Would you permanently change your tickling fetish for a socially accepted turn-on?

[Bator]

You,re certainly right about that, I usually only hear about it when someone has been overly zealous and ends up in court for attacking some females foot in a public invironment. That is usually where the Psychiatrists enter the picture and it shines a negative light on all of us. You know the old saying about 1 bad apple spoiling the barrel. Then people tend to believe we are all that way. The next girl that I date, I,m going to try to incorporate it into part of foreplay and see how it goes. I,ll make sure that it,s not here on campass though, I don,t need anymore drama at this time in my life.

 

[BigNorm]

for me, tickling is a vanilla fetish. why it seems so embarrassing baffles me. there are far more people that love much naughty or stranger fetishes, pain, sneezing, peeing, etc.

 

[stuporman]

Warlock666, when life's over it's over... wether or not there's a stage for us to stand on reflecting how well we managed our wants and needs after it's done is yet to be seen. So why would you berate and belittle your practically normal fetishes? First off foot fetish is supremely common containing up to around 30% of the population last i read. I don't think your problem is the tickling and foot fetish. I think you just care too much what people think of you. And i doubt that will ever change. I really wish someone could help you because this isn't a good position to take. It reminds me of school days when i hid my fetish from the world. Very unHappy Days. And yes i know what it feels like to be belittled for something you can't help or control. Sucks. So peace to you brother, if you were here I'd do my best to convince you to be who you are (within reason 🙂 ) and the rest of the world can think whatever they want because we here just don't care 😉.

 

[Master_Magnus]

If you don't mind my asking then, Warlock, what are you doing here if it's no longer something you're into? Is your purpose here solely the offer of rehabilitative services?

Yeah, I still linger here to talk to people who wanna find their way out of this "kink" as they call it. Besides, I think it's interesting where this thread is going. And apart from that there's still the general discussion forum, and there are some interesting threads there too, so there are enough reasons for me to remain.

 

[Master_Magnus]

for me, tickling is a vanilla fetish. why it seems so embarrassing baffles me. there are far more people that love much naughty or stranger fetishes, pain, sneezing, peeing, etc.

First thing I dont think there is such thing as a "vanilla" fetish. If it's a fetish then it's something unusual so it's not vanilla, as vanilla means something that fits perfectly into the category of the most usual stuff, the stuff that have nothing special about them. While in different contexts unusual may be good, when it comes to sex my opinion will always be that the best sex is vanilla sex. I mean look at a movie pointing some awesome characters, like "Troy", "Queen of the Damned" (The scene where Lestat has sex and exchanges blood with the Goddess Akasha), "The 13th warrior" and others. All this characters have vanilla sex and they look good this way. Now think how ridiculously would Achilles (played by Brad Pitt) look if he would be tickling that Trojan priestess he had sex with. But because he had vanilla sex with her with no kinks at all he retained the image of a noble and awesome looking myrmidon leader. What I'm saying is that tickling cant make you look good, especially if you're a guy. Even if it's not necessarily something icky or sick, it doesn't make you look honorable either, it's not something male-like. Besides, looking at the comments posted to tickling videos on Romanian video sites or the comments regarding tickling on Romanian forums, all people do when they hear about tickling is mock it with passion, or even aggressively insult it on the open like swearing and cursing. For example take the comments on the following video http://www.220.ro/funny/Ai-Gadila-Si-Tu-Putin/OP2d88miCa/ (use google translate if you dont speak Romanian, (as I guess I'm the only Romanian on this forum)). Some people mock the events in the video with really sharp tongues, while others call the two actresses insane *****s (like that guy Cuddl3s who posted a single word "târfe" which means *****s). If you look at a tickling video or at a real tickling scene and try to go past the arousal and judge the event logically you may definitely find the whole scene ridiculous, seeing two adults, two grown-up people tickling each-other, acting like kids. There is another video on that site picturing a porn actress being tickled by a guy. The video became restricted recently to members only but the comments are still visible (only the video doesn't play if you aint registered and logged in). Here's the link http://www.220.ro/sexy/Vedeta-Porno-Se-Gadila/a6UcrPrHvK/. Use google translate again and see what the fucking comments mean. Then perhaps you can make ya self an image about how fucking embarrassing even posting a tickling video or starting a tickling thread on a Romanian forum, let alone actually tickling a Romanian girl, and then you may understand what a big problem is to have a tickling fetish in Romania and how fucking embarrassing it is.

 

[Master_Magnus]

The reason I lashed out against Warlock is because I don't approve of what he's doing. I'm not the kind of person who would openly single out and attack textually over the internet, but there's something Warlock is, and always has been, doing for a long time now which really grinds my gears. And that's trying to spread his hate message against the tickle fetish itself and making everyone else feel bad about themselves in the process. We are a community of a minority fetish and the last thing we need is someone who can relate to the same pains that we've all experienced and making us feel worse about it. It's not helpful, it's not productive and it's not needed here.

Warlock, I'm sorry for lashing out at you like this, but what you've been doing really isn't doing any good to yourself or anyone. If you really do want to rid yourself of this fetish so badly, stop whining and do something about it. Just don't bring anyone else down with you.

It's alright, no offense taken. I know you misunderstood me, but what I'm trying to do is when I meet someone that dislikes his/her fetish consciously but crave it un-consciously, save them the grief and tell them to stop struggling to get accepted by society with this flaw because it ain't gonna happen anytime soon at least. The only time when tickle fetish will be world-wide accepted will be when over 50% of the globe population will be into tickling, so tickling would actually be swallowed into the notion of vanilla. For example prostitution is the oldest profession, meaning it's been practiced since the dawn of humankind, however it became socially accepted in the renaissance era. Who knows how many centuries will pass until tickling will stop being embarassing. I guess the cartoon companies are trying to achieve this goal by creating cartoons with tickling and bare feet involved, like those Disney characters Rapunzel and Esmeralda for example. I think it's just wicked on their part to force a fetish on kids, stealing their free will. The effect of the tv especially on a child is strong, almost as strong as hypnosis. When a child watches cartoons his/her mind achieves the theta level (deep trance), that's why kids are so attracted to cartoons, to live in a world of childhood fantasy, so the wicked cartoon creators can implement whatever the hell they want in the brains of the little watchers, thus manipulating the youngest people, the future of humanity according to their selfish wishes. If I was a parent or tutor I'd strongly forbid the children I would take care of to watch anything or do anything that would implement them a tickling fetish. Besides my aversion for tickling is also genetic, here in Romania tickling is frowned upon and the only Romanians that tickle each-other are kids. So I'm living in a society of anti-fetish people that are against fetishes in general, considering them sick and ridiculous, mocking them whenever they have the slightest chance (this I know from numerous discussion with numerous people, you'd think they have nothing better to do or that they have an orgasm whenever they mock a fetish) and they seem to particularly hate tickling and foot fetishism, so it seems I dont live in the most ideal place to have embraced this fetishes, so yeah I'm better off without them.

 

[whade06]

If you look at a tickling video or at a real tickling scene and try to go past the arousal and judge the event logically you may definitely find the whole scene ridiculous, seeing two adults, two grown-up people tickling each-other, acting like kids.

Have you tried looking at two people having sex objectively? It is undeniably goofy.

Who knows how many centuries will pass until tickling will stop being embarassing.

Some present-day societies are more accepting, with several subcultures and minority groups. But hiding like a coward means that it will not change ever, no matter how many centuries may pass, not now, not ever. It's basically asking for other people to bear all the discomfort of bringing about social change. Those do not happen just by themselves you know. I understand that you live in a more conservative place, so maybe it's not an option for you. For now. But some part of you seem to be wishing for it, so at least you can be a little nicer and more encouraging to people who do admit it, even only if in secret.

I think it's just wicked on their part to force a fetish on kids, stealing their free will.

You're probably kidding about this one, right? xD Should we blame it on Chip and Dale why some people becoming furries?

I just wanna note that many people are able to watch those scenes without developing any sort of kink. It's more like, 1. if you are finding these erotic, then maybe you are the one who has a problem, 2. perhaps there is something inherently erotic about one type of activity, and tghe ones who claim otherwise are the retarded ones.

 

[Master_Magnus]

Have you tried looking at two people having sex objectively? It is undeniably goofy.



Some present-day societies are more accepting, with several subcultures and minority groups. But hiding like a coward means that it will not change ever, no matter how many centuries may pass, not now, not ever. It's basically asking for other people to bear all the discomfort of bringing about social change. Those do not happen just by themselves you know. I understand that you live in a more conservative place, so maybe it's not an option for you. For now. But some part of you seem to be wishing for it, so at least you can be a little nicer and more encouraging to people who do admit it, even only if in secret.



You're probably kidding about this one, right? xD Should we blame it on Chip and Dale why some people becoming furries?

I just wanna note that many people are able to watch those scenes without developing any sort of kink. It's more like, 1. if you are finding these erotic, then maybe you are the one who has a problem, 2. perhaps there is something inherently erotic about one type of activity, and the ones who claim otherwise are the retarded ones.

1. Yes, I can regard sex scenes and comment them technically, without being carried away if I put a minimal effort into it.

2. I do not wish to struggle to make fetishes of any kind easy for the people of futuristic societies. In fact I would be happy if there would be no fetishes and kinks at all in the future. As I said, fetishes can not be taken seriously, they are playful (especially tickling, it is a very playful fetish and foot fetish is humiliating) and they will never be seen warrior-like. The occult symbol for masculinity is the same symbol printed on the Ace of Spades card. The symbol represents a spearhead. If the symbol for masculinity is a spearhead, then men are undeniably warriors. And if warriors would replace weapons with feathers and turn wars into tickling fights the level or ridiculousness would increase so much that it would transcend all the higher planes. Besides, if I would struggle to make tickling fetish socially acceptable in România, that would encourage the future generations to be fetishists, since fetishes would be considered normal and I dont want to bear the weight of guilt, that the fact they became fetishists is my fault. They would feel bad about it even if it's socially accepted (like people that practice "dirty jobs" feel bad about them at least at some point in their life, even though it's probably not their fault that they had to choose those jobs) and I dont want them to blame me.

3. I was not kidding about the cartoons. The grandest conspiracies use the portals you least expect. A mastermind knows that a kid will be a grown up citizen in a few years, and that a human mind, especially a kid's mind can be easily manipulated by video scenes and also that the adults taking care of children take cartoons lightly, never being concerned much about what could be the effects so the mastermind uses this way to his advantage. Even if there's a genetic predisposition to developing fetishes there is a way it can be prevented. For example when you're breeding you should have vanilla sex, preferably with a vanilla partner (so the offspring has a smaller chance of inheriting the fetish). Second keep the child away from anything that could encourage the fetish (I know how my fetish started. I watched a Popeye cartoon, where Bluto was tickling Olive's feet. My babysitter was sitting near me at that time and she was barefoot so I tickled her feet and she seemed to enjoy it, the sick bitch, so that's how I got stuck with it. If I wouldn't have watched that cartoon, I would've never had a tickling fetish. My parents are not fetishists so my fetish can not be genetically inherited). When the children reach puberty, they can be told that along with their sexuality their fetish can awake and they should not feed it by masturbating at tickling videos,or developing fantasies of tickling someone or being tickled. They can be explained the ill effects of fetishism. I've read on sexual advice forums how psychologists regard tickling fetish. A very unusual fetish, largely unheard of that creates social isolation and depression in most subjects due to the difficulty of introducing it into a relationship. If you explain this to a person in puberty the chances that the person will develop a fetish will considerably decrease. If I will ever have children I will do all I can to prevent them from developing a fetish, and at the slightest sign of them developing a fetish I would take them to the best psychiatric doctor.

 

[10100110]

Lose my tickling fetish? Why the hell would I want that? It's not like I get excited about slaughtering little puppies. It's tickling, my god. If it's not exciting for whatever partner you have or will have, then I bet it's at least fun and/or erotic. Or, your partner is simply not very keen for erotic/sexual games and experimentation. Which sucks even for vanilla relationship.

 

[PurpleStyle]

Warlock, I thought you were slightly disturbed before and just needed a good talking to, but now I think you need serious help. I can't believe you're still mindlessly bull-rushing anybody in this thread who disagrees with you. I truly feel bad for you.

There are a couple of things that you need to ponder.

Foremost, when you say things like:

As I said, fetishes can not be taken seriously, they are playful (especially tickling, it is a very playful fetish and foot fetish is humiliating) and they will never be seen warrior-like. The occult symbol for masculinity is the same symbol printed on the Ace of Spades card. The symbol represents a spearhead. If the symbol for masculinity is a spearhead, then men are undeniably warriors. And if warriors would replace weapons with feathers and turn wars into tickling fights the level or ridiculousness would increase so much that it would transcend all the higher planes.

it would seem that you're mistaking some of the obsessive pre-occupation some people have been observed to display with tickling as "normal". I know there are people like that here, and I won't name them, but that is far from normal behavior. None of my personal friends, (some among them have a tickling fetish) display this behavior. I generally feel that people who act in such a manner have social problems. There's people who show a similar pre-occupation with sex in general. This isn't exclusive to feet, or tickling. I consider this to be a fault of the individual, not their turn-ons.

I'm not going to bother reiterating what I've said in the past because you do not listen, but I will say that it's very healthy to accept one's sexual proclivities. If it was so bad, how did my boyfriend manage to convince me to indulge him before I had any sort of experience with that? Does that make me immoral, or mentally deficient? 😉

Another thing to ponder; if you don't belong to this forum to promote tickling as a positive fetish, then why are you here? Nobody here is likely to change your mind. You're not likely to change anybody else's mind. The one thing we all have here in common is a positive view on tickling; except you. What purpose does railing endlessly serve?

 

[Wade1]

It,s not like I have had the chance to indulge in or enjoy my fetish anyway and this certainly is not the right time or place to start experimenting.

Good point. College is no place for experimentation.

I mean look at a movie pointing some awesome characters, like "Troy", "Queen of the Damned" (The scene where Lestat has sex and exchanges blood with the Goddess Akasha), "The 13th warrior" and others. All this characters have vanilla sex and they look good this way. Now think how ridiculously would Achilles (played by Brad Pitt) look if he would be tickling that Trojan priestess he had sex with. But because he had vanilla sex with her with no kinks at all he retained the image of a noble and awesome looking myrmidon leader.

Good point. There is nothing sexier than watching Brad Pitt in all his makeup and bronzer having carefully choreographed R-rated missionary sex (because the ancient Greeks never did anything weird or kinky).

 

[Master_Magnus]

There is nothing sexier than watching Brad Pitt in all his makeup and bronzer having carefully choreographed R-rated missionary sex (because the ancient Greeks never did anything weird or kinky).

Indeed, the most kinky thing ancient Greeks ever did is having their young female slaves wear some weird dresses (slightly similar with the dresses worn by harem dancers).

 

[Master_Magnus]

Another thing to ponder; if you don't belong to this forum to promote tickling as a positive fetish, then why are you here? Nobody here is likely to change your mind. You're not likely to change anybody else's mind. The one thing we all have here in common is a positive view on tickling; except you. What purpose does railing endlessly serve?

The reason Iţm still here is because I may find someone frustrated by tickling and save them some grief.

 

[Bator]

Although I have stated previously that if this potion was free of side effects positive or negative, I would drink it as I,ve never indulged in or enjoyed my fetish anyway, I have found someone or perhaps I should say that she found me. She is very beautiful and we hit it off immediately and she confided in me that she would love to be tickled especially on her feet. I didn,t even need to be the one to bring up the subject and have yet to tell her that it is my fetish as well. We plan to try it over Christmas. Imagine, two total virgins in this particular activity at least. I hope that all goes well as I,m extremely anxious about it. Happy Holidays everyone, it seems that I have gotten my wish. I hope that you find someone too Warlock, Merry Christmas.

 

[likeasong1]

Hey congratulations, 3030. That's truly awesome. If your favorite place to strike is the feet, you just may have a match made in heaven. We've had our disagreements, but believe me, I am nothing but six shades of happy for you (and maybe one of jealous).

 

[Bator]

Thank-you very much Likeasong, lets let bygones be bygones. Happy Holidays to you and I hope that everything works out for you as well. The natural aggression and competitiveness that help to make me a better player in my particular sport don,t necessarily translate well when I,m attempting to make a point and may come across poorly and over the top.

 

[Master_Magnus]

Although I have stated previously that if this potion was free of side effects positive or negative, I would drink it as I,ve never indulged in or enjoyed my fetish anyway, I have found someone or perhaps I should say that she found me. She is very beautiful and we hit it off immediately and she confided in me that she would love to be tickled especially on her feet. I didn,t even need to be the one to bring up the subject and have yet to tell her that it is my fetish as well. We plan to try it over Christmas. Imagine, two total virgins in this particular activity at least. I hope that all goes well as I,m extremely anxious about it. Happy Holidays everyone, it seems that I have gotten my wish. I hope that you find someone too Warlock, Merry Christmas.

Good for you I guess if you're happy and all that. As for me if you've read posts 72 and 75 you understand that I don't need tickling anymore to get aroused, and even if I did it wouldn't happen anyway. Meeting some girl with a tickling fetish now would really be a huge irony. Anyway happy holidays to you as well \m/.

 

[10100110]

Although I have stated previously that if this potion was free of side effects positive or negative, I would drink it as I,ve never indulged in or enjoyed my fetish anyway, I have found someone or perhaps I should say that she found me. She is very beautiful and we hit it off immediately and she confided in me that she would love to be tickled especially on her feet. I didn,t even need to be the one to bring up the subject and have yet to tell her that it is my fetish as well. We plan to try it over Christmas. Imagine, two total virgins in this particular activity at least. I hope that all goes well as I,m extremely anxious about it. Happy Holidays everyone, it seems that I have gotten my wish. I hope that you find someone too Warlock, Merry Christmas.

Looks like one hell of a Christmas for you. 🙂 I give you one advice (my own experience). While you do these first steps in tickling, make sure to have that nice smell of conifer (resin mostly I think) in the air. Smell is wonderful memory trigger. If you do this, you will have the Christmas forever asociated to your first tickling experiences. I do, and it's magic, really.

 

[Bator]

Looks like one hell of a Christmas for you. 🙂 I give you one advice (my own experience). While you do these first steps in tickling, make sure to have that nice smell of conifer (resin mostly I think) in the air. Smell is wonderful memory trigger. If you do this, you will have the Christmas forever asociated to your first tickling experiences. I do, and it's magic, really.

Thanks for the advice, I,ll take all that I can get.

 

[PurpleStyle]

The reason Iţm still here is because I may find someone frustrated by tickling and save them some grief.

That's funny, because you act more like a troll than a grief counselor. I should know, I troll quite often. At least I don't have a problem with my tickling fetish, though. So once again, I leave you to ponder your philosophical solitude and why you bother to stay here, when it seems that all you do is argue your incredibly bizarre viewpoint.

 

[LittleRed1]

Nope. I think it's a rather fun fetish, actually.

 

[Sunriseticklee]

I absolutely LOVE being into tickling.

It's something that I can indulge in when in public without getting those glances from people who would be creeped out if I engaged in my other fetishes outdoors. 😀

Plus, I absolutely love to laugh, and I love everything else about it- the connection, how it feels, the loss of control! Tickling is a pretty cool fetish to have. And it's pretty cool to do just for fun too!

Sunny
:wub

 

[Mercury1]

I can't see myself losing it... I'm embarrassed by it, yes, to the point where even saying "tickling" out loud makes me blush madly, but it's been a part of my life for as long as I've had memories. Getting rid of it would be like getting rid of my sight or sense of touch. It's a part of me; I can't even imagine what life would be like without it.

 

[Mash]

I can't see myself losing it... I'm embarrassed by it, yes, to the point where even saying "tickling" out loud makes me blush madly, but it's been a part of my life for as long as I've had memories. Getting rid of it would be like getting rid of my sight or sense of touch. It's a part of me; I can't even imagine what life would be like without it.

Agreed. It may not be the most normal fetish in the world...well what is, really? XD However, it certainly isn't the WORST fetish out there to have.

 

[FeatherDaemon1]

Nope, my fetish stays just where it is. I like it and enjoy indulging in it. I find it innocuous and harmless mostly. So long as you exercise some common sense and understand the meaning of tact then it is all good. Plus it is something that is playful in one venue and can be sensual in another venue. You can do it in public without getting thrown in jail and for the most part it is socially acceptable. Like many other things in life the bad wrap comes from people with no self-control.

So, in conclusion, Hell no.