 

[conehead180]

Maybe. It depends on 1) if I know the person well, and 2) I'd HAVE to see a pic of the person (and I have a very good sense for such things being real). And even then I'd be extremely careful. Yeah, I'm paranoid 🙂.

 

[patje1]

I voted yes because I want to know my ticklishness, especially my feet. But after first knowing each other better on this site.

 

[rhiannon]

Will you guys think I am crazy if I tell you that I even let someone I met online tie me up and tickle me? 🙂

 

[isabeau]

Will you guys think I am crazy if I tell you that I even let someone I met online tie me up and tickle me? 🙂

well so did i.. but i got to know him really well first. and trusted him completely.. however lately i have run into a few weirdos online that i almost decided to meet and am so very glad that i didn't go through with it.

melanie

 

[drew70]

It's dangerous to meet somebody in person for the first time and let him/her tie you up. This is equally true for guys as well as the ladies. There are some really nasty predators out there. I personally would not meet anybody alone unless that person were well established in the community, and even then, I'd make sure that somebody else knew what I was doing and where I'd be. There's no such thing as being too careful.

 

[Dussicar]

well so did i.. but i got to know him really well first. and trusted him completely.. however lately i have run into a few weirdos online that i almost decided to meet and am so very glad that i didn't go through with it.

melanie

Sooooo. The truth finally comes out.

Now, now, now. Remember: I POLITELY asked if I could stalk you. 😀

PS: Where's my therapy money? Like I told you before. Be sure to send it with your return adress, phone number, and times when you're at home by yourself. :camera:

 

[Dussicar]

Will you guys think I am crazy if I tell you that I even let someone I met online tie me up and tickle me? 🙂

Melanie and Drew are right, though. You have to be VERY careful as to who you meet.

Even then, all precautions should be taken.


Some psycho's WILL bide their time.

 

[isabeau]

Sooooo. The truth finally comes out.

Now, now, now. Remember: I POLITELY asked if I could stalk you. 😀

PS: Where's my therapy money? Like I told you before. Be sure to send it with your return adress, phone number, and times when you're at home by yourself. :camera:

well now you know i would meet you in a heartbeat you and drew70 also..i've known you both for some time..

lol very funny sure i'll give you my return address and phone number.. hehe

melanie

 

[rhiannon]

I knew the guy for six years before I actually decided to meet him. I was fully aware of possible risks but thought it was worth it. And it very well was! 🙂

 

[MrPartickler]

I knew the guy for six years before I actually decided to meet him. I was fully aware of possible risks but thought it was worth it. And it very well was! 🙂

six years?!? :wooha:

Well to answer the question for myself. Yes.

To clarify, however, there's just no reason a first (or second) meeting has to involve bondage or tickling or anything. Meeting face-to-face is just a better (i.e., the best) means of getting to know someone in real life. I tried online dating for a time and if a meeting didn't take place w/i a week or two, I knew to look elsewhere. Some people live online; once I decided not to deal with that, I met more people. It was that simple. (And, from talking to some of the women I met, men were just as bad as women in that department. So that was a two-way street.) And note that the meetings in all cases were just to get to know the other person and to decide whether or not there would/should be future meetings. Of course more could have happened, but there was never a reason to come in expecting it.

Honestly, if some people approached meeting strangers in real life the same way they did strangers from the internet, they'd never leave their homes. After all, someone stranger would see their faces...and, God forbid, maybe even shake their hands! LOL

Anyway, if anyone takes the approach that a first meeting is just a "get to know you" kind of thing, they'll likely be more open to meeting people--for coffee, drinks, whatever. If that's clear up front, either person can determine how far things go at any time thereafter without any pressure.

 

[rhiannon]

six years?!?

Yes, what's so bad about that? 🙂

there's just no reason a first (or second) meeting has to involve bondage or tickling or anything

Of course, it doesn't have to. 🙂 But it can if it feels right, and it can be great.